I think a public room on friendfeed would work nicely for this. - Christian Burns

Hey, that's a good idea, Christian. - Amyloo

Lack of anonimity goes a long way toward everyone being neighborly. And who is going to wanna hang out with us anyway? :) - Christian Burns

Kind of what I was thinking; mutual aversion. From experience from other kinds of communities, you only have to say "We're your parents' age, you may not like our company either." To discourage seekers of easy homework help on a Jane Austen site, we said "The people who run this site are an eerily exact cross between your mother and your English teacher." http://pemberley.com/japaper... - Amyloo

Christian, not a room, didn't really have to be, but your idea worked great today. http://beta.friendfeed.com/stevegi... and it was entirely spontaneous, really interesting serendipity. - Amyloo