"Rattus – And you’re right on to do it, baby! And I’m delighted to be “the communicatrix” to you. I’m not really running away from “communicatrix” as much as I’m finally embracing my name. It’s an inclusive, not an excluding action. Cousin Mikey! I was wondering about that “Heff LaQuisha” thing. It’s so cute that 30 is old to you. Hahaha. I remember when *I* thought 30 was old. All I can say is I’m surprised two parents as smart as yours didn’t think through the initials thing. Oh, well. Hormones have scrambled weirder things. Dave2 – Ain’t it the bset?" - colleen wainwright