What is it with this town and their standing ovations? In the last year, I've seen 20+ pieces of theatre, and every single one received a standing ovation. Every. Single. One. It becomes meaningless, at a certain point.
- Brent Schaus
from iPhone
It's not just that town. Just as the word "awesome" has been used so much that it is not longer a "big gun" word, the standing ovation is given out pretty easily these days.
- Spidra Webster
I haven't seen any theatre outside of Victoria in more than a year, so I wonder how universal it is. I know there was a kerfuffle in Vancouver not too long ago. An actress chastised an audience member during the curtain call for NOT giving her a standing ovation.
- Brent Schaus
from iPhone
I can't speak for theater, but I've seen SOs handed out liberally at musical performances. It's hard to resist the peer pressure to rise if you're an audience member who thought it was good but not GREAT.
- Spidra Webster
I'm quite happy to go against the grain on this one. I haven't given one out in town, yet. I look forward to doing it, though.
- Brent Schaus
from iPhone
If you're driving, Rhonda is a wonderful stop on the drive from Cadiz to Granada. Also Las Alpujerras up in the mountains outside of Granada. They're gorgeous :)
- Eivind
Eivind - thanks for the suggestions - sounds wonderful.
- bob
I can't believe you're missing out Seville.
- Eithne Herd
One of my to-dos is to renew my passport. That's the first step!
- LB: #TeamMonique
a trip to melbourne is likely - have to be during the 'stralian summer though. It's a long trip & it might be necessary to stop in Bali along the way.
- bob
I'm wondering if I should try something like Helen's 40 Things list.
- LB: #TeamMonique
Hmm, 40 Things sounds much easier then Mission 101. I might have a shot at completing 40 things...
- Heather
"#1: I will not make resolutions this year, not even this one."
- Amit Patel
It looks like folks set up lists of "40 things to do before I turn 40." Mine would need to be "42 things before I turn 42," I suppose. :)
- LB: #TeamMonique
My hub does, but I don't. But we're hosting friends for NYE and as soon as I stop procrastinating I will be cleaning up the house.
- LibrarianOnTheLoose
Unpaid Furlough Day for me. At least our 4 unpaid days are always linked to a holiday, and the pay reduction is spread out over the whole year and not taken out of the paycheck in one chunk.
- m9m, Crone of FriendFeed
Had to work - Christmas not a big event in Muslim countries - off tomorrow though & less than 4 hours left in the year - Happy New Year
- bob
We got today off. Very grateful to have two (paid) long weekends in a row.
- Russian Space Lizard
Work is open, but I'm taking a vacation day.
- Brian Johns
It only makes sense when you get paid hourly like me :)
- ؛ patrick
Supposed to be off, but came in so I could have Thursday off. I have not seen my brother in two years, so I want as much time with him as I can before he heads back home.
- JA Castillo
I work until 10:45PM. Please cross your fingers and toes that no one vomits on me. I'm kind of nervous about working tonight's shift. The front desk has freaked me out with past stories. I just really want to be home before midnight and away from drunk drivers.
- Gabrielle
Not officially. We close between Christmas and New Years but I'm catching up on work today. I'm in Northern California still so I'm still on vacation!
- Tamara
No work today, but I am working tomorrow.
- Ian May
No work. Hanging with Penny, buying her all the stuff she needs for skiing. Also picked up some champagne.
- Georgia
from iPhone
I have minimal travel plans for 2013, and none of the trips are to new places. :( Perhaps I need to head up to MI and OH, both new to me, just because!
I realize that this is an extremely loaded and potentially volatile question. In hoping we can keep it friendly. Do you feel that as a society/community we have a responsibility to take care if one another?
I think we do. Growing up as poor as we did, I am so thankful that people helped me and my family out as much as they did.
- Rochelle's favorite Royce
I do. (I also believe that we should hold people accountable for being productive citizens, and I often have a hard time reconciling the two.)
- ωαřмaiden ❤Marrit Woman❤
MC, do you mean us here on FF taking care of other FFers, or Americans taking care of all Americans in need?
- Stephen Mack #TeamMomo
Yes, but then, I was raised in a family that strongly follows the idea that what we do (occupationally) and how we live should be in service to others/the greater good.
- Katy S
This is how I feel about it: "The moral test of government is how it treats those who are in the dawn of life, the children; those who are in the twilight of life, the aged; and those in the shadows of life, the sick, the needy and the handicapped." --Hubert Humphrey (http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki...)
- Stephen Mack #TeamMomo
I look at what societies actually do / have done, and the answer is yes they do. To everyone? Equally? Without prejudice or a cast/hereditary system? Mostly No, no, and no through history. But history's not over.
- Micah
I do and don't - I think we craft our social contracts to reflect what we feel that we want and need. I want to be a part of a society that does care for its own, and people feel responsibility to help one another, and am willing to make sacrifices of myself to ensure that this is what happens. I think you can have societies where that is not as important that functions as intended, just not ones that I want to be a part of.
- Jennifer Dittrich
I'm thinking these thoughts as I read and watch reports of illness, mental illness, poverty, lack of education, etc. and I just can't help but feel like as a country this is such an embarrassment. We can do better. We should do better. It just makes me sad and frustrated.
- Mary Carmen
from iPhone
We have to get beyond ourselves. Tough thing to do. Work, rest, sleep, work, rest, sleep.
- Rochelle's favorite Royce
I believe that society has a responsibility to provide a minimum standard of living that satisfies the needs you enumerated. I also believe that members of that society have an obligation to provide what productivity they can. It is in that way that I reconcile the two prerogatives to which Warmaiden seemed to be alluding.
- Bren
from iPhone
Reminds me of a story a while back about how people in India will help each other out to get on an extremely overcrowded train. Everyone is inconvenienced but it takes some empathy to know that your fellow commuter may lose their job if they don't get on the train.
- Rodfather
Simple answer: yes. (and I'm a conservative. ;) ) But I feel that if we take care of the weakest and most in need, we make ourselves stronger overall.
- Running Slow
Yes. And if a selfish reason is needed: a healthy, educated work force is good for the economy (and that's all of us).
- Betsy #TeamMonique
I don't think the question of "should we" is problematic; but the question of "how should we" is about as tricky as can be.
- LibrarianOnTheLoose
from BuddyFeed
yes. especially in small, rural communities. we stockpile food. we share what we have. we go help our neighbors. we give rides & bring stuff back from town. we teach what we know. we barter good. we give & don't look back. larger cities? not so much. I think there it's too easy to slip into a patter of avoiding those in need & keeping it to your family only. that's my experience having lived in rural New Mexico, then Southern California, and now rural Idaho.
- Jezmynne Dene
from BuddyFeed
Yes, of course! To stand by and watch someone suffer is a fracture of the soul.
- Janet:#TeamMonique
Yes. I also believe that we have an obligation to reach out to each other personally as well. And actually, what Janet just said really resonated with me.
- joey
I haven't read the rest of the responses but, yes.
- MoTO #TeamMonique
Yes, and I think Just a Librarian has nailed it. Most humans *should* respond to this with some form of "yes". How to get there, though, is something that, despite good intentions, will be more difficult.
- WebGoddess
I watched a program on Wisconsin Public Television last week that focused on rural life in Wisconsin, particularly in the early 20th century. Since there were no quick-response public resources for medical emergencies, fire emergencies, etc. in rural areas, the farm families helped each other in an emergency or crisis. When 'party-line' phone service became available, the convention was...
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- Jkram|ɯɐɹʞſ
Yes, yes, one thousand times, yes. The Humphrey quote someone shared earlier is spot on in terms of my own personal philosophy. I always remind myself that life is fragile, and while someone else might be in need today, I could be the one in need tomorrow.
- Laura Krier
To add to my already lengthy comment above, (verbose JKRAM is verbose!) I'm all for 'faith-based' charities and other private forms of support and assistance, but I think it is also very important that there be a public support system to be a safety net for those who don't have ready access to private/religious organizations offering assistance. Those who are in most desperate straits...
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- Jkram|ɯɐɹʞſ
yes personally, my community and in my politics to ensure my city, my county, my state, my nation (all my communities) each reach down to give a helping hand to every person in need
- WarLord
68F here today. I've had the window open all night. It's been lovely enough that I'm wondering just how we're going to pay for all this pretty weather later... ;)
- WebGoddess
Our low last night was 67, and the forecast is for 74-77, depending on who you believe. Who ordered spring?
- Kirsten
about the same here - pretty much normal winter weather - nice that you're having a bit of nice weather
- bob
I lived in Santa Monica and the SGV (though not a city).
- Anika
Santa Cruz, Santa Monica, and Santa Maria were close to where I lived, but I never lived there. Wait. I stayed at my bro's place in San Jose for the summer. Nevermind. Oh, also San Luis Obispo.
- Rodfather
from iPhone
Trying to think. Menlo, Palo, Mountain, Redwood...nope, never a San, though frequently close. (Those are the two-word cities. Also three one-worders...)
- Walt Crawford
around here we're prone to "Saint" ie St Paul, Saint Cloud, Saint Michael, Minneapolis..
- WarLord
Pretty sure I've only lived in 1-word towns, as well, Tinfoil
- DAMMIT, MR. NOODLE
Santa Ana, San Jose, Santa Clara.. seems I'm destined to live in a San city.
- Me
Oh, I forgot we lived with our daddy in San Leandro for a few months. So, a fourfecta?
- Starmama
from FFHound(roid)!
Every city I've lived in has had two words in it's name.
- Derrick
5 out of the 7 towns/cities in which I've lived have had some form of a word for town or city in their name (in order: ville, town, ton, burg, town).
- DAMMIT, MR. NOODLE
I like some seafood, and I'm trying to like mushrooms (for a long time I didn't). I've never had sauerkraut, and I'm not interested in blue cheese.
- John (bird whisperer)
Put some brown sugar in that sauerkraut and I'll eat it. And I'll eat the rest of the stuff you listed, too. I'll even eat it if you combine them all, except the sauerkraut, in the same dish. Seafood and mushrooms, breaded and fried, topped with hot sauce and blue cheese dressing...yum!
- April Russo
I'll eat all of it, and you can have my avocado (unless it's been mashed into guacamole, and I have some good taquitos to go with it)
- DAMMIT, MR. NOODLE
from WinForFeed
Blue cheese causes cancer, dead puppies and/or kitties, divorces, olive loaf, etc.
- Akiva
i like some seafood and i like blue cheese salad dressing. i have to be in the mood for kraut and shrooms.
- Hieronymous Boosh
I have it on good authority that blue cheese caused the whole replacement referee thing with the NFL.
- Akiva
mushrooms are good. fish are fine except shellfish ( I like, but I can't have) . agree on sauerkraut. can take or leave bleu cheese, usually leave. avocados yay! NO TO COLE SLAW. nasty stuff. :)
- ellbeecee
Yeah, I should clarify that fish are ok, but not shellfish and such.
- LB: #TeamMonique
I'm not a fan of blue cheese. Sauerkraut is nasty. I love some fish, love scallops, I'll pass on other shellfish. I'll eat all the mushrooms served almost any kinda way.
- Starmama
from FFHound(roid)!
Fresh seafood - yes. (Though it's hard to find here in the upper midwest.) Mushrooms - YES! Sauerkraut - sure (with a brat.) Blue cheese - Yah sure YOU BETCHA!
- Jkram|ɯɐɹʞſ
Blue cheese on a cracker with the right wine = awesome!!
- ʎəlɹoɯ uəʞ
right there with you LB! Except, I have learned to *love* gorgonzola cream sauce. No idea why, but wow is it good!
- RudĩϐЯaЯïan
I think I might be sick if I had to eat all of those together.
- Jim #TeamMonique
(RudĩϐЯaЯïan, there are 6 answers before your comment. If you have people blocked, you won't see their comments.)
- Rochelle
Kids who had their first cross country meet and did well and had fun and it was not raining for it!
- Rochelle
(i refreshed, ans viola, they were there. I had a horrible moment of feeling blocked by FF!)
- RudĩϐЯaЯïan
(If people had you blocked, you'd still see their comments. They just wouldn't be able to see yours.)
- Rochelle
I was asked to peer review something pretty important. I'll be keeping company with people who are world-renowned experts in their field. I am told it is a huge honor. (It kind of just sounds like more work, though. :P) Oh, and I donated blood for someone who might need it one day.
- Kelli H.
I bought new music - Mumford. New music = much happiness
- Jen
Saved several realities from an incursion by the Elder Gods. Also, untangled an Excel spreadsheet.
- Steven Perez
Walking in the Social Security office one minute before it closed, getting the documents I needed from a woman with the sunny disposition not usually seen in bureaucratic workers, and walking out of the office less than 5 minutes after I got there :-)
- Starmama
from FFHound(roid)!
also The Firebreak (Richard Stark/Donald Westlake) - about halfway through The Yard & have my eye on Prisoner of Heaven (Carlos Ruiz Zafon - one of my favorite writers)
- bob
That books sounds interesting. Added it to my list :)
- Eivind
I moved out of one parent's home at 15, the other at 19.
- Le Slip Anglais
18 for college, although I came back for summers during undergrad & between various grad programs after that. I spent about a year with them again at 27/28 after moving back from Canada & finding a job (and saving up enough to move out again). That's the point they converted my bedroom into a full time guest room .
- Soup in a TARDIS
from FFHound!
I moved out and into the dorms at 18. And came home for the summers and breaks. My sophomore year of college I only came home for winter break. My junior year I lived with my grandma until I rented a room out of somebody's house. Then I moved back in with my grandma. I didn't go home for any breaks my junior year and i started paying all my own bills. Then this summer I got an apartment at age 20.... So i never has my *own* place until i was 20. But i would say i moved out of my parents at 19.
- Marissa
17 - Went off to college and never went back (except for short visits).
- Friar Ticket to Ride
18, back at 22 for a couple of months (just out of army), back at 24 for a couple of months (just before going back in), back at 30 for 8 years (med retired out of the army)
- Michael W. May
The eyewitness report of the first physician to reach the mortally wounded president at Ford's Theater in April 1865 was discovered in a box at the National Archives
- bob
I don't have one but when I was confirmed I took Anthony as my confirmation name just so I could call myself Mark Anthony; I'd studied Roman history prior to this.
- Mark H
Huh. Confirmation names are a whole 'nother thing. :) (mine is Kateri Tekakwitha - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... - at 12, I wanted something different from all the Annes and Catherines)
- ellbeecee
Middle name: Lenea. Pronounced like Lynné, with an ah. After my maternal grandmother who had the same middle name. She was named after the Linnea flower.
- Lisa | #TeamMonique
from Android
Dogs were Spencer Maurice and Lilly Denise and Blackie Therese. Cats, Simon Francis, Emily Sue, Thea Mia, Darby O'Grady. The kittens do not have their middle names as yet o.o
- Janet:#TeamMonique
from FFHound!
sorry - hoping for the best, take care of yourself as well
- bob
It is really painful to see your parents heart themselves :( hope he gets well soon
- Nemo
Assuming he gets through the worst of this, it could be a blessing in disguise. A friend - and the temple choir director/asst cantor - has had her hands full with 88-yo mom who fell and fractured her skull, has made a near-complete recovery except for massive self-pity. This will give the mom a project and my father a friend, if they get along.
- Mary B: #TeamMonique
from iPhone
I imagine this is better on my apparently destroyed back than weather where I grew up in Chicago.
- teleken
from BuddyFeed
jealous! for real. I'm not being sarcastic
- Marissa
It's not that bad. The "dry heat" thing is somewhat of a myth, but 102 is tolerable. Like I said, when we get in the 115s, 120s, that's when it gets bad.
- teleken
Yay to not cancer! Tomorrow we can think about what it actually is.....
- RudĩϐЯaЯïan
good news, indeed - hopefully they can now resolve the problem soonest
- bob
Thanks, Bob, my hope too. Sure, no cancer/infection is a good thing (though this doc is really open and everything from the length of my femur to my kneecap is irreparably damaged and he told me and showed me on my MRIs), I want to get to the bottom of this. As I'm sure anyone could imagine, constant pain impacts everything from how I am at work to my life at home.
- teleken
from BuddyFeed
Next up is a MRI of my spine to look for nerve damage.
- teleken
from BuddyFeed
Such good news!! I know exactly how horrible constant pain is and I hope they figure it out as quickly as they possibly can!! However ruling this out is awesome!!!!
- Rachel Lea Fox
from iPhone
Wait. I thought we knew not cancer. So no infection either? That's also good. No exclamation point because you're still hurting.
- Mary B: #TeamMonique
Pinched nerve in my lumbar spine, doing lovely things to my leg, which we knew about, and screwing up not just my lower back, but everything up to the left side of my neck. Consult with a spine surgeon Monday after next and I plan to push hard for non-surgical treatment first. For lots of reasons, 6 weeks of recovery from surgery would be challenging for me.
- teleken
Have you thought about chiropractic and/or acupuncture? Chiro, in my view, is surgery. Just without the knives, and more slowly accomplished. Hence it doesn't ruin your life. I've also seen it doo things it's not supposed to be able to do.
- Mary B: #TeamMonique
I've also known of acupuncture doing similar things. http://www.acupuncturedr.com/index... the reason this guy stopped doing plastic surgery was that he was in a life-threatening car crash that completely incapacitated him. Acupuncture brought him back to the point where he could have done surgery again, but he preferred to do this - and, frankly, I don't think he'd still be doing surgery at 85ish. He's a little younger than my father. I've known him all my life.
- Mary B: #TeamMonique
I have had acupuncture for back pain. Although I believed in it for other things, I was skeptical of it's value for back pain, but it did really help.
- Laura Norvig
from iPhone
My view now is, you may be getting to the end of what the conventional guys can do for you. It's great to find an md like Marcy who swings both ways, but that doesn't make the method any less valid if you go to someone else. (it may make the insurance pay easier.) The point is find folks who can help you.
- Mary B: #TeamMonique
I mean no offense, but I want to see what the spine doc has to say. Rest assured I've watched both sides of my family get caught in the back surgery "loop" and I will push back, hard, if pushed towards that.
- teleken
from BuddyFeed
Go figure, leg isn't as bad today, but that same level of pain decided to move to my back. If I were a horse, I would have been glue and dog food by now.
Very much so, Melly. This is the worst I've been in the two years since all this started. I honestly wasn't in this much pain pre-surgery last year, and as honestly, it's never been to this degree.
- teleken
Thanks Bob - MRI next week to either confirm or rule out a trashed lower back. I just want the diagnostic dance to stop. P.S. I really don't like Vicodin and don't understand anyone that would.
- teleken
from BuddyFeed
not familiar with Vicodin - they gave me Tramal to help with the pain associated with a crushed vertebrae - it's been almost a year now. I had to get up & go to work every day, & you have to walk the line between pain & zombie, although I did notice that no one came up and pinned a gold star on me for enduring pain.
- bob
I don't expect that either, Bob, not in the environment I'm in. I'll say that at the department level (90 people or so) they've stepped up to where they're able. I show up and I do much more than is required of me, and they return the favor by giving me some leash. A meds change may be in the works, depending on how quickly they can diagnostically narrow down what's going on.
- teleken
from BuddyFeed
A bonus is that my supervisor has been through a plethora of medical stuff himself and still is dealing with a lot of it. Empathy goes a long way. No gold stars, but understanding helps.
- teleken
Ken, I used to take Vicodin 2-3x a day and had no problem with it. I tolerated it well, and couldn't take enough of it to even think about getting a buzz on it. YMMV with ANY drugs, especially opiates. You don't say why you don't like the Vicodin; if it's not doing the job then tell the doc to prescribe something else. In my experience (not just opinion) if you're prescribed the CORRECT level of meds you should not have a problem with addiction. Just be aware they are for pain and not anything else.
- Bubba da Troll
I'm trying to remember the name of the painkiller I took for a few days post-caesarean. It was awesome. Knocked out the pain with no side effects.
- Headless Gnad Kicker
I'm not a fan of opiates in any capacity. I don't get sick now, but it takes 2 pills or more to relieve the pain. My tolerance builds up really quickly.
- teleken
from BuddyFeed
Catching up - feeling the frustration. Also wishing you healing. There are some kickass NSAIDs they might want to experiment with for your pain and inflammation, but I wonder with your stomach. Still, they might be worth a shot - ask about Mobic and ketorolac.
- Mary B: #TeamMonique