Has anyone else fallen completely out of touch with the people they graduated highschool with? 20+ years later I know almost nothing about any of the 100+ folks in my class...
I have gotten several postcards for my 20th high school anniversary this year, but I am not going. I honestly have no interest in seeing anyone who I went to high school with.
- Phil G
completely out of touch with all 43 of them -
- Noah Carter
I keep in touch with a grand total of 7 from me grade school.
- Prolific Programmer
For the most part, yes. But I have a little cadre of my close friends from high school that I keep up with on Facebook.
- Hutch Carpenter
Oh, and my graduating class was around 700 students.
- Phil G
I had a tight group of friends in high school. I can account for 1 IRL and a coupleon FB. Don't really talk to any of them anymore.
- Rahsheen ™, Coach Rah
i "graduated" in 2001 & dont talk to anyone i should've graduated with
- sam
from twhirl
I've been the one to e-mail out of the clear blue after 20 some-odd years,but that's about the extent of it. My classmates and I were always out of sync.
- Mark Forman
I have - but then I only really cared about 5 or so of them... and i am still int ouch with them all (except one who died) to varying degrees.
- Soulhuntre
from twhirl
My 20th is this year... No interest in going, but I do wish more of my classmates were on FB. A few are but their profiles are sparse. I'd like to know what they're up to and keep in touch, but I don't really need to hang out with everyone for a weekend at this point. I'll probably wish I'd gone when I hear who all was there, how much fun they had and all the rest of the gossip.
- Lisa L. Seifert
been 30 years for me, 10 years ago not in contact with any. Now friends with one because work in same industry with common interests and work with another.
- Nick Cowie
from twhirl
This is where Facebook comes in but even then most times you end up as just a trophy friend!
- Joe Dawson
My 20th was a couple years ago...I didn't go and I don't regret it.
- Chris Spencer
I have kept in touch on and off with a couple of HS buddies, but nothing regular. And I still remember my 10th high school reunion. The evening ranged from annoying to boring, except for one nicely memorable moment. The kindly woman who gave me a ride home (I was carless, staying for the weekend with my parents), said, "Adam, you're really cool. I wish I'd gotten to know you better in HS." But no, I'm not goin' to my 20th.
- Adam Lasnik
Same here, I left the island in 84 to go to university and have hardly been back since.
- Simon Bisson
highschool was not worth a fart. same with college. school is a bad idea to begin with. I wish I could say otherwise... but I guess that is why I am a Republican... I didn't learn shit there. had no friends... and I don't want my tax dollars going there
- Noah David Simon
"some are mathematicians, some are carpenters wives, though I know how it all got started, I don't know what they do with their lives"
- Iain Baker
It is very easy to skip these when the highlight of the evening is learning who is in AA and who has a parole officer. I attended 5 and 15. Probably will wait until 40 now.
- Russellreno
I work with my best friend from HS, other than that... Not too many other than occasional 'hey' from people who have tracked me down on Facebook. I mostly lost touch when I left my hometown area for fun and adventure.
- Vince DeGeorge
I finished 5 years ago, and haven't stayed in touch with anyone...
- Rich
I have one good friend I see and talk to, but only a few times a year. Another two I keep in touch with maybe once a year. And a couple more I sorta keep on via their net activities. Otherwise, it is through accidental contact and my sisters' that know anything about anyone else.
- Michael W. May
yes for the most part, but then some sort of bubble they all joined facebook for some reason. (I joined yrs ago, no idea why)
- clarke thomas
YEP... everybody went their separate ways... spooky disconnect *JOKE* I was home-schooled during HS only - and my family is all over the globe
- Susan Beebe
I know I have and I've only been out of high school for 3 years. People go their separate ways location wise and interest wise.
- Corvida
More than 17 years out. I have very little contact with or knowledge about my around 100 classmates; though last week the one I do have contact with asked me to be his best man.
- Michael C. Harris
I actually keep in touch with more people from elementary school than high school. Only 200 people in my HS class and I've only spoken to 2 of them in 30 years. Still keep in touch with two guys who were a year ahead of me, but we knew each other from the neighborhood before attending HS.
- Kevin Shannon
No, I've always been in touch wit two or three of them, and several of us started looking each other up around our 20th reunion. Next year is the 30th, and I'm thinking a lot of us will meet up to create experiences which will eventually shame our children.
- Chris Baskind
I haven't talked to or seen any of my high school classmates in years. I graduated in '85, and we haven't had a single reunion. My old high school was shut down as part of a desegretation plan, but it was re-opened about 10 years later. On top of that, I moved to Dallas a week after college graduation, and I go back home only to see my family.
- ha3rvey (Ho)^3
I didn't enjoy high school 23 years ago and am completely out of touch. really wouldn't be interested in getting in touch with anyone except maybe 1 or 2.
- Capn' One Eye - adrift
Came across a couple via Facebook, but I do not keep up with anyone really. I didn't have much love for high school (other than meeting my wife) and it did not hurt me to never look back when I left for college.
- JA Castillo
twitter is not good for conversation, friend feed is just much better at threads
- karl
I don't see that as a bad thing at all. Twitter is only good for one-way outward-facing posts and mobile options. Sadly it never was, nor in its present state is - a good solution for starting and continuing conversations. One of the things that blows me away about FF is how once you contribute to the discussion, you begin to systematically outwardly integrate yourself, almost virally. Really well thought out. I feel that my comments/posts here have traction.
- Steve Isaacs
Friendfeed is a glorified twitter with comments. Friendfeed is a glorified facebook with comments. Friendfeed is addictive.
- Muthu Ramadoss
I don't think the conversation moved to FF because Twitter has been down; I think they're two different environments. FF is a cocktail party with many different conversations to circulate between. Twitter is a walk down the office hallway, hearing snippets of conversation and piping in occasionally.
- Carla Thompson
A cocktail party is a lot more fun than walking down the office hallway.
- Chris Spencer
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- Stefan Hayden
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- Simon Bisson
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- grant fox
way to go guys, onwards and upwards! good luck! you haven't worked at a real startup unless there is a foozball table or a pool table. looks like you are legit :)
- Ivan Stegic
a malmo chair from ikea! the very same colour as mine!
- Giovanni De Stefano
I like that office, I wish mine was that nice!!
- Paul
It seems you bought more tables and chairs to hire more hackers. I like how open your office is.
- seman
We actually didn't buy any tables or chairs - they were left here by the last company. We have a table/chair graveyard in the back as a consequence :)
- Bret Taylor
It looks exactly the same as the old office...
- Jini
The red chair is still my favorite, but it looks like I have more seats to try out.
- Amit Patel
On first thought - great Place! I like the open air about it... but on second thought I don't think I can work in such an open space. I just need my personal space.
- Parth Awasthi
sweet, but I'd put those pool cues in a cue holder or they will bend stored leaning against a wall...causing bad shots. also sunlight on pool table will cause fading, but you probably will just get a new table eventually w/ all the success! :)
- Pokai
sacrilege to say I think it looks pretty ugly?
- Adam