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Shevonne
Parents and non-parents who have experience with kids: My daughter is stressing me out. She is eight-years old and has horrible separation anxiety. It's gotten better, but she still clings to me to the point of exhaustion. She constantly makes me late for work because she "diddle daddles" around. She cries and whines all the time.
I've tried everything. We wake up early, get her things ready at night, I ignore her when she cries and whines, I even tried creating goals and rewards so she will stop this behavior, and she still continues. Any advice is appreciated. - Shevonne
Sounds like you're handling it the best way possible. Unless there is an assignable cause, it's probably a "phase". Hang in there. - MoTO Bott from Android
I hope so because I'm getting fed up. - Shevonne
Yeah, as MoTO said, sounds like you're doing everything you can and it may be a phase. My 7yr old used to (and sometimes reverts to) the same thing. He used to be very clingy with his mom, but it's easier for me with boys. You can't really tell a girl to "man up." LOL. - Rah-PM 2012
@Rah My dad used to tell us that all the time, so I might have to resort to doing that. Hahaha - Shevonne
I was like this as a kid and, to be honest, I think it was rooted in some other social anxiety issues I had at the time. I eventually got past it (mostly), but I wish someone had taken the time to see what the problem actually was and help me deal with that anxiety about non-family social situations. ETA: my family members who told me to just get over it basically taught me that I... more... - Katy S
bump for ideas - SteVe C
DJ Stevie Steve
That should be your avatar - Shevonne
Great picture. - Yolanda from iPhone
Shevonne
Re: How To Organize Your Company’s Project Plan - http://chicwriter.com/2009...
"Glad you liked it!" - Shevonne
Vicarbott
I don't know about you but if I couldn't breathe, I certainly wouldn't use facebook to alert people!
I'd use friendfeed, obviously. - Vicarbott
There was a case where a woman posted on FB that a man was holding her captive, and her son and her got saved cause people called the police. You never know - Shevonne
I'd still use friendfeed. - Vicarbott
I'd use FB. No one on FF actually lives anywhere near me. £og€x lives out in the forest! - Zulema ⋅ spicy cocoa tart from Android
TWITTER, DANGIT. - Akiva
I can tell you that no one ever responds to my FB status in less than 8 minutes. Time is tissue! #anecdata - Victor Ganata
"Authorize Facebook to administer shot of Epinephrine" -- is that opt-in or opt-out? - Micah from FFHound(roid)!
Shevonne
Family Guy - s10 | e13 - Tom Tucker: The Man and His Dream - http://www.hulu.com/watch...
Family Guy - s10 | e13 - Tom Tucker: The Man and His Dream
Hulu Plus subscription required. Learn More Peter and Tom take Hollywood. Add this to your queue Last watched: Mon Feb 13 23:35:07 UTC 2012 Air date: Sun Feb 12 00:00:00 UTC 2012 Duration: 21:37 Last viewed at 3:35PM on Feb 13, 2012 - Shevonne
furrworld
My alcoholic and abusive father left and divorced my mother when I was 11...I haven't see him in over 25 years. I grew up poor since he refused to pay child support. Now I hear that my mother is considering remarrying him. I'm speechless...
whut? - Mary Carmen
also, did you find your phone yet? - Mary Carmen
Again...I'm speechless...oh and had to get a new phone...still trying to get all the contacts back in - furrworld
Oh my, I wouldn't know how to react either, though I am sure it would be negative. - Friar Will (:^)
Yea me and my brother are just like there are no words right now... - furrworld
!! - edythe
:( - Anne Bouey
At least you're an adult. My parents, who divorced when I was 8 would still hook up from time to time and at one point mom moved back in. She left us with my drunk father. It confused and infuriated me. I have no love for my mother to this day. That warm fuzzy feeling you're supposed to have for mom, NOPE. - G Dub of the Carolinas
I guess...I kinda feel like that lost kid I was at 12 again you know the kid who just shows up at the neighbors house at dinner time hoping they will have some pity and feed you cause your drunk dad took off and your mom is too busy partying all the time to even remember she has kids...ok I'm bitter. I said it. - furrworld
dude, if she wants to fuck up the remainder of her life, let her. you don't have to be a part of it. if she doesn't realize what she is doing or how it hurts others, she never will. can't change her. - Mary Carmen
I can't be a part of it and neither will my brother. - furrworld
Well there you go. Just imagine how much less complicated life will be now that you don't have to worry about her. I know it sounds harsh, but she is making a decision that has some serious consequences. - Mary Carmen
She's the only mother I got even if she is a sucky one..I will always worry about her. Classic child of an alcoholic. - furrworld
Sorry I didn't mean to minimize what you're going through I think the main point was going for was I can relate. - G Dub of the Carolinas
@g dub you didn't no worries. It's sad so many people can relate to this. I appreciated your comments. :) - furrworld
<shoots you a knowing wink> - G Dub of the Carolinas
*hugs* I'm sorry that you have had to go through this, both of you (and anyone else). It's not right. - joey
=O - Shevonne
This will be an absolutely and obscenely unpopular comment, and I mean no disrespect to you, but they're living their lives. They're just two kids in love. Like the rest of us. Take the alcohol out of the equation (and, yes, I know you can't) and it's suddenly not a thing. I'm a kid and I'm a parent; I understand the absolute disconnect that occurs when children start viewing you as a... more... - Akiva
I was thinking the same thing. Love does make people do irrational things, but then again, love isn't everything, which is something that people don't realize. Especially when you are a parent, and someone has done your child wrong, then love goes out the window. However, not everyone thinks like me, so this is when you get a scenario like this one. - Shevonne
What Shevonne just typed. I'm terrified of Rochelle's fiancé. He's going to be in control of my children. I don't at all like the feeling of powerlessness. I'm absolutely desperate trying to see him as a good father and goddamn him if all of the evidence points to yes, that he's a good father, a good man. I want to hate him for stupid reasons but I can't. I need him to be my best friend... more... - Akiva
The hardest thing to do is realize your parents are people. Furworld, bounce that thought back and forth. Compassion for the failed person and disassociation with the parent part. - Janet-The Bottley Crue
As much as I would like to say they are 2 crazy kids wanting to be together I will never get the memory of my drunk father viciously beating my mother in front of me when I was a child...not a smack...pounding her with his closed fists...that's not love and that's a big reason why I wont have anything todo with it. - furrworld
I'm so sorry. I know this is something very hard for you. - Shevonne
Wow, i'm sorry - SteVe C
Knowing a lot of the backstory of this, I can say that this is not love. It is probably loneliness on both their parts. If I had to wager, I'd say more on your mom's part than your father's. You have to let your mom make her choice, just like she will have to accept the repercussions of those choices. Nothing I know of your dad makes me think he understands or comprehends what love... more... - Mary Carmen
((((((furrworld)))))) - vicster
Mitchell Tsai
FriendFeed to Twitter not working for me since Jan 17.
Same - Shevonne
Still... It's a pain to double post in Facebook also, since Bookmarklets don't show up individually in Facebook. Might have to bite the bullet and spend time in Google+ , but I like the search in FriendFeed. - Mitchell Tsai
Rohan Kar
Judge allows Sandusky visits from some grandchildren - Reuters
Whhaaaaaa - Shevonne
Shevonne
Herpes-Positive Monkeys Run Wild in Florida - http://www.treehugger.com/natural...
Herpes-Positive Monkeys Run Wild in Florida
"Last week, Federal Wildlife officials articulated the threats faced by Everglades wildlife from invasive pythons, but there's another non-native species nearby which may pose an even greater problem for humans. For the last 80 years, a hardy population of rhesus monkeys has been living in the wild of central Florida, where they've long been considered an attraction among tourists. But according to park agents, the unwelcome monkeys present "a true public hazard" -- namely because many of them are carrying a form of simian herpes which can be deadly to humans." - Shevonne from Bookmarklet
Florida is fucked, I think. - Kelli H. from Android
I know... - Shevonne
Things I shouldn't read while planning a trip to Florida lol. - Penguin from iPhone
Hahaha - Shevonne
How? What? I don't... what's is going on in Florida? - Georgie Bestie
If that's true, Kelli...THEY GONNA GET DA HERPES!!!?!! - Bubba Botts
Alex Scrivener
Queens of the Stone Age – Go With The Flow - http://www.last.fm/music...
I love this song - Shevonne
It's pretty awesome. The video wasn't bad, either. - Alex Scrivener
Iphigenie
People hadnt thought of or listened to Whitney Houston in 5 years care now she's died? too little, too late. try to care while they live.
You never really know what someone is listening to though. I listen to Whitney Houston songs almost every day, especially Moment in Time and All the Man That I Need. - Shevonne
well I suspect you have given her a thought in the last 5 years :) this was not meant as a criticism but it is a bit sad that often we notice that we cared when it's too late... - Iphigenie
the "try to care while they live" applies as a good rule for people you know, artists, even businesses or restaurants... I'm not saying don't tweet, I'm saying give some love to good stuff before they are dead, it's even better! - Iphigenie
Shevonne
How to start running again - http://www.dcfemella.com/2012...
How to start running again
“It is good for the mind as well” How I did it: I have never been the best runner.  My sisters can run circles around me.  While they prefer running, I prefer cycling.  However in the winter, I can’t do much cycling other than spin class.  Running is also great for my mind.  I am constantly [...] - Shevonne
Joel M
1st day at work (@ Office Depot Corporate Headquarters) http://4sq.com/ySCKdM
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Joel's gone Corporate! :) - caj needs a haircut
Woohoo! - Shevonne
Moving on up!! - Joel M from Android
Sounds like a good place for stealing office supplies. - Greg Guitarbuster
lol Greg - Michelle M
Better not mess with my stapler. - Joel M from Android
Ali Yolcu
Bu fincanlardan çay ve kahve içmeyi kim istemez ki?..
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3. fotodan almak istiyorum. nerde satılıyor bilen? - jannsu
Beğenmedim. - Quack
3 ve sonuncu - erkan
bun design <3<3<3 - ececix
<3 - Shevonne
I wonder if there's a south paw version of that cookie cup? - Eivind
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Shevonne
Frozen with Fear? How the Love Hormone Gets You Moving - http://old.news.yahoo.com/s...
"Now a new study shows how the brain speedily delivers the hormone oxytocin — which new mothers have in elevated levels, starting with childbirth — to where it's needed, freeing them to protect their young. The study, done in rats, revealed that oxytocin rushes to the brain region governing fear, called the amygdala, courtesy of special cells that act like a neurological expressway. Further, when the researchers provoked these cells into sending oxytocin to the amygdala, it diminished the rats' fearful responses to being startled. The findings "could have implications for autism, anxiety and fear disorders," said study researcher Ron Stoop, a psychiatric neuroscientist at the University of Lausanne in Switzerland. The work may also spur scientists to look more closely at the brain's activity at moments when oxytocin levels are high, such as during childbirth and lactation, Stoop said." - Shevonne from Bookmarklet
Shevonne
"I read the book and liked the majority of it. This is going to be an awesome movie!" - Shevonne
Shevonne
Family Guy - s10 | e13 - Tom Tucker: The Man and His Dream - http://www.hulu.com/watch...
Family Guy - s10 | e13 - Tom Tucker: The Man and His Dream
Hulu Plus subscription required. Learn More Peter and Tom take Hollywood. Add this to your queue Air date: Sun Feb 12 00:00:00 UTC 2012 Duration: 21:37 Added to queue at 11:26AM on Feb 13, 2012 Closed captions available. - Shevonne
Shevonne
Induced labor allows dying Texas man see daughter - http://www.google.com/hostedn...
Induced labor allows dying Texas man see daughter
"Diane Aulger had her labor induced and gave birth to their daughter Jan. 18. When tiny Savannah was placed in his arms, Mark Aulger "cried, and he just looked very sad," his wife said. He died five days later from complications related to his cancer treatment. The 52-year-old Texas man was diagnosed with colon cancer in April. He had surgery and, as a precaution, six months of chemotherapy, Diane Aulger said. With no signs of cancer showing up in follow up tests, the treatment seemed successful." - Shevonne from Bookmarklet
Gosh, how sad. - Spidra Webster
It's beautiful and sad. - Stephan Planken from iPhone
Gepetto
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Shevonne
Model Has Natural 20-inch Waist - http://shine.yahoo.com/fashion...
Model Has Natural 20-inch Waist
"Romanian model Ioana Spangenberg says she has natural 20-inch waist. When you see her thin middle in contrast to her 32-inch hips, it's no wonder tabloids like The Sun are referring to Spangenberg as "the human hourglass."" - Shevonne from Bookmarklet
Wow! - Shevonne
HAH !!!! WTF ???? doesnt she have any kidney ? where's her liver or bowels ?? she's going to break to half lol :D - Viva Vida
I know. She said it used to be 15. Is that even possible? - Shevonne
I think it's highly unlikely this is absolutely natural. Look at her elbows, neck, etc. I don't think it's her body's natural set point. - Spidra Webster
Haa ! 15 inch ??? she's not a human being I guess , it's just a skeleton ! even an abnormal one !! - Viva Vida
eek! - Nathalie
Hey, aliens need love too. - T-Bone Tsali, FF Cherokee
Well, my thoughts on this poor dear. If she doesn't want people to stare she should choose to not tailor her clothing as she does? - Janet-The Bottley Crue
I agree - Shevonne
Shevonne
Re: The worst thing about Valentine's Day - The Oatmeal - http://theoatmeal.com/blog...
"Thisade realize that I need to shet the hell up" - Shevonne
Gepetto
Shevonne
What Falling in Love Does to the Brain - http://old.news.yahoo.com/s...
"Falling in love can wreak havoc on your body. Your heart races, your tummy gets tied up in knots, and you're on an emotional roller coaster, feeling deliriously happy one minute and anxious and desperate the next. Research shows that these intense, romantic feelings come from the brain. In one small study, researchers looked at magnetic resonance images of the brains of 10 women and seven men who claimed to be deeply in love. The length of their relationships ranged from one month to less than two years. Participants were shown photographs of their beloved, and photos of a similar-looking person. The brains of the smitten participants reacted to photos of their sweethearts, producing emotional responses in the same parts of the brain normally involved with motivation and reward. "Intense passionate love uses the same system in the brain that gets activated when a person is addicted to drugs," said study co-author Arthur Aron, a psychologist at the State University of New York at Stony Brook. In other words, you start to crave the person you're in love with like a drug." - Shevonne from Bookmarklet
Shevonne
Grimm - s1 | e11 - Tarantella - http://www.hulu.com/watch...
Grimm - s1 | e11 - Tarantella
The desiccated body of a young man leads Nick and Hank to a deadly woman leading a double life. Add this to your queue Last watched: Sun Feb 12 14:24:19 UTC 2012 Air date: Fri Feb 10 00:00:00 UTC 2012 Duration: 43:25 Rating: 4.2 / 5.0 Last viewed at 6:24AM on Feb 12, 2012 - Shevonne
Shevonne
Ristorante Bonaroti (5/5) - http://www.yelp.com/biz...
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"My boyfriend and I headed there for a romantic non-Vday dinner. We had this really great French wine while eating the bread with an amazing olive tapenade. I got the linguine pescatore with vodka…" - Shevonne
Shevonne
Cartoon Cuts (3/5) - http://www.yelp.com/biz...
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"The pros are that kids love this place because while they are getting their haircut, they can watch a cartoon. Also, while they wait, they have video games. The stylists are also very nice, and they…" - Shevonne
Shevonne
No more roots (Taken with instagram) - http://polastre.tumblr.com/post...
No more roots (Taken with instagram)
This is something I rarely tell anyone but you're ridiculously pretty. - Akiva
Totally, dude. - Adrian
Aww thanks!!! - Shevonne from iPhone
Astute observation, Akiva! - Bryan R. Adams
Shevonne
Re: Woman Goes to Jail for Poisoning Baby With Alcohol While Breastfeeding - http://stopalcoholdeaths.com/2012...
"Thank you for your comment. It isn't just one country's problem; it's a global one.  All of us have to work together to educate our children so that they can learn that drinking doesn't involve binge drinking." - Shevonne
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