I came home today with my newly fixed computer, excited to actually have my computer back. Then I turned it on, and remembered what a piece of shit it is.
What version of OS X are you running - Lion or older? You can fix this, but the how-to varies a little depending on whether Lion or no.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Either way, I'm annoyed at whatever techs fixed your machine. They couldn't have cleaned up your system and repaired your damn permissions? Which I'm now going to suggest you do, Lion or no.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Except more politely. The damn was for them. So, to rephrase: one thing you should probably do is launch Disk Utility and repair permissions, then restart.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Good. Then after the restart you want to get into your Library. In Lion they've hidden it, which is why I asked if you're on it. Imma take pills and head upstairs but I'll check on you in about ten mins. Say something so I know you saw this.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Ah. Just saw your OS. We can actually get to your library the old-fashioned way. (now reporting in from PLEP Mac support HQ, btw ... ;-) i.e., upstairs) - it's in your home folder.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Okay reboot complete. What am I doing in the Library?
- chrisofspades
In the Library, you want to do two things: first, open the Caches folder and look for any cache files connected to Mail. I'm pretty sure the follow the syntax com.apple.mail ... ; there might also be an Apple Mail folder. Take a look to make sure they're really just cache files - I'm pretty sure your mailboxes are in Application Support, which we're not touching, (and which prolly don't...
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- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Are you seeing the thing about the cache files? I'm checking in because I'm using the iPhone version and it doesn't automatically refresh, and I was still posting when you asked - so I want to make sure we're still together.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
There's a folder ~/Library/Caches/com.apple.mail, with a Cache.db inside. Delete the whole folder?
- chrisofspades
(And yes, I had removed all my accounts from Mail hoping that would stop the chaos. It did not.)
- chrisofspades
After you do the cache files, we're gonna trash some .plist files in the Preferences folder.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
They'll have very similar names to the cache files, except for the extension, which is - surprise! - .plist. So: com.apple.mail.plist, com.apple.mail.settings.plist (maybe) ans so on.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Since you're not using Apple Mail I think that's smart. You may need to restart before you can actually empty the trash. The system might claim the cache.db is still in use.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Okay .plist files have been trashed.
- chrisofspades
Excellent. This should solve it, though we are dealing with software so I'll hedge and say I hope we've solved it. But this process is what I generally do anytime an app goes nuts on me. I also use it when're an Adobe Creative Suite app crashes, on the theory that I don't want whatever took photoshop or whatever down once to do it a second time. ;-)
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
I no longer see my youngest son naked. He's 9. I followed his lead on this.
- Que Sarah Sarah
Or before if she doesn't want him to see her naked anymore.
- Melly Botts
...when they become old enough to start dressing themselves
- .LAG liked that
I used to shower with my dad and brothers. I think that stopped when I became 5 or 6.
- Spidra Webster
I think it's also interesting to discuss this the other way around - at what age is it inappropriate for a child to see their parent/s naked?
- Melly Botts
5 or 6, Spidra? Did you start grabbing their appendages and make elephant sounds? :P
- Bubba Botts
Probably, Bubba. It was right at face level. I honestly don't remember exactly what age I was when I stopped showering with the rest of them. It may have been earlier. I know it was no later than that, though.
- Spidra Webster
Melly, I stopped letting my daughter see me naked at about 3 or 4. I'm sure this is different for mothers of daughters and fathers of sons.
- chrisofspades
Hahahaaaaaaa, my Mum likes to tell the story of me going to use the toilet when I was a toddler, walking past Dad in the shower, and grabbing his tackle with freezing cold hands.
- Melly Botts
Josiah is 5, he sees both of us naked on a daily basis, and he showers with one or the other of us at least once a week. At this stage we still very rarely shut the bathroom door. Every now and then Josiah will ask for privacy and close the door, but most of the time he's the kind of kid who likes to do a lap of the house naked before he gets in the shower, yelling out "LOOK AT MY NUDIE BUM!"
- Melly Botts
Question for my Sport Fan Friends... So. up here - we mostly call 'em Puck Bunnies - the hockey groupie girls. Do you have a term for the football groupies? Is there a term for the baseball groupies? Is Hockey the only sport that has "named" the groupies?
Happy Birthday Kristin! Happy Birthday Rodfather! (I was gonna say "Happy Birthday to *THE BOTH* OF YOU!" because I know how that annoys grammarians... but I didn't.)
- Mark J Severely Corny
Happy Birthday, Rodfather! Thanks LB for the well wishes!
- Kristin
It was a trip he was trending on Twitter in both NY and San Francisco when he scored 25. I hope he gets some playing time.
- Rodfather
Two solid games in a row for Lin. He'll probably start for the Knicks until at least the All-Star break. Especially since Baron doesn't seem all that interested in playing this year.
- chrisofspades
There were 'MVP' chants in the crowd last night.
- Rodfather
And he dropped another gem last night.
- chrisofspades
"As only the fourth Asian-American to ever play in the NBA, that is certainly an accomplishment. His hard work and rise from receiving no Division I scholarships to the NBA is quite a story, and an inspirational one at that. You will hear a lot about that, but the guy can also play ball"
- Rodfather
from Bookmarklet
The last Asian-American I remember playing in the NBA was Rex Walters from San Jose.
- Rodfather
"Backing up Stephen Curry and Monta Ellis, Lin should learn a lot from these guys and provide some solid and efficient minutes off the bench. " - that's all well and good, but Monta Ellis is not exactly the mentor I'd want.
- chrisofspades
It's pretty exciting he'll be actually playing and getting good minutes.
- Rodfather
chris, last I remember hearing about Ellis and the Warriors (I'm more a casual fan than a diehard) was a couple of years ago, when he was tearing it up in the playoffs. What happened since then?
- Andrew C (✓)
Monta Ellis and Curry are still young so won't provide much mentoring besides working by example. Monta was still recovering from his knee injury a few years ago. This whole organization is work in progress at point. I hope the new owner and management will turn things around.
- Rodfather
...if the front office (new ownership) sets the right tone, it could be a good place for young player, but generally, if Nelly is still the coach, it will be tough, as that coach doesn't have a positive history with developing players
- .LAG liked that
Yep, Nellie doesn't like to play young guys. I was hoping Nellie would be gone by the beginning of the season. He's going to have to play him since he's the backup PG though.
- Rodfather
Andrew, there was the moped incident, the negative comments he made after the W's drafted Curry, the injury problems, etc. I think he's still a bit immature to be tabbed a leader, but that could still change because as Rod mentioned, he's still young.
- chrisofspades
What I want to know is how well the guy can shoot free throws. From the article, it seems that the team he plays for has actually managed to lose games, some of them blowouts.
- Victor Ganata
From the video, it looks like he has good touch. I'm wondering if he can run the floor.
- Rodfather
Also wonder if someone who has gotten so tall so young will have structural problems as he ages (a la Greg Oden, Sam Bowie, etc.).
- The original Kevin
Remember Gheorghe Mureșan? He was huge, but extremely slow.
- Rodfather
Yeah, basketball can be killer on the knees even for short people.
- Victor Ganata
And, yeah, a 7'5" guy who can't run back on defense wouldn't be that great :)
- Victor Ganata
The dude lost the opening tip. As a HB native keep in mind the league and competition when watching the video it's not Division 1, it's not even division 5 high school basketball. it's a league for private high schools with enrollments around 250 students total. It's essentially a church summer league level of competition. But I hope for the best for him - starting off with a pituitary...
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- SteVe C
How does a 7'5" dude lose the opening tip to someone more than a foot shorter than him? *smh*
- Victor Ganata
If anyone would like to view my church's redesigned website and give some constructive criticism, I would appreciate it. I can only do so much with a wordpress.com site, but I kinda like it. http://fumcop.org
I have nothing against breast feeding or breast feeding pictures. My question for women, though, is why would you even want to be photographed while breast feeding? I always thought it was private, intimate moment between mother and child. I wouldn't want those types of pics out in the public.
- chrisofspades
from Bookmarklet
Some women feel far more open about it, and resent the inconvenience of having to hide something they consider beautifully natural because others are made uncomfortable thanks to culturally ingrained prudishness. Honestly, we should not have the least concern over a woman breast-feeding her child. Babies need sustenance, and breast-feeding is the way they normally get it.
- Moody (Sweet FA 4 Life)
Some people like it. I find some breastfeeding images are beautiful. Actually, it's the only time I like seeing boobs :)
- Starmama
from FFHound(roid)!
But as a woman, how would you feel if someone stuck a camera in your face while you were breast feeding?
- chrisofspades
How would you feel if someone did it to you, regardless? Intrusiveness is intrusiveness.
- Moody (Sweet FA 4 Life)
You've been interrupted while breast feeding, Moody? ;)
- chrisofspades
As an analogy, photographs of my infant sons sleeping on my (clothed or bare) chest are every bit as important to me as other moments. 'Intimate', 'private', and 'public' intersect in a variety of ways.
- Micah
If someone "stuck a camera in my face" and it bothered me, I probably wouldn't post that picture to FB, regardless of the content.
- Rochelle
from iPhone
I covered up when I nursed my babies in public because there are others who will stare or intrude my privacy. I don't mind images of nursing babies, they're lovely and sweet. But anyone who is a photographer should ask first before taking a photo. I mean, that's just common courtesy.
- Zulema ⋅ spicy cocoa tart
Would either of you take a "merightnow" type of picture while breast feeding?
- chrisofspades
LOL@Chris: You know what I mean. I mean that anyone coming up to you and snapping pictures without your consent is intruding rudely. The breast-feeding aspect is secondary.
- Moody (Sweet FA 4 Life)
I guess my aversion to cameras is really showing here. I wouldn't want that picture taken, but if taken, certainly wouldn't want it posted to Facebook. But if the mother has no problems with it, then it's no business of mine.
- chrisofspades
I don't know how these women are breast feeding but when I did it, I just pulled my shirt up a bit and popped the baby on. I showed no skin. I'd have no problem taking or showing pictures of that. I imagine that the removed photos show bare breasts and/or nipple though. But that is not a typical breast feeding photo, in my opinion.
- Rochelle
from iPhone
None at all. I wouldn't want that picture taken either though.
- chrisofspades
I have been asked several times to take breastfeeding photos. Some people share them and some don't. Art has often celebrated the human body and intimate moments. It's a bonding moment for mothers that many want to look back on. As for sharing on facebook, some images sharing makes sense and some it doesn't (to me), but I think their point is more one of freedom and not censorship. It's...
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- Rachel Lea Fox
from iPhone
I've seen some breastfeeding photos that seem to be mostly about boobs and oh, they happen to have a baby in them too. Facebook needs to have a line and as much as I don't care about where that line is, once it's in place they have to enforce it. Plus, FB doesn't go around looking for these photos, people point them out. So stop sharing photos with people who might report them.
- <3Heather<3
For all the #Android#swype users in the house. I've gone back to using swype after initially finding it underwhelming. I'm finding it better the second time around, but I wonder if I'll ever be very fast with it. Sometimes I still miss my Blackberry keyboard. What say you?
I fell in love with swype - I didn't think I'd like it, and it took adjusting, but I did. The one thing I don't like about it at all is that you can typo a word (teh for the, for example) and it ends up in the dictionary. Every so often I clear the settings, because on my phone it's a PITA to select a word and delete it from the dictionary - easier to just clear them all, and teach it the words it doesn't have that I use a lot.
- ellbeecee
I love SwiftKey. I do miss swype but SwiftKey doesn't require me to change keyboard languages when I type Spanglish. I just keep typing and it auto-suggests Spanish and English words as I go. ;)
- Zulema ⋅ spicy cocoa tart
I'm not. No cable TV and no computer hooked to a TV (assuming it's being streamed somewhere). If it's being streamed, I suppose I could watch it on my netbook but I'm not sure it's worth it since that thing is so slow.
- Rochelle
from iPhone
Hosting several folks. Biting my nails and wishing evil upon the Manning family.
- The original Kevin
Tacos! (I'm so excited, I've been craving.)
- <3Heather<3
Watching at home. That way, people won't complain when I cheer my team winning... or I won't feel bad when I'm the only one lamenting my team losing.
- Julian
Actually, there are lots of free (legitimately) typefaces available, at Font Squirrel and elsewhere. And you can probably still buy cheap collections of knockoff typefaces (also legal). The program *should* find a semi-reasonable substitute for the missing typeface. (I'll never give up on this one: A font is one size and style of a typeface, e.g. 11pt. bold Garamond. Garamond itself is a typeface.)
- Walt Crawford
Here's the link, noting that this is a relatively small collection because all of these are licensed for commercial use (at no cost): http://www.fontsquirrel.com/
- Walt Crawford
Depends on what I'm doing. If I'm trying to open someone else's file that has a font I don't have, then I'd ask the person to supply it to me. Otherwise, I'd just pick another one.
- chrisofspades
Also, my windows are all mostly east/west, so only the bedrooms are getting sun right now because they face south. Those rooms are HOT. The rest of the house is BRRRRRRR.
- Anika
5:20, 6:30, 7:30. The first one I shut off immediately. The 2nd one I leave the snooze on to bug me every 10 minutes. The last one means I'm late.
- Rodfather
6:30am.... snooze sometimes until 7:40am. >.> I plan my outfits the night before so it doesn't take me long to get ready unless I need to flat-iron my hair in which case I snooze only once. Or twice. ;)
- Zulema ⋅ spicy cocoa tart
5:45AM with 15 minutes of snooze and up at 6.
- Alan
Our alarm clock has 2 different alarms you can set on it, so when the twins (high school) are home, my wife uses an alarm set for 5 a.m. When it's just the little one (elementary school), she uses an alarm set for 6:01 (I accidentally went past 6:00, and didn't feel like changing it). On days when I commute into work, I use the 6:01 alarm. On days when I telecommute, I have my phone set to go off at 7:45. On weekends, we usually don't use an alarm.
- Curdy G
6:00am atm on weekdays. Random on weekends, if at all. :-)
- Kol Tregaskes
7 am - out of bed sometime after - in the office by 9
- Jason
What D said. I usually set it for an hour before I have to be at work (30 min to get ready, 30 min commute) but I'm typically awake and lying around in bed before it goes off anyway. My internal alarm is set to 7:30.
- Penguin
from iPhone
6:20 - please tell me someones going to throw these into a table and make a graph :)
- Eric Sizemore
The traditional way to eat Filipino food is with your bare hands. There is no bread to keep your hands clean, either. You're supposed to lick your fingers.
LOL. At least with Filipino food, you can usually eat it with one hand.
- Victor Ganata
from iPhone
The other traditional way to eat Filipino food is to use a fork and spoon. You use the fork to put meat and/or veggies and rice onto the spoon, and then eat from the spoon. I still remember the look of utter incredulity on my oldest friend's face when he saw me eating like this.
- Victor Ganata
from iPhone
But eating with your bare hands sure does make eating ant larvae and locust adobo more adventurous than it already is.
- Victor Ganata
from iPhone
I think other cultures in Southeast Asia do the fork and spoon thing, too. Maybe it developed as a compromise: they could use utensils so that they didn't look like savages to their colonial overlords, but it would still give you the same proportion of rice and meat/vegetable with each bite that you would achieve with eating with your bare hands. (I have absolutely no evidence for this.)
- Victor Ganata
That Montreal case is awful. What would have they done to him if he had used his hands?
- Victor Ganata
Are you kidding me? I'm so glad that kid won. Such b.s. Wow. My mom still used her hand when she eats. It's a skill trying to scoop the rice and be neat.
- Anna Lynn M.
I seldomly eat with my bare hand anymore. But I grew up with that as a norm.
- AJ Batac :)
So, I think I'm going to actually try this RPM 2012 thing. One of the songs might be called "This is the reason (why)" and I need your help. Give me reasons. Don't have to rhyme, don't even have to make sense. Just needs to be a reason why "something."
This is the reason why they yell "It's Rahsheen" when I hit the room This is the reason why they pull it and cock it and then...BOOM This the reason why we can't have nice things The reason why most folks on radio can't even rap, write, or sing
- Rah-PM 2012
This is my reason-ing / your raps lack season-ing / my rhymes hot like pepper / leave you sneezing
- Pete
This is the reason I'm teasing you, soon to be pleasing you, you know it's the season to be panting and wheezing (whew!)
- Your Neighbor Steve
This is the reason I'm leaving, the reason I'm staying, the reason I'm giving for the way I'm behaving.
- Your Neighbor Steve
This is the reason why I love myself first. Why I work till it hurts. The reason why I'm never wearing a shirt.
- Rah-PM 2012
from Android
The reason I'm bare-chested, you're bare-breasted, it's a test to see if we're fully invested.
- Your Neighbor Steve
This is the reason why I'm larger than life and smoother than silk, this is the reason why your mom always told you to drink all your milk. This is the reason I can't leave it alone, why I pick up the phone, why I can't leave a message for you at the tone.
- Your Neighbor Steve
This is the reason I need drugs to help me sleep. Why I don't like marshmallow Peeps. Why I feel like I'm in too deep.
- Rollin' in the LB
(Also, this thread is the reason why I want to see a rap video with Rah and Steve.)
- Rollin' in the LB
This is the reason why / I don't eat seasoned fries / you can see that I / am not the salty kind, just mild-mannered and even guy / But even the most even guys / will bleed your eyes / and you leave you dry / so don't test we / and This is the reason why.
- chrisofspades
This is the reason why I'm ripping this track. Matter of fact I'm making this beat in Reason so it reasonably can't be whack.
- Rah-PM 2012
from Android
This is the reason why you shouldn't take advice from people on the internet, even if they seem nice. This is the reason why you shouldn't be so serious, the reason why my rhymes are going to make you delirious. This is the reason Y, the reason Z, the reasons alpha to omega why you listen to me.
- Your Neighbor Steve
This the reason / that pi is irrational /with words i will fashion y'all / a lyrical flow that like lava is hot
- Pete
I think there is more than enough here to put a song together. Now, to make a beat. (although, feel free to add on if you missed it the first time).
- Rah-PM 2012
This is the reason why the spice must flow.
- Rah-PM 2012
This is the reason why your mother can't stand me / the ladies demand me / radio has banned me / This is the reason why you can't compete / you are all trick and no treat / all bun and no meat / all noise and no heat.
- Your Neighbor Steve
"all bun and no meat" Steve is shutting shit down.
- chrisofspades