I'd say "define dead" since FF is not a man :)
- directeur
I meant dead like "nobody uses it". Admittedly I don't interact here much and post relatively few FF specific items, so I never got a lot of conversation going, but I used to get more comments or "likes" than I do now. Like 1 every few days rather than 1 a month. It reminds me a little of Pownce. I'm glad that you both are alive and here. I just fear this will get sucked into Facebook and be used to send us the names of people we might know.
- Cathleen Rittereiser
Yes, Facebook, thank you so much for your *amazing* suggested friend feature. A grandmother type with a crazy sweatshirt and another with her pants pulled down around her ankles. I'm so impressed with your uncanny ability to find just my type of new friend.
Yes, the "suggested by" gives it away. It's not the "you might also know…" automated recommendation. It says more about your friends than it does about Facebook.
- Mistletoe Glen
That was my understanding too. These are friends your friends suggest. Interesting circles you run in; I can't imagine a real person putting that rear shot as a profile pic on fb.
- Kenley Neufeld
from iPhone
sometimes I acidently end up accepting these as they feel just like actual friend requests. That bottom new friend might take some explaining to my wife. Facebook ought to consider letting users turn this feature off if they'd like. I know I'd turn it off.
- Thomas Hawk
That's hilarious. I always get recommended people I already know that are new to FB
- Francine Hardaway
The really question is did you friend either?
- RAPatton
haha, no, neither. I was tempted to friend the grandmotherly type since we've got 12 mutual friends but I have no idea in blazes who she is.
- Thomas Hawk
I'm more impressed with the 305 messages in your inbox.
- Kevin Pedraja
I'm so terrible with my email/flickrmail/facebook mail. I try and try and just can't keep up with it all.
- Thomas Hawk
Im less likely to subscribe to either .. unless I know them ,,,
- johnpiercy
I have 587 unread messages in my Facebook inbox. I actually read all them through e-mail, and there's no good way to mark all as read. Facebook sucks for e-mail-like communication (as does Twitter).
- Jesse Stay
At least facebook should not show the same suggested friends again and again once we hit X on it but it does show them repeatedly. Very annoying :(
- Muhammad Ahmed
4647 is alot Geoff. I hate all forms of email myself actually. It feel burdensome feeling that you have to respond to someone or risk offending them. I much prefer interacting with people directly in forums like FriendFeed or DMU on Flickr in public than one on one. Email should be reserved for things that really do need to be kept private.
- Thomas Hawk
Thomas: Yeah my Facebook is pretty hectic and I although I do read my messages on there, I can not keep up with them at the rate they come in. I rarely use email at all these days though unless it is to send files to someone. I just hope one day i will not have to find an old message on Facebook, haha
- Geoff Jackson
I am so with you. It's annoying. I spend the most time on Facebook x-ing out people I've never heard of that might be my friends. It gets better. Yesterday I got a notification - where my high priority Scrabble and Lexulous pings turn up - of some guy, never heard of him either, that had just joined FB and did I want to suggest friends. WTF?
- Cathleen Rittereiser
it seems to periodically (weekly?) refresh the suggested friends....
- Jason A. Samfield
"First of all, I cannot believe you are turning me down in order to do this event. Especially since your plenary talk is exactly what I want you to talk about. Maybe you can pull a Phil Collins at Live Aid move and perform in Amsterdam in the morning and then fly on the Concorde to Boston to speak at my event in the afternoon. We are the world after all. I suppose I'll have to settle for replaying the tinny live streaming version. On a serious note, I am forwarding your topic to Bob R., who did a lot of work on the telecom - financial services meld in the early '80s. I promise to think about it too. My instincts tell me that when technology levels the playing field, then certain elements of defining the vertical become more important or need to be more specific. The classic concept that if everyone can use Yahoo finance to get the same information, then how do you differentiate your business and what you're doing with it? It may mean that intellectual property becomes a bigger issue..."
- Cathleen Rittereiser
"The Palmer method and subsequent 20th-century methods were based on an ornate style that was difficult to learn and broke down under pressure. The loops and curlicues of Palmer and other similar methods obscure legibility. For good reason, one rarely finds looped cursive in print media or computer fonts. ... But there is hope. We can stop mumbling on the page and become legible writers by turning to a style that existed long before Palmer rendered our world illegible. We can embrace letterforms born in the Italian Renaissance. We can go italic."
- Paul Buchheit
That's how I write already! I had to change from Palmer to Italic in high school because I didn't have a typewriter (pre-computer era); our papers had to be typed or handwritten in italic.
- Anne Bouey
Nice article. It actually makes me want to grab a piece of that ruled paper to slowly trace out the letters. I find that my handwriting is best when it's all caps. I wonder if I can change that?
- Todd Lloyd
My mother has beautiful penmanship. I even found a book about it last year and gave it to her. Mine was always ok (Can you tell I went to Catholic school yet?) but it started to go awry when I started having to write in Palm PIlot.
- Cathleen Rittereiser
Oddly enough, I've been writing like this for ages. I like joining some letters, but doing so constantly and with loops always seemed strange and ornate.
- Joel Webber
The amazing thing to note in this article is how easy it is to read letters when only the top half of the line is visible (and how impossible it is to read when only the bottom half is visible).
- Mike Koss
Woke up today -- on fire. Was going to fly through my TO DO list and take the world by storm. It's now 4:45. Got two things done. Apparently, I will need some extra time to take the world by storm.
I'm watching Youtube videos on how to emulate Mac OS 9 on an Intel Mac, full screen so I can run old apps for old time's sake, while listening to Chris Pirillo talk about being a geek.
- Justin Lowery
@Justin check out 'Classic on Intel (COI)' - have had luck with it in the past when trying to play SimTower!
- BeauGiles
EB: that's in the queue to be watched next...gotta start on step one of robot building
- Sean Montgomery
researching why the USS Voyager's warp nacelles fold up
- Justin Ruckman
first iteration done, more scrubbing to do, so more perl to write, maybe some awk, peace kids.
- Erik Boles
@BeauGiles I was looking into SheepSaver. I'll have to take a look at COI also…
- Justin Lowery
You're all *nuts* - it's Saturday night, and you (me too) are in front of the computer. <sigh> I'm reminded of my horrible high school art teacher who said artists never have "week-ends." Bastard. Damn fool was right. Substitute "geek" for "artist" and Bob's your uncle - or auntie, depending on how she swings.
- Yule Heibel
watching the syfy channel (alien agent), while surfing the internet and playing the enchanted ds game - half a level to go and i've beaten the game!
- ann glenn
Writing a fiction futuristic piece for my final in Tech in Society class. Cyborgs and robotic secretariats. My favorite line so far is when my main character tells his house bot to go screw a toaster.
- Kenny Rayl
@BeauGiles Oh duh, same thing. Looks like I just finished downloading it.
- Justin Lowery
This weekend geek: robot building...next weekend non geek: Vegas baby....
- Sean Montgomery
and i'm watching the very end of the Seahawks/Chargers pre-season game.
- geoff hines
• The Geekiest Thing? Well — I'm reading micro-blog posts from Robert Scoble! How can you possibly do anything geekier than that? ☺
- Richard Merritt
Watching Anime and talking about the MMA match on Facebook with my Blackberry 8900 through my access point. Only WPA encryption but have a long key and I live in the woods so I should be safe. That my friend is a geek combo :)
- Tony
from fftogo
Reading FF instead of going to bed. Probably should be writing copy of some sort, but this is the time of night where I'll start to babble if I get sleepy.
- MaryB, BrandingBroadOfFF
@Yule H. Having a lazy sunday afternoon over here in Australia - almost 3pm :)
- BeauGiles
Trying to get inspired to design a web site for a client so I can get my geek on. Instead, sitting here reading Robert Scoble's FriendFeed! Much more entertaining... :)
- Laura Zickus
digging deep into xml/css for start-up site... working on new web software that is like a next-generation friendfeed... grabbit.net
- Fred Davis
Building out the infrastructure to setup 500 live web cams across the US to let people like me and you report crimes on the street in real time! (2-5 second delay). Someone starts a fight, cops are called within 10 seconds. 500 cameras are going up by December. 10,000 more in 2010. Yes. it's effing hard!
- Adam Jackson
Using new de-soldering station to repair a bad MB to use in another dedicated system for climate prediction or seti@home...or some other grid computing project.
- Jimmy
On the loosers side: having a drink of JW Gold and reading this at an strippers bar while I wait for the next performance!
- Marco ILLESCAS
from iPhone
Trying to get my LazyFeed /just/ right.
- Shea
from iPhone
...actually, grabbit is really much more than just a next-generation friendfeed... but since that's one of the closest things so far, the comparisons are inevitable... even if they don't do grabbit justice ;-)
- Fred Davis
Did a brand new install of a family tree / genealogy web app, then imported the GEDCOM file from the previous install (which was an older version of the same app: http://www.phpgedview.net/ ). #ShinyNewVersion
- Micah Wittman
...usually I'm the geek of the week every week, so I hope someone is doing something nerdier than tweaking CSS style sheets! Especially on a saturday night! Sheesh! Good thing my GF (@lisapadilla) is a geeky girl, so she understands... in fact, she's nerding out on some grabbit stuff, too, right now ;-)
- Fred Davis
My God, Doc Searls was right, we're all living in Scoble's butt!
- Stephen Pickering
hehe, thx Mary Baum!, really love it so far
- Denverken
Was smoking a cigar, tweeting from iPod touch and thinking about buddha. Does that count? Or should I have also been coding in PHP & reading slashdot?
- Jerry Garcia
yes, Robert's friends all need to get a life! Ha!
- Fred Davis
Reorganizing my iPhone apps, comparing Newstand to free RSS feeds, & researching/pondering the best way to archive my Twitter stream after reading Mashable article
- Alexis
from iPhone
Watching Android get ported onto an MID
- Netbooknews
watching a bad movie with about 15 other people on IRC.. movie is "Frankenstein Island"
- monkeystick
I guess biting the head off of a chicken doesn't count for geeky any longer? Early last century it would have been a huge draw in Kansas.
- Jerry Garcia
I made a red necktie for my Brain (Pinky and the Brain) action figure. Now he's not only not naked, but looks even smarter.
- Fred Jones
Going thru 104 comments on this thread.
- Winston Teo
hmm, watching two long running procs on vm's, running a couple rsyncs to a new terabyte server, monitoring FF/IRC/IM, farming on WoW, preparing two servers with NGINX and i'm always keeping an eye on munin/monit/screen sessions -- but that's not geeky really, just a normal weekend
- bear (aka Mike Taylor)
Checking frienfeed at a wedding while everone else is dancing
- Jim Goldstein
from iPhone
Sean: thanks, I just wanted to see if something were happening on Twitter that wasn't here.
- Robert Scoble
from iPhone
I'm writing blog posts in gmail and saving them under the label "Posterous Drafts". And something something circuit board something thermal something capacitor.
- Brett Kelly
zeroing the hard drive of an old G4 that's going to be recycled.
- David Newman
Writing a paper about Artificial Intelligence in Expert systems :D
- Yahya
playing with Facebook FBML and pages (and hating it)
- Keith - @tsudo
Just chilling with an ice cold Bud and listening to a live Jimmy Buffett concert online. And smiling reading all the posts.
- lily taylor
Sitting at the keyboard in my jammies and reading FF.
- Sandra Large
reading FF & shooting my duck hunt background (just 'cause); listening to music on blip.fm; picking out fall fashion (posting to delicio.us/polyvore/blogspot...) & texting my son. Not sure what I would do w/out connection =)
- Charl Pearce
Listening to Bob Seger, Janis Joplin and The Who on vinyl. Guess that would be contra geek?
- John Nissim
trying to set-up Streamy (the "new Friendfeed')
- Bill Powell
Reading friendfeed on one monitor with 50 tabs open and watching the Second Life Citizen's Convention live music stream in Second Life on the other monitor.
- SuezanneC Baskerville
Upgrading my desktop computer to Windows 7
- RobinDotNet
Setting up a Linux server and giving it a static IP address, manually assigned DNS server settings, restarting the networking stack, and pinging the router on my local network all via the command line in the Terminal. Also doing a traceroute from this Linux server inside a virtual machine on my MacBook Pro to my website at www.thebrentcameron.com to see how many hops it takes and the time it takes for each of those hops. So do I win or what?
- Brent Cameron
My idea of optimizing Firefox is by uninstalling it.
- Alex Knight
running macros on my G15 to bulk process 500 kids soccer pictures, while browsing friendfeed, listening to techno on headphones while my son watches star wars episode IV
- Robert Higgins
Making my 4th LEGO city model of the day while watching 2 screens of FriendFeed (main feed + this thread). My wife is on Facebook on our hackint0shed netwbook while my 3 year old daughter plays games on the iPhone
- Johnny Worthington
Watching Conan the Barbarian, quoting far too much of it, analyzing too much of it altogether (like did they get all of the out of work Star Trek (original show) musicians together to do the score? It's way too similar.)
- Lucretia Pruitt
Coding an iPhone application which connects to Facebook, Twitter, FriendFeed, and fetches RSS feeds off the web :)
- Fahim
I dont know if this comes under the "tech" category! I am currently thinking ;-) Thinking if the human mind is really an illusion!
- rampantheart
Taking some downtime from the SLCC as an opportunity to work on writing for my blog.
- Tim Maly
Figuring out if I can get android running on a dell axim.
- Jim Connolly
Scampering between sites/browser-tabs like a headless chicken is hardly geeky but that's what I've been doing this Sunday morning. Google Reader, Friendfeed, Facebook, Twitter, Social Median, Lazy Feed, et. al.
- Mahendra (SkepticGeek)
Setting my Ruby on Rails environment up on my new Windows Laptop. I know it's the easiest platform to do it on, with InstantRails, but might install it on Linux, just for the crack :) And checking out the Mosso plans.
- Steve Farnworth
running a twitter experiment #chromeexperiment to see if I could actually replace firefox with chrome.
- Rohit
Writing a custom extension module for vTiger CRM which combines data from two other modules and working on my custom Layout Management & Authentication Libraries for the CodeIgniter MVC framework which I intend to release as open source when complete.
- Usman Bashir
Umm, searching for iPhone formatted porn. Does that count as geeky?
- Keith Bennett
from BuddyFeed
it's unlikely to be me - checking friendfeed while things compile (contributing to a linux distro this week), reading up on vtiger (coincidence? someone is vtigering above), and wondering what's for lunch
- Joelle Nebbe (iphigenie)
Reading Robert's friendfeed updates IS the geekiest thing one can do ^^
- Paul Papadimitriou
from iPhone
And Coffee is the spring of all good ideas :) So it IS geeky :)
- Roberto Bonini
I'm out on this one. Relaxing 'computer off' Sunday planned with my wife :)
- Charlie Anzman
When this was posted? Sleeping. Hows that for geeky?
- DGentry
Joelle: It has to be coincidence what else can it be. :)
- Usman Bashir
changing the links under my flickr photos from my personal website to my twitter and facebook fan page. You've got to go where the traffic is! </geekiness>
- Edward Barnieh
Editing videos from my holiday - not geeky enough - and 8 hours late for this post!
- Martin Bryant
We'll, when this was posted I was cutting some zzzs. Now I'm coding the privacy component for BuddyPress--a nice relaxing activity for a Sunday morning. Hum?
- Jeff Sayre
Compressing and archiving a load of files on JungleDisk, trying to convert a Drupal module intended for use with the Twitter OAuth API to work with FriendFeed, and drafting the OpenStream specification...
- Tyson Key
I'm organizing CloneFeed/OpenFF, the open source alternative to FF. Early stages though.
- Jason Huebel
from iPhone
Geeky/cultural - going through my favorite Woodstock performances on blip.fm.
- jcunwired
....multi-tasking between sourcing UI icons for a new app, scanning FF live feed, coding PHP, browsing Seesmic and now commenting on a thread where i appear not to be geekiest person here on a Sunday. Oh, and now i have too many tabs open in firefox, so i'm using Safari as a fill-in.
- Matthew Ogston
everyon'es working around me and im on friendfeed. lol
- nivcalderon
Browsing Google Reader, Friendfeed best of day, Twitter, Facebook, Digg, Social Median, Twine while copying a video off my Flip & uploading to Viddler... and on my iPhone: getting the Kindle & audible format of a @TedDekker book (Showdown) to take along on my kayaking trip down the Juniata river this afternoon. In the background, Mythbusters is busy figuring out how the Hindenburg blew up.
- Courtney Engle
ohhhh.. i forgot: downloading my entire list of domains for backup before moving servers. Add FTP to the list. and drinking freshly ground coffee in my french press travel mug. The coffee was purchased from a Guatemalan farmer my sister met while there.
- Courtney Engle
A couple of people have mentioned coffee. I just had my tea (I'm not from England). I think that may be even more geeky than drinking coffee!
- Jeff Sayre
I'm singing a song about robots with my one year old daughter ... "Robot parade... Robot parade .... Robots obey what the children say!"
- Trent Hamm
from iPod
Selecting photos + editing videos from the U2 360° Tour - I went to see last nite! Every geek will love the high-tech specs of the tour: http://www.flickr.com/photos... - stunning visuals!
- Frank Da Silva
Reading FriendFeed to see what geeky things everyone is doing
- Cathleen Rittereiser
Backing my computer up to my home network, while using regedit and preparing to install Win7. Oh +Twitter and FriendFeed are running in the background :P
- Aram Zucker-Scharff
from twhirl
I'm backing up The Internet. And storing it in the cloud.
- Micah Wittman
Micah +1!. Better than me - sister in law just dropped of HP laptop with Vista and said "it's slower now." so I get to play with the cleaning of spyware and the uninstalling of a billion little apps that HP feels are so necessary that they should be part of startup just to ensure that it takes a full 5-10 minutes before you can use the machine. But I'm not bitter.
- Michael Pardee
I'm commenting on this post. Can life get more "geeky?"
- Jimmy Walker
I'm crocheting but I don't think that counts. I'm ripping out am old unfinished to use the yarn in a new project. Next up: a slouchy beret using DPNs then circular knitting needles.
- Zulema ◕ ◡ ◕
from iPhone
reading friendfeed and catching up on my rss feed on google reader.
- Fuad Arshad
OK - and now - in English! WOW - I only "get" about a third of the comments! feeling very ungeeky!
- Robyn Hawk
I am wasting my time by writing comments on FF .. it's slightly after midnight in Central Europe now. Shower and bed next!
- Jan Horna
Ditched my wife at the airport to get free wifi. I'm flying virgin she's flying southwest. You snooze you lose LOL
- Jim Goldstein
Trying to decide about paying for Tweet Spinner . . .
- MikeEllsworth
Writing custom PHP code that will pull data from a MySQL database to present a technical class schedule in WordPress.
- Michael Carnell
Ripping Hogan's Hereos DVDs to make H.264 files for later playing on Apple TV. It's good to carry on in comments here as it shows FF that there is a continuing need and use of the FF ways of doing things. If this was on Facebook, I could not send a comment to Robert unless he friended me. Things are just so much tighter and efficient here.
- Keith Rowland
About the only other thing we could ask for in comments, is comments on comments.
- Keith Rowland
playing Ikariam and WoW while on FF and watching Nature
- Heather
Using my phone to Skype, Friendfeeding on a netbook, playing sudoku on my ipod while watching Pulp Fiction.
- MVB (Curmudgeon of FF)
Converting/Creating Direct Response Television Ads to Direct Response Web Video and distribution http://www.directresponsetelev... closing deals before the site is even populated.
- Jim Peake
I think Robert should announce the winners of the contest now:)
- Aaman (Clone of FF)
Damn. Louis Gray was right again. Visited Lazyfeed very early on .... then logged on again just now. Pretty sweet. He's got some invites here (but this was 20 minutes ago :)
Louis - This really could change my online habits. First time in a while. Cool stuff
- Charlie Anzman
I didn't even remember I had Lazyfeed account before you mentioned it.
- LouCypher
That's what I'm here for Lou ... The downside of this is you realize how many people are blatantly ripping off your blog content ... but hey, that's always been there :)
- Charlie Anzman
I get all my best posts from your blog content, Charlie!
- Louis Gray
Man, you gave away the secret source. I'm trying to stay under the radar :)
- Charlie Anzman
is lazyfeed good then? how do i get to try it? and why use that over google reader?
- Rob Sellen :o)
At least it didn't take me four months to copy Louis Gray this time. :-)
- Robert Scoble
Investing in farmland is a big new institutional investor trend so I guess being a farmer is the next best thing. Or it's the next new Ponzi scheme
- Cathleen Rittereiser
Hey now, LG, Looney Tunes is frakking awesome. How about Disney buying Pixar? Oh, wait..... (and actually, that one hasn't worked out badly, so is there yet hope?)
- Jandy, ConcertMaven of FF
++ Jandy -> How about Dreamworks buying Studio Ghibli?
- LogEx
*smacks MVB* How DARE you besmirch tinker toys!!! Oh, and what's up with fiddling with your name, you trying to make me get MDV and MVB confused?
- FFing Enigma (aka Tina)
I think it means that friendfeed is so noisy with all the FB/friendfeed merger cruft that her thread would have gotten lost in the ocean.
- Alex Scoble
213 comments and 18 likes You never really used FF anyway so I'm not sure it matters.
- Michelle Martinez
Alex, that's so charitable of you, but Michelle is closer to the truth. My secret code name for FriendFeed was "SelfFeed" because I rarely communicated on it directly and rarely got much response to what I was posting from any other channel. I guess the latter is to be expected, given the former, but if I had felt more signs of life from anything I had done here, I might have used it more.
- Cathleen Rittereiser
I was trying to start a new paragraph put it posted instead. I was about to say that I was recently finding more conversation here, and was thinking about how I could use FriendFeed more, but I was too late to get there. I used to post my FriendFeed to Facebook and stopped because I felt like I was in an echo chamber, but had also considered doing that again. I think it's a win for...
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- Cathleen Rittereiser
Fortunately you send your Twitter feed to FF so I didn't miss it. :)
- Kevin Gamble
"I was in the pub yesterday when I suddenly realized I desperately needed to fart. The music was really, really loud, so I timed my farts with the beat. After a couple of songs, I started to feel better. I finished my pint and noticed that everybody was staring at me. Then I suddenly remembered that I was listening to my iPod."
Awesome! Probably too funny for the #badjokememe , but it looks like I hashtagged it anyway. :-D
- Ladybug Heather
Reminds me of a joke about someone who goes to the doctor complaining of their silent but foul-smelling farts. The doctor sends her for a hearing test.
- Slappy Line
So where do you share your playlist online? I need music that helps me smell better.
- Bernie Goldbach
The subject of your previous disagreements with Loic about this subject came up in a comment when you announced the Great Unfollowing. I went back and found my tweets on the subject, thought you would find them amusing - if only my side of the discussion - now http://cathleenritt.tumblr.com/post...
- Cathleen Rittereiser
It would appear as though platinum is the lowest level of sponsorship, but I would personally place platinum under diamond. Also, shouldn't a Grande sponsor be between a Tall and a Venti?
- Ross Miller
It's probably an auction process along the lines of 'Our biggest sponsor is currently X and they have an 'Elite' sponsorship. If you want to sponsor for double what they are, we'll invent a new class for you and call you a 'Grande' sponsor. Mind oyu, if someone doubles yours they'll be a 'Venti' sponsor.
- Kevin Fox
Been there done that. Gold sponsorships can often be the lowest level.
- Louis Gray
I thought so too. But this reminds me why I FriendFeed is so much better than Twitter (reason #206). FriendFeed has never kept me from following anyone for any reason.
- Robert Scoble
You need a "follow everyone that this other account follows" function, to get the computers to do it while you sleep.
- DGentry
Your comments on the other thread were closed, I was going to try to talk you out of unfollowing me because it was my birthday yesterday. It ended up working out that it happened 8/3 instead. But it would be a nice belated birthday present for a follow back. I really don't want to have to call your voicemail and leave a bunch of messages asking you to follow me. : )
- Cathleen Rittereiser
Oh bummer, can't comment on the other thread anymore. Glad you got a fresh start! :)
- Veronica Sopher
Unfollowing so many people and starting again is such an ugly solution to something that shouldn't even be a problem in the first place.
- Dan Monsieurle
I just saw your posts on the mass unfollowing... good job! I honestly don't know how you've gone this long following that many people. I guarantee that your level of quality engagement goes way up and with that Twitter's overall usefulness to you. Look forward to hearing about the results...
- Charles
"I don't know what their motivation is. I saw a Facebook blog that gave me the impression they're trying to get people to use the site more for normal stuff, like make lunch dates with each other using Events. So I think you're probably right about serving up more ads. I feel like they just can't get the little things right at all. Like you can block people from sending you apps but you can't block them from sending you events. It goes to the reciprocity thing - I don't mind friending people on Facebook, I just wish they didn't think I cared about them."
- Cathleen Rittereiser
"Seth, Thanks so much. I think Chris does a great job of bringing these questions out in the open and having us puzzle it out with him. He helped me a few years ago when I had maybe 30 followers. I got a DM from a guy to let me know he was breaking up with me as a follower. "you're a nice girl..." I was traumatized. That's taking the real world too far, a silent unfollow was all that was needed. Glad this post introduced us."
- Cathleen Rittereiser
"Marti - I've had similar things happen recently. I went back through my favorites - what else is there to do when you have a book to write - and found all these @replies from people and to people that I don't follow or communicate with anymore. I couldn't even tell you why. I've been feeling melancholy about it, but I end up going back to my point in my comment to Chris, some of these relationships aren't as real as you think or hope they might be unfortunately. And people get busy or don't have time, etc. One follower in particular dumped me and it puzzled me so much that I sent him an email apologizing for whatever I had said or done, but got no response. I comforted myself with another thought from my comment to Chris, that whatever it was, it was his thing not mine. The other thing I told myself is that maybe some people have started consolidating their info. Now that you can get your Twitter stream on Facebook and FriendFeed, if you use those more it might make sense not to..."
- Cathleen Rittereiser
"Chris, Until reading this post and these comments, I had never understood the point of one of my favorite parts in the classic book, "Go Dog Go." If you recall, 3 or 4 times throughout the book 2 dogs coming from opposite directions meet on a street corner or some other locale. They have the same discussion every time: Dog 1: "Hello, do you like my hat?" Dog 2: "I do not." Dog 1: Goodbye Dog 2: Goodbye They each walk away, noses in the air, alone, in the direction they were originally headed. The last time they meet Dog 1 is wearing some badass, Mad Hatter/kitchen sink hat the size of small house. Dog 1 asks Dog 2 something like, "Now do you like my hat?" and Dog 2 says something like, "I do, I like your hat very much." They happily walk off together, arm in arm. What I like about the dogs is that they can be direct and almost rude to each other, even though they live in the same town and see each other all the time. Paradoxically it's harder to be that direct in social media where a..."
- Cathleen Rittereiser
If only I could get away with that. This is one reason I like Google Voice - it emails you a text approximation of the message left on your voicemail. If you want.
- Jason Miller
i do this, and it drives my wife nuts...she still leaves them, and they all start with: "I don't know why i'm bothering to leave this..."
- Thom Kennon
Hi, have you written your voicemail "I refuse to listen" greeting anywhere? I saw this conversation awhile after it was posted so I felt kind of funny calling - especially with the time difference - but I'd love to know what you do because I need to do something. If the best thing for me to do is call and listen, let me know, I'll do it. Thanks
- Cathleen Rittereiser
My voicemail just says please don't leave a voicemail and to please email me instead.
- Robert Scoble
from iPhone
Question: do you have any family that doesn't use email? How do you handle them?
- Bastard Operator From FF
Sean: family knows where to find me: FriendFeed!
- Robert Scoble
from iPhone
I love voicemail. I know that makes me weird, but all the e-communication I get piles up, and voicemail cuts through the noise, usually.
- Mark "Rizzn" Hopkins
This raises an interesting point re preferred channel choosing: I've added my "FF" handle to my email signature --- over my mobile # - since this, increasingly, is the best, fastest most attentive way to reach me.
- Thom Kennon
Where's the MP3 of the message, Robert? For us oversears :)
- Diego Barros
Now I get FriendFeed! It's the conversation. Thanks for your response. PS I must be family. I knew to find you here
- Cathleen Rittereiser
from fftogo
Rock on. I just called to hear for myself. I have done something similar... I tell people they can leave a message, but for a faster response please email me.
- Ben Hanten
Robert, did you get many calls from people wanting to listen to your voicemail message? :)
- Diego Barros
Robert would love to buy you lunch if you ever get to the North/Central Florida area
- Robert Burgin
I prefer a voicemail over an email. I'm more auditory than auditory digital. Different people prefer different modalities.
- Mark Davidson
from BuddyFeed
"Thrillist.com sent this email today http://www.thrillist.com/nation... Izria.us for sharing and streaming music. On closer look it may be the antithesis of what you're talking about, but thought you would find it of interest."
- Cathleen Rittereiser
"Fred, I thought you would be interested in this story from the FT, because you write often about how your teenage children are using and consuming tech and media. Coincidentally, it's related to your subject today. Morgan Stanley TMT bankers in London had a 15 year old intern write about his and other teenagers' media consumption. MS found it so revealing, they published it as a research report and received more responses than usual. Here's a link to the story http://is.gd/1xgTd and a link to the report http://is.gd/1xhiZ (also in the story)."
- Cathleen Rittereiser
I think it's because of Twitter's rule change that only allows the person addressed to see replies that start with @ (later changed to allow people who follow both users to see the message).
- John (a.k.a. dendroica)
yea john - some others replied on twitter - it seems if you do ".@moo" instead of "@moo" then everyone can see it
- Allen Stern
Awhile ago, if you wanted to, you could put Twitter in "promiscuous" mode. It was an option you could check off and they warned against doing this due the "volume" of tweets you might see in your feed (your friends replying to people you're not friends with). Twitter claims only 2% of users ever turned this on and it was causing too much data overhead for them so they took the option...
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- Adam Turetzky
Since Twitter lists all @yourTwitterusername mentions on the side, I've been putting the person's name in the body of the tweet so that they and others will see it. I'm assuming that has the same result. Anybody have an argument for using the .@ vs just burying it in the tweet?
- Cathleen Rittereiser
Wow, if only twitter would add metadata, work around wouldn't be required. So now, you're down ANOTHER character in your message. 140 just keeps seeming like less and less.
- Andy Bakun
Cathleen, your solution produces the same result, and I've seen others do it, and I think creates a more "literarily" pretty result compared to the .@
- Adam Turetzky
I think ~ makes more sense than @, in general, but I'm old school internet.
- Andy Bakun
people are also using exclamation i've seen i.e. !@centernetworks but i prefer to put the name in the body of the comment. overall though, if you're using a client and not the twitter site proper, you'll still see all the @s
- Lynne d Johnson
One more reason to use Friendfeed, it will show you the @replies. For people who don't have a FF account you create an imaginary friend.
- Willem (@wim66) ☠
A few of my friends are using the jerkcity reply addressing format. "T @username Reply here". It's an extra character but it makes me laugh every time I see it. (Jerkcity itself is rude, crass, offensive, and NSFW, so look this up at your own peril.)
- Richard Soderberg
This is not quite correct. 1. Use the reply function to generate the "@username" (instead of typing it in) and and only that user and those that follow you and them will see it.2. If you type in the "@username" then everyone will see it.
- Dave
I'm not sure why . is needed in the middle of the tweet when I'm going to see the tweet anyway if I'm following the twitterer. . at the beginning lets everyone see it (instead of just the person being replied to).
- Char James-Tanny
gothca! That's really handy (and really clever). But I was under the impression, that like Dave said — public vs. private reply was a function of you pressing that 'reply' button, not beginning the tweet with an @name.
- Joey Baker
at this point, I'm considering importing all of my twitter follows that don't have ff accounts as imaginary friends and using ff as my main twitter interface. I've already done so with my personal contacts on Twitter. It would be useful to have a tool that allowed us to do this en masse.
- Bill Kinney
"I got a head start on Flickr and have been using Great Depression pictures to compare to and comment on conditions today. My photo-toons take a humorous and irreverent look at current events as seen through these old, classic photos. The idea is to make this current Depression a great one! http://www.flickr.com/photos......"
- Cathleen Rittereiser
"I completely agree with the way you and Howard Lindzon differentiate between how Twitter and Facebook are used. Your id vs. ego comparison is apt. I think it's borne out by the difference between my friends that are new to social networking. Few are on Twitter and most think they're being wild and crazy by being on Facebook. I mostly use Facebook as my Personal Life ego page - so it still has id elements. That must make LinkedIn the Superego. The differences between Twitter and Facebook are one of the reasons so many of Facebook's design changes that make it more Twitter-like bother me. I have always seen and used the two as complements to each other. Now, they're not really competing, they're less complementary and there's a lot more rmuddling. Half the time that I comment on a Facebook entry I learn that it was a tweet and I missed the chance to get in the Twitter conversation. I guess that's where FriendFeed comes in. The number of comments disagreeing with you initially surprised..."
- Cathleen Rittereiser
"Jesse, I have heard others compare Retweeting to using Digg or Stumbleupon. Interestingly, I've greatly reduced my use of both those services of late as well. I don't send my likes from FriendFeed to Twitter either, because I've always tried to keep my noise level on Twitter low."
- Louis Gray
I commented on your blog too, thank you for saying this. I did a whole series of tweets that mocked ReTweets here's the link http://is.gd/uBns
- Cathleen Rittereiser