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"For me, cheating is anything I feel compelled to hide from my partners. Whether that's a racy conversation in online chat, or hooking up with someone at a party. If I feel compelled to hide it or lie about it, that's cheating." - browse

"If I can have Bill Russell play out of position as a forward, I'd got with Magic at the point, Russell at forward, and Wilt at center." - browse

"Beautiful, but... oh man, who leaves their bike out in weather like that?" - browse

"Were I in your shoes, I'd put the question to him. "So, how do I know you and your wife really have this arrangement, and this isn't just a line you use so you can cheat on your partner?" Perhaps he has an easy solution to this already. If he doesn't... I'd be very unlikely to proceed with him." - browse

"Yes. I mean, really. You have to choose? You can't find a girl who is sometimes one and sometimes the other?" - browse

"I really only know him from his work with Pat Metheny, but yeah, I'm a big fan of that collaboration. Do you have other pieces from Mays that you would highly recommend?" - browse

"I'm afraid I don't know him, but depending on what instrument and what kind of jazz, that's probably not too surprising. So...? What instrument does he play, and what kinda jazz? Is he performing at any local venues? Clue a guy in. :-)" - browse

"Oh man, I hope this isn't another case of a senior exec leaving because of on-going ego battles with Scott Forstall." - browse

"Definitely, tell her. But also acknowledge that such things happen in monogamous relationships too, all the time. I don't know that poly has a lot to do with situations like this happening any more often." - browse

"Here's my take on it. If I wanted a one-on-one player, Bird. If I wanted a single player to build a team around, Magic. Hands down, no question about it. Magic elevated every player around him, and pulled a team together in a way that was amazing to watch." - browse

"I completely agree; this skit felt more authentic than the original. All the people I know who are embracing raising chickens, home gardening, knitting, sewing, hand-made crafts, home brewing, big bushy beards, bikes with no gears... Smells like the 1890s to me." - browse

"I think it has a lot to do with budget, and proximity. If you're looking to spend a more modest amount, I'd encourage you to check out City Bikes, or the Community Biking Center and see what they have in the way of used bikes. But if you're buying a new bike, look for a local bike shop near you, that you will trust doing service on your bike. I like Bike Gallery, Bike and Hike and River City Bikes. Good luck!" - browse

"Fabulous band, thanks! They almost play *too* fast for my tastes. I'd kinda like them to slow down a bit so I could really enjoy the music. But still, some really nice work. Reminds me of the (one!) time I got to hear Les Paul play live. Hell yeah." - browse

"Yes, you should be worried. Be worried she may insist on you doing it every time now. :-)" - browse

"Who the fuck decided tripe like this is "news"?" - browse

"Yeah, or less. Really, the anxiety about the surgery was way worse than the event itself. Having my wisdom teeth out was **so** much worse. You'll have a day or two where holding a bag of frozen peas against your crotch provides some welcome relief, but it's not like you're paralyzed by pain without it." - browse

"Thrilled about it. Have never regretted it a single day. Nor have I found there to be anything different in my libido, sexual performance or anything like that. Business as usual." - browse

"I already did! *snip, snip*" - browse

"For me, what's worked best is trying to imagine the roles reversed. Let's say your partner was seeing someone else, and they started having sex, and she laid him so royally, he couldn't get the smile off his face for a week. If that happened, would he leave you for her? (Note: If the answer is "yes", you have other problems that should probably take priority.) But if he is certain there's no way that could happen, when he can say with great confidence that you mean much more to him than an orgasm (albeit, a world-class orgasm), then maybe he will be able to better accept your assurances when you say the same." - browse

"What I think I understood is that you're sad that your wife got to participate in a threesome without you, and before you. Ideally, you would have wanted your and hers first threesome experience to be together. (Lemme know if I'm wrong.) That's cool, I get that. I'd probably be bummed about it too. You're allowed to feel sad about it, and you sound like you're owning up to it. Well done. Now, what to do about it? You can't go back through time and make it not have happened. And it sounds like you still feel very secure with your relationship with your wife, and you don't need to take big actions to secure that (which would really be a first priority). But it seems like you might enjoy and appreciate getting to have your own experience in the near future. Would that take some of the ting out of the situation? Then here's my advice. Ask. It's possible it won't work out, sometimes the specific group dynamics don't mesh how you might like. But ask. Making stuff like this work is all about..." - browse

"No one else has said it, so I will. Don't bogart those! Puff, puff, pass. :-)" - browse