"Most of our troubles are due to our passionate desire for and attachment to things that we misapprehend as enduring entities." ~Dalai Lama
Is marriage really the ideal?
Your “problems” are an opportunity for course correction in your life. You get to see what you don’t like (in the problem) and change toward the direction you would like to go.
"In order to be open to creativity, one must have the capacity for constructive use of solitude. One must overcome the fear of being alone." ~Rollo May