you sure? - The Amber

someone needs to explain the difference to me... - Joshua Schnell

Other than the spelling? - Morton Fox

Gay is, like, gay. You know, as in, ‘I'm gay’. Ghey is more like, ghey - as in, ‘you're so ghey, dude.’ - Anthony Citrano

Ghey was made up to make it seem like it's ok to call someone gay. Still fucked up - Rodfather

@Rod - why isn't it OK to call someone gay? - Anthony Citrano

and away we go... - Cee Bee

I'm so confused - Shey

nothing wrong with acknowledging if someone happens to be gay, as long as they truly are gay and it's not said with any hint of derision. when you refer to someone as "ghey" or gay because they do something you don't approve of or are taking some kind of tone that insinuates a quality of child-like derision on your behalf, then it's probably not complimentary and therefore just kinda dumb. - Cee Bee

What Cee Bee said. If it's said in a matter of fact way to someone who is actually gay, there's nothing wrong with that. When someone says 'You're so gay/ghey', it's almost always said in a negative fashion at the expense of gay people. - Rodfather

Hmm... I dunno if I buy it. A lot of people in my life who are gay are not necessarily ghey, and vice versa. I'm going to consult aplusk on the matter just to be safe. - Anthony Citrano