I think four factors are that churches are asking the wrong questions, we're providing wrong answers, the Drupal web site probably doesn't target non-geeks, and the word about Drupal isn't getting to the right places. http://snurl.com/31i52 - Micah Webner

The more I think about this the more I think web site and web application development needs to be turned on it's head when it comes to churches. It's a matter of approach. I think your post does a good job pointing out part of the problem. But, I'm starting to rethink the way we view and approach the problem before we even come to drupal as a possible solution. Expect a lot more on this in the coming future. - Matt Farina