I agree 100% with your post, Robert. We use OpenDNS in our household and it obviously helps quite a bit but I already had a few "small talks" with my 9 year old daughter about the "bad stuff" on the internet. No talk can fully prepare a child for what they may see or experience out there but it can certainly help with having your kid make the right choice when faced with such a situation.
- Radek Papiez
I am glad that the movement is swinging away from just only trying to prevent our children from experiencing the dark side of the internet. We need to place reasonable safeguards as well as opening the lines of communication between parents and children. I work in a school and see every day how hard many parents find it to have uncomfortable discussions with their teenagers. I would love to see a resource that helps encourage and facilitate a positive and open communication between parents and their kids.
- Phillip Miller
Magid's been talking about Interney safety education - both on the mobile and fixed web - over prevention for years. Curious to see what you think of his take on things?
- Julie Matic
this is where Glubble will help you. We provide parents the tools to support their children discover the web and social networking. Instead of locking children or the computer down, or trying to be the experts for parents, we let parents take the responsibility and build a safe and fun web for their children. This way parents can teach their children to be good citizens in the online...
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- Alexander van Elsas
Kids are part of the problem themselves. At my school lots of trouble begins online at social media sites and can even end in fighting. Othertimes it's the other way round. A child is bullied at school and then bullied online too.
- Donald Townsend
from twhirl
Our kids are only allowed to use the computer in the public areas of our house (ie. not their rooms). I am not so naive to think this is the only solution, so I have had discussions with my older kids (11 & 8) about appropriate use, sites, etc. As far as them posting information online, I told them to think about this: If you wouldn't stand up in the middle of your school lunch room and share the same information with everyone, it's probably not a good idea to put it online.
- Dave Gambrill
Dave, that's a good criteria. I'd extend it to say... If you wouldn't stand up in the middle of your school lunch room and share the same information with everyone and allow it to be posted on the school wall forever, it's probably not a good idea to put it online.
- LogEx
Avynn's computer is in a common room, right where I can see him from my office. We have no censorship of any kind on his computer. So far the worst thing he watches is machinima based around Half Life 2 and sometimes Monty Python. He's 12 now, so we'll probably need to have a talk about porn sometime before too long. He doesn't have any friends yet who even know what email or IM is. That'll change in Middle School.
- Internet's Tad
Alexander, I'll have to test that out in anticipation. I haven't given up waiting on my little miracles. :) Nice to be prepared though. Thanks for sharing!
- Melanie Reed
@Tad - Watching Monty Python already, eh? Sounds like your kid'll be okay. :)
- Steve Lynch
from twhirl
I agree that education is the best form of prevention -- kids are smart, make sure they know how you feel (and why).
- Steve Lynch
from twhirl
Locking computers and the web down too much gives kids a reason to want to break free. It is so much better to give them a cool experience and teach them about their behavior on the web at the same time. My ultimate goal is for a child to be able to say that his Internet is way more cooler than mom's or dad's Internet. And parents need to be educated and get involved as well. They can't just rely on tools but should be actively involved. They want to, but often do not know how
- Alexander van Elsas
As much as you try, you cannot "protect" your kids online, except by educating them. The weakest links are their friends. I've seen first hand how friends will introduce new people into a network that no one in the existing network knows. Kids don't realize that these new people are "strangers" because they assume "a friend of a friend" is safe. That's one thing I've had to teach my kids -- that friends of friends are strangers unless you know them in the "real world."
- Dominic Jones
And the cc: line in emails is the most common way strangers get into your kids' networks.
- Dominic Jones
Sorry to hog this, but if I can help one person it's worth it. Teach your kids never to share their passwords with their friends. They often do this for things like neopets and webkinz when they're going to be offline for a while and want a friend to take care of their "pets" or keep in good standing on Club Penguin or something. Their passwords often are the same for a variety of sites, including web mail.
- Dominic Jones
I grew up before the age of social media and there was lots of bullying, malicious gossip and harassment, not to mention the creepy guy who stood on the corner in a raincoat. (of course, bringing guns to school wasn't unusual then, you just had to keep them on the gun rack) The Web is just the latest tool for bullies and pervs.
- Robert Hafer
@ Robert Hafer Today, the creepy guy in a raincoat is a sweet-looking 10-year-old girl who is popular with everyone and has all the latest gadgets but absent parents.
- Dominic Jones
OpenDNS for us. It's router based and my kids and wife love me for it.
- Adam
Kurt, you remind me of that NYC mom who let her 9 year old ride the subway alone
- Adam
"Free application DeskHedron brings multiple virtual desktops to Windows, complete with an impressive spinning 3D animation that switches between your desktops. Using the application is simple enough—just run the executable, use the tray icon to add or remove up to 9 virtual desktops, and then switch between the desktops with a hotkey. The default setup only has two virtual desktops, so switching between them looks like flipping the desktop over—add more virtual desktops and it looks a little like Compiz Fusion's cube desktop. The software is still very basic, only works with a single monitor, and has no options to move windows from one cube to another—but unlike the similar, no longer free Yod'm 3D, this application is open source, and ready for any enterprising coder to improve it. DeskHedron is free and open source, available for Windows only." ~Lifehacker
- Neurario
Looks quite nice. I have been using DeskSpace which is similar but a bit nicer IMHO. Doesn't play too well with multiple monitors though.
- Luke Addison
from twhirl
That's an awesome movie. I agree that it should be moved up. It's also available to stream I think.
- Brian
From his media appearances (Colbert, Wait wait) I'm inclined to loathe the guy. Does that come through in the film - and is it worth it even so?
- Chris Cotsapas
@Chris yes i also hate the guy, but that doesn't take from the fact that what he did was amazing, and the movie is very well done, highly recommended.
- Bernardo
"I am reading, and just “liked” this post. Anyway, in friendfeed you should teach people to use lists. For instance, create a list called “noisy assholes” and put me on it. That way I won’t disturbe your other friends and drown them out, even if I get really noisy. Also, I did a video that shows how to use friendfeed and do more with it: http://friendfeed.com/e..."
- Robert Scoble
I have a separate list called Scoble.
- Bill Romanos
The next generation of mirrors - Mathematician Andrew Hicks designs unusual mirrors that reflect wide panoramas or even show text the right way round - http://www.newscientist.com/gallery...
the last mirror -- This mirror does not produce a "mirror" image, making it possible to read reflected text normally. Hicks, a mathematician at Drexel University, Philadelphia, used computer algorithms to generate the mirror's bizarre surface, which curves and bends in different directions. The curves direct rays from an object across the mirror's face before sending them back to the viewer, flipping the conventional mirror image. As well as neat tricks like this, Hicks' models make it possible to design mirrors that provide wide angled-views or eliminate distortion.
- Cee Bee
But... Apple made bank off the ipod mini/nano/shuffle, all downscaled versions of the marquee product. It doesn't seem implausible they might pursue that strategy with phones and computers too. Hell, they already did with the Mac mini, though I guess that didn't set the world on fire the way the smaller ipods did.
- Andrew C
Usually I think you're on the cutting edge, Mona, especially in regards to important bacon news, but this is really old news :D
- Bob M. Montgomery
from twhirl
haha -- you guys... TC is one of my core headline sources. I look at their headlines and Google for other articles LOL. Even if I may think they're full of shit at times, they're still on point re: breaking news. ;) But what a horrible ordeal Last.fm had to go through. And I think it's amazing even the RIAA responded.
- Mona Nomura
from IM
It's a source to find out about new companies showcasing their edgy services. As a news source it's completely unreliable.
- Amit Morson
I'm tempted to "like", but even as mad as they are, I'm not a fan of seeing profanity in a company's official publication.
- Sarah Perez
Learned the Crunch was full of itself about 3 years ago. hence the non-following of such "behemoths".
- tony
i hope this is a wake up call for them. do you think last.fm will do anything about it??
- Terry O'Fee
TechCrunch writes stories that get spread and this one did. LastFM are doing a good job on handling the situation though, so props to them. 2,701 diggs, wow!
- Jeremy Campbell
from twhirl
"TechCrunch - All The News That's Fit To Shit... OM NOM NOM CRUNCH!" ;) /me hides
- Tyson Key
Though I agree with Sarah regarding the profanity in the title, I look at it more this way: the one profanity in the title is nothing, considering the awful accusation. Either which way, good for Last.fm :)
- Mona Nomura
I guess this means Apple will start throwing its peels around. It was fun while it lasted.
- MiniMage, sheeple of FF
Well, I don't stop jailbreaking at all, even when it's illegal: because Apple is so wrong about this. But it's good to still defence the meaning of jailbreaking
- Kristian Salonen
aXXo - Some say he can encode a stack of DVDs in seconds using only his teeth, and that he can command an army of millions with just one NFO. All that we know is he’s called aXXo and he/she/they have some security advice for the worshippers.
- Alfredo