"S'mores are one of my favorite treats and I can remember sitting on the beach around a bon fire, assembling graham crackers, marshmallows and chocolate while watching fireworks. To this day every time I eat them I am transported to summer, to memories, to childhood. A bon fire or camp fire is not always accessible but you can still enjoy this mouthwatering treat by baking them in the oven- thank goodness! I will be serving them this weekend on a platter, as dessert for the 4th of July festivities at our house."
- edythe
from Bookmarklet
I know, but it's better than nothing...especially in HD!
- .LAG liked that
We had arena league season ticks but that folded. So nothing.
- Todd Hoff
@Todd...oh, yeah, that's right, I forgot about arena football going on hiatus for at least one season. is nothing sacred in this economy?
- .LAG liked that
Northing. We are on the border of the profane.
- Todd Hoff
I agree with Steven, not the same. Sorry tho Mr Perez, GO PACKERS!!
- Shey
This has to be the best friendfeed face ever. I feel sorry for you, Shey, but hey on the bright side, Formula One is about to kick off again soon.
- Scoble, Alex Scoble
My husband sports that same face every year too. Epic photo Shey! :D
- Carmen wBabby
...as fresh as the first time you posted it! .LOLz! -- btw, at least there's the scouting combines this week on NFL Network... if you like watching a bunch of college football players run around cones.
- .LAG liked that
For some reason, I read combines as concubines. I've been reading the Bible a lot more lately, LOL.
- Shey
hahaha!..... for some of those players, there will be concubines (and transgressions) too...
- .LAG liked that
dude... EPL, Serie A, La Liga, and Champion's League are going strong, and MLS is just about to get rolling! TONS OF FOOTBALL!!!
- Bren
totally got a cool idea for new schwag... two items: for new Moms, a friend feed shirt with slots for easy feeding of infants... and for new Pops like Louis, nipple with bottle attachment inserts with one nipple coming out of the first f and the second nipple coming out of the second d... saweet!
- Rob Reed
FF schwag and twins! best picture of the day!
- Sarah Perez
Mega awesome ;) Congratulations to you and your family, like the Friendfeed t-shirt ;)
- Mario Olckers
Tiny... little... eentsy... lumps of yum. There, my estrogen has officially shown itself.
- Carla Thompson
No way - they have FF onesies??? How do I get my hands on one of those?
- Jesse Stay
The Gray family Babies!!!! Sarah and Mathew look sooo cute in your arms! and sooo tiny my goodness!!... still LOL @ Rob's wacky comment..whoa!
- Susan Beebe
I'm with Sean, it's a biochemical thing, not an ideology. I wouldn't call you anti-mango if the smell of frying bacon makes you hungry.
- MiniMage, enterRUPPted
But how far does it go, MiniMage? What if I only like blondes? Am I hairist? What if I only like Asian women with green eyes? etc. etc. I think sometimes our language about ‘discrimination’ gets into some troubling areas. That was the point I was trying to make with the original post.
- Anthony Citrano
No, you're a breeder. Where *are* the little munchkins anyhow? :)
- Richard Walker
The term "sexist" does not connote attraction as a matter of definition. Sexual preferences and negative generalizations based on the immutable characteristic of gender are not even in the same volume of the dictionary, let alone the same definitional entry.
- Martha
If you only like Asian women with green eyes, then apparently you're an undead Chinese sorcerer that shoots beams of light out of your eyes.
- Victor Ganata
*-ism is not really about preference, but about power.
- Victor Ganata
+Victor on Big Trouble in Little China reference
- Rodfather
There's preference based on the superficial, and then there's biology. The two do not compare; they contrast. Now, if you owned a company and only hired women (I'm trying to imagine a business that a man could run that could only use female employees, and I'm coming up empty), THAT would prove you sexist. If you constantly sent anti-men propaganda out and constantly extolled the virtues of women, THAT would be sexist. When you start talking about eye, hair, etc, color, THAT'S exclusionary.
- MiniMage, enterRUPPted
Stockers, accountants, cash register/lights/rack maintenance. Anything behind the scenes could be done by a male at VS. I already thought of lingerie :).
- MiniMage, enterRUPPted
Based on yesterday's discussion, if you promote stereotypes of one sex or the other, you are a de facto sexist.
- Dave Roth
@Dave: I'm stuck with this damn sexist brain, I guess.
- Anthony Citrano
Ah, @Mark, what kind of evil genius franchise CANT actually use males? Ah, @Dave, when one is a leader in society and promotes stereotypes against another group, how is that NOT at least making the attempt to undermine, hamper them or otherwise be oppressive?
- MiniMage, enterRUPPted
You know, I'm with you on that. If I were an evil genius who'd seen your M.O., I'd evilly copy you and hire only handsome men. I would be completely sexist. Of course, if I were a good genius, I wouldn't do that.
- MiniMage, enterRUPPted
What if one doesn't find trans women sexually attractive? Seems like the same rules ought to apply, but trans activists don't seem very happy about that idea...
- Karl Knechtel
I just love this question! Seriously! ++++++++
- Carlton Hackett
Mine is cream of mushroom soup. The smell of it makes me want to retch. At the holidays, it's all I can do to politely choke down a bite of anything made with it.
- FFing Enigma
from email
"kudos" and "props", oh, and those tall boots every other woman on the street seems to be wearing.
- coldbrew
@Michael, yep, you don't know which part of who's body the errant hair came from. Seriously, it's such a turnoff that hubby and I have our own soaps. We don't share.
- Sally - Skyrimmin' It
I wanna change mine. I really can't stand that one single little curly hair that is always in every hot tub you get into. You know the one, it has like gps and hones in on you as soon as you get int....
- Joe "Brrzzzzzzt" Pierce
@Joe: 99% of the time they can't and just want to look badass.
- Rodfather
grabbing food off my plate without permission. really sets me off for some reason.
- ɐ ɯıʞ sıɹɥɔ
That's ok, Chris: I have it on good authority that southern girls who can punch can take your hate and turn it into fluffy zombie cats of doom.
- FFing Enigma
from fftogo
People that leave the standard 4:3 TV shows stretched on their widescreen 16:9 TV's and gloat about how great it looks
- Nathan Chase
People eating food while standing over my shoulder as I try to concentrate. MAJOR pet peeve of mine.
- Phil Glockner
People who don't join Twitter because "they don't want to know what everyone had for breakfast"
- Nathan Chase
My fiancee not putting the toilet seat up. :)
- JCunwired
What, this thread MVB? No, I read a comment about green bean casserole which made me think about how much I hate it, and this was a more fun way to post it.
- FFing Enigma
from fftogo
Like George Carlin (RIP), those little yellow signs in car windows that say things like, "Baby On Board"
- coldbrew
When the pie pieces would get stuck (if inserted upside down) in the Trivial Pursuit pie piece! Apparently, I'm not the only one http://www.amazon.com/review... . Taking FF literally is the only safe bet these days.
- Micah
When someone uses a fork and leaves those fork grooves in the butter spread. Use a knife, and keep it smooth!
- Louis P.
from twhirl
Not driving in the proper lane. If I know I need to turn left - even 5 miles ahead, I'll get in the left lane. Maybe that's just OCD...
- iTad
Trivial humor on trivial comments on trivial threads.
- Rick Kaiser
People that think the word trivial has only one meaning.
- coldbrew
The word trivial. Ahhh...sorry...I actually like that!
- Rick Kaiser
People that refer to others by their first name despite the fact that there are typically lots of people with the same first name, and they have never shaken hands with that person.
- coldbrew
people who don't tell me they're leaving an IM conversation! say goodbye dammit (and people wo say "brb" when they're not gonna be Right back ;)
- guruvan (Rob Nelson)
yeah...sorry Shey....had a BAD experience one time and ever sense then....eeesh...even the smell makes me retch... >.<
- Live4Emma (L4S)
Double parkers in front of a parking space. *Hate it*
- Sarah Peterman
Sharing a 5PM commute with no driving aholes!
- Mike Lewis
When other people are navigating the web with me watching and they don't see the proper links as quickly as me. Drives me insane - "Just CLICK RIGHT THERE!!!"
- Zach Landes
Webcam self-portraits of people looking at their monitors.
- Dave Roth
Right now it's co-worker's talking easter egg. Must. Control. Fist. Of. SMASH!
- vicster
People who really are alcoholics (or are definitely heading that way) who claim that they are just "social drinkers." That, and the people who enable them.
- Katy S
Garden State Parkway and NY Thruway tolls, which keep going up.
- Morton Fox
Jason, it's like nails on a chalkboard to me.
- Rochelle
Any, I mean ANY of those idiot FB apps, and that "25 things" thing
- ɐ ɯıʞ sıɹɥɔ
Being illogical or someone who doesn't accept (or is unable in) thinking differently about something without that person considering him/herself in the calculation.
- Zu from AOD
omg..and ESPECIALLY the stupid picture "gift" apps. I love to get the requests just so I can block the app ;)
- guruvan (Rob Nelson)
People who claim welfare when they can work and are not sick ie. malingering spongers.
- Angus Neil
Egg Art Master Franc Grom sells egg artwork by creating approximately 2,500 to 3,500 holes in each egg shell. His intricate art is inspired by traditional Slovenian designs. Drilling holes in egg shells would require an incredible amount of steady hand and patience and the effort has paid off with these beautiful creations.
- Cee Bee
randomonium:
I never had an imaginary friend when I was a child, but blogging has filled that role quite nicely in adulthood.
Thank you, Internet. - http://browneyes.tumblr.com/post...
I can't stand that crap at all. Pisses me off.
- Rah-PM 2012
No, I go ape when I see it. I've gotten into some ugly verbal fights with people. :|
- Anna Haro
Thank you!! I get treated like some kind of over-sensitive "Stuff White People Like" (http://stuffwhitepeoplelike.com/) tree hugger. I totally bitched-out one my daughter's teachers for throwing garbage in a yard next to the school.
- Rob Michael (Atmos Trio)
I've stopped on several occasions and picked up big stuff, followed the litterer until they stopped, handed it over and told them they dropped something. Shocks the hell out of them.
- JCunwired
I hate it so much. Makes my argument for 'car mounted rocket launchers' a strong one (but only in my fantasy world for now). I had an asswipe throw a lit ciggie butt out the window and straight into my lap. I was on my motorcycle. after removing the threat to my nards, i pulled up next to their SUV and knocked on the driver's window. We were driving at about 40 mph on the 110 freeway...
more...
- Morgan
The thing that pisses me off the most is to see some yahoo throw a lit cigarette out of the window of a moving car. I the summer, we have a very high fire danger here in northern CA. These idiots are responsible for countless grass fires along our highways and occasionally a large fire that ends up burning homes and businesses.
- Jeff P. Henderson
I had a friend who would pick up trash thrown out the window by someone stopped at the light in front of him. He would turn off his car, get out, pick up the trash, hand it back to them if they still had their window down or just make a big show of holding up traffic while he threw their trash away for them before getting back to his car. I often wish I had the balls to do this.
- Lisa L. Seifert | FHG™
It is just completely irresponsible and immature to litter and there doesn't seem to be any logical reason for doing so aside from laziness.
- Kenley Neufeld
Are we talking about creating a police state here? The U.S. Army alone has nearly 500,000 troops. That doesn't count reserves or National Guard. In 2007, the U.S. Defense budget was $439 billion. Is Obama serious about creating some kind of domestic security force bigger and more expensive than that? If not, why did he say it? What did he mean?
- bcultral
from Bookmarklet
I'm the oldest of five. The oldest two (me and my brother Phil) are left-handed, the other three kids are right-handed. Our parents are right-handed too. It's too early to tell for my two kids (1 1/2 and 3 1/2), but I think they're going to turn out right-handed. There you go, nine data points for your son's survey!
- Stephen Mack
My dad broke is right hand two times in a row when he was six. So things he learned then, like writing, he does with his left hand. He also still eats his soup using his left hand. For the rest he does everthing with his right hand. One cool trick he has up his sleeve is that he can start writing a sentence with his left hand, switch the pen mid-sentence, and complete the sentence with his right hand. As for me, I'm a plain boring righty.
- Jeroen Van Goey
Residual effects of childhood polio have forced me to be right handed but according to medical professionals, I ought to have been left-handed. (That may skew your results a bit!)
- Jill O'Neill
I am left handed, however I use my right hand to scroll up and down and to search the web with the mouse. Using the left hand is just weird for me.
- Patrick
from twhirl
"Many of us use online stock photography when we’re looking for images to spice up a presentation or blog post. A lot of us also love to scour Flickr for the same purpose, since with a little digging we can typically find truly beautiful and captivating photos to express what our words can’t."
- Kol Tregaskes
ScienceDaily (Mar. 10, 2009) — "Most of us save things – memorabilia, collectibles, items from our childhood or from our children. But for more than an estimated million Americans, the saving may get out of hand and cross over to a psychiatric condition known as compulsive hoarding. People who engage in hoarding put themselves and neighbors in danger, say experts at the University of Michigan Health System. Their living conditions can present a fire hazard and are often unsanitary and unsafe. Hoarders face the real prospect of becoming buried under an avalanche of trash. Treating hoarding is difficult because people who suffer from it often don't see the squalor they live in as a problem."
- Anna Haro
from Bookmarklet
My Dad's uncle's wife has that. When he passed away and the family had to move her out and help her because she couldn't live alone we all found out how bad she had it. Its still tough with her.
- Joe "Brrzzzzzzt" Pierce
Oh my goodness, Joe. :( Yeah, this condition is really quite sad.
- Anna Haro
Yeah, he told us that she had a lot of stuff that she wouldn't get rid of but since they lived way out and always came to us we just had no no idea at all.
- Joe "Brrzzzzzzt" Pierce
I think an ex of mine has it. She isn't to the point of it being unsanitary but she needs to surround her living area with tons of clothes, boxes, trinkets and such.
- ·[▪_▪]·
My mother has it. Her excuse has always been "I might throw out something I need."- to which my reply one day was "Well, mom, most likely you have 7 or eight of every thing you could possibly NEED. You have so much stuff you can't find anything when you are looking for it and then need to go buy another. Wouldn't it just be better to go through what you have and reduce?" -Because I've lived in her house, i make it a point to go through spring cleaning every 3-4 months, rotating rooms i hit.
- InPerpetualMotion(Gina k)
My uncle definitely had this problem. None of us realized how bad it was until he died and they had to clean out his house. It was unbelievable. The piles of boxes, the trash, newspapers... he literally had a path through his house from room to room that was surrounded by 4 ft high piles of stuff. It was really, really sad.
- Jen (SquirrelGirl)
I used to be in the early stages of this condition. I was a minimalist my whole life, and then 5 years ago i became a packrat for some reason. then about a year ago, i just woke up one day and decided that it was time to let go. now i'm somewhere in between the minimalist and the packrat, which i am enjoying quite a bit.
- Morgan
This condition hurts everyone around the person who has it & it's a very sad reality w/most of my family. Why does it hurt people around them? B/c we're the ones who have 2 clean up after these people when they pass on. Trying to live with & or clean up after people who have this problem sucks the life out of people b/c of the amount of time and money it takes to purge. I abhor clutter and try to live as simply as possible b/c of the family around me who insist on living this way. It makes me ill.
- Melissa Davis
My Mom is doing this and it pains me greatly to see her live this way. I had to *untrain* my own brain to not think objects /materialism is good. Ugh! I have an very simple house now and enjoy the lack of crap! I am dreading the day we have to clean out her 3,000 sqft, 5 bedroom / 3 bath home...
- Susan Beebe
My dad has this. We're cleaning out the house that I grew up in and it's miserable. When he dies we'll have to handle the home he lives in now and four storage units. I'm a minimalist for the most part and I think it's due to his habits.
- Heather Solos
A rise in temperature or a fall in barometric pressure, which often accompanies a thunderstorm, may trigger a headache or migraine.
- M F
from Bookmarklet
I had a terrible migraine last saturday & sunday
- Manuela
this is true. the air pressure can sometimes trigger some real bad ones
- Cee Bee
I have definitely been getting a stuffy nose a lot lately now that the temperature rocketed up to 60-70F from 30s temporarily. It will swoop back down again tonight. I think by congestion bay be related. *sniff*
- Kamilah Reed (K. Gill)
The problem with places like this twitter etc... you have to be well active... a little break and it seems you lose any interaction when you come back... the downside of it. that report on my blog I posted is the answer to making these places work right... :o)
Starting to feel like these social sites are in a way a waste of time, mainly due to the fact its constant work.... any thoughts on this?
- Rob Sellen :o)
yup. I've noticed that with my blog and Twitter/FF. But eventually, if you keep active, you'll get noticed again. :)
- Shey
What's funny, on one of my Twitter accounts I'm barely active. I may post once every few weeks and I'm getting 10 followers every 3 days and loads of sign ups on my site associated with that account. The Twitter accounts where I'm active, I get almost no hits on my sites from Twitter.
- Anika
Keep active? thats the issue... I aint got all day to spend on here, like some (who should be working?) ... but then when I do... I get no respocse...
- Rob Sellen :o)
"The Eye-Fi app will wirelessly upload pictures from your iPhone to both your computer and favorite photo sharing site like Flickr, Picasa, Shutterfly, KodakGallery and more. ***NOTE: This application is intended to be a free complement to your Eye-Fi Card and requires you to sign in with your existing Eye-Fi account and password. To learn more about the Eye-Fi Card, please visit www.eye.fi."
- browneyes
from Mento
No: emotional baggage is life experience you have *yet* to learn from. Instead of finding something useful in your experience, you're just carrying it around with you wherever you go.
- FFing Enigma
exactly. I am glad I am not the only one who disagreed
- Shevonne
Tina, carrying the baggage around is part of the learning.
- Michael W. May
I think of it in the same vein as Tina does.
- vijay
Here I am, a thirty-five year old African-American man in Los Angeles. Have I been wrong all these years? To think that race is the issue when it might actually be class?
Money does not equal class. Perfect example: Whitney Houston and Britney Spears
- Shevonne
Shevonne, I doubt Whitney and Britney have school loans that rival mine. And both of those heifers have no class, that much is true, but I meant of the socio-economic sort.
- Derrick
Derrick - you have a job. That makes you near-broke at worst.
- Sparky, lurking
Ok, David, so say, Will Smith and Jeff Bezos of Amazon. Are they of a similar ilk because they're in the same tax bracket?
- Derrick
If you can break down the issue in just one word, then you're definitely wrong.
- Richard Lawler
I can break it down to one word.. humanity. Being shitty to each other since the first human turned to the other and said "mine! not yours"
- alphaxion
My Criminal Justice 101 prof (summer of 99! woo!) insisted that cops weren't explicitly racist, they just necessarily dealt with lower-income suspects most of the time due to the nature of our society. Thus they developed animus towards the people they policed most often, who were largely ethnic minorities. I guess that's a long way of saying "blame the system". Not sure if that holds up under intense scrutiny but it was certainly food for thought.
- Daniel J. Pritchett
I'd never reduce it to just a word, Richard, but I'm thinking about life in my teens, watching friends being assaulted or worse by police, listening to Public Enemy and NWA like it was religion, and having that culminate with the Rodney King affair. But in my midthirties and in 2009, looking at economics, things just feel different. I'm not diminishing race, and certainly the two aren't mutually exclusive, it's just...wow, the world is really different.
- Derrick
Another thought - be glad its a class issue not a race issue. You can change your class after all!
- Sparky, lurking
I agree with Richard. The problems we face are too complicated and too broad to some up in just one word. They stretch across socio-economic boundaries like spilled milk on the ground.
- Jason Shultz
from twhirl
Nice, but I don't think humans have the monopoly on being shitty to each other.
- Richard Lawler
Our country is a capitalistic society. If you have the cash flow, it really doesn't matter what you look like.
- Mona Nomura
When you are dealing with people from the same socio-economic strata, race does matter more. But when you mix race and economic status, particularly as you go up the economic ladder, it gets more fuzzy. Will Smith probably has a better chance of getting into a swanky nightclub or restaurant in L.A. than Jeff Bezos. But what about an exclusive golf club in, say, Arizona?
- The original Kevin
Kevin - in this economy, no one gives a crap anymore. If you have the funds, you're in. Period.
- Mona Nomura
@richard I never said we had the monopoly.. just that it is certainly our worst trait. Our capacity to be shitty to each other shows no boundries :(
- alphaxion
Mona, I'd disagree. How many times have I walked into a shop ready to drop serious ducats and get ignored by the sales staff, only to have them practically slobber all over my white husband. When he deferred to me *then* I existed.
- Anika
But do the shop workers know you're ready to drop the cash?
- Mona Nomura
The problem isn't a concept or categorization, it's people. Too many are uncaring, unthoughtful, intolerant, insensitive, unsympathetic, ...
- ·[▪_▪]·
I'm used to being broke, and broke doesn't mean unhappy. Do I splurge on stuff I probably shouldn't? Possibly. But I'm also working my ass off so that there's something to enjoy in my future. I don't need to be wealthy, or obscenely rich. Even with what I have, I'm donating and giving to causes. I dunno. There was so much going on in that *other thread* I needed to vent.
- Derrick
As a small businessman; I can tell you the only color I care about is green. The private sector is way to competitive to exclude anyone, those that do, fail.
- Robert Hafer
Derrick, you are a good man and I can understand your need to vent. I'm keeping away while grinding my teeth and muttering foul retributions.
- WoH: Minding her Steves
Lindsey, I hear you, and I'm a firm believer that everyone should respect one another, and listen to reason, and be understanding. That isn't always the case.
- Derrick
I think it's both class and race, and they tie into each other. Political blogger Digby's been writing about stuff like this (off and on) for years now; this one (http://digbysblog.blogspot.com/2003... ) is from 2003 but still seems relevant to me.
- Andrew C (✓)
Of course they didn't, but they never bothered to ask. Instead, when my husband would in 5 min. after me, it's, "Hello, sir. Can I help you find anything?" I shouldn't have flash a gold card to get a simple greeting.
- Anika
faboo: I get the same thing in first class on some flights. (I get upgrades on two airlines.) If I'm "dressed up" it doesn't seem to happen as often. If I'm in sweats, it's like I'm invisible. Happens at some hotels, too. I'm gold on two and silver on another.
- ha3rvey (Hugs 50% off!)
Lindsey, that's just so much bullshit, but it's favorite line to trot out. It's the assumption that my husband is well-dressed, which he most likely isn't. It's the assumption that we'd deign to waste our money on designer clothes, when we don't. And it's an assumption that someone who works retail at a furniture store is going to instantly know designer clothes, when most people couldn't tell real from fake in most instances.
- Anika
I find the Lindsey <-> Anika conversation here very interesting based on my own experiences... but it's super tangential and I wanna talk about it so am gonna start another post instead of being the usual threadjacka!
- Anthony Citrano
I don't see why you can't both be right. Your husband gets preferential treatment because he's white (wrongly, lest anyone think I approve of the practice); you (and Lindsey's friends) would get better treatment if your wardrobe screamed "I'm a bajillionaire and I am about to buy out some of your priciest items".
- Daniel J. Pritchett
Lindsey - then why have I never, ever had this experience? Weird. Anyway I started a thread about it. Daniel - have you seen how real billionaires dress?
- Anthony Citrano
My point, Daniel, is that I have a lot of wealthy friends - some of them extraordinarily so. I also know a lot of highly leveraged upper-middle-class/lower-upper-class wannabees. Which segment do you think (most of the time) wears/drives the "fancier" shit?
- Anthony Citrano
Anthony... if the latter group is the one that splurges on the more ostentatiously expensive clothing, it seems entirely logical that store salespeople flock to 'em rather than the people who -could- afford the stuff but -won't buy it-.
- Andrew C (✓)
Trish, you reminded me of the woman who runs MotherTalkers. She's Latina, her husband is Latino; their little boy is fair-skinned & blond. A few years ago we were talking about a similar subject and she mentioned that people in Berkeley always assume she's the child's nanny. I get the same thing with my own kids.
- Anika
Lindsey, I'm not denying what you've experienced, but it isn't universally true. An example of one (which means just that): a friend of mine, a middle-aged African-American, professionally-dressed professor, is constantly followed around by security guards when she goes shopping, whether that be at Target or Macy's. It doesn't matter. That is definitely about race.
- Katy S
People do react to the way others dress, but that is just one of the things that make up our appearance. Other things include skin color, weight, height, gender, etc. One thing we learn from studying student evaluations is that these things affect the way students respond to professors. I can't tell you how much bs a friend had to deal with one semester b/c she was female, short, and very pregnant. We know that tall men gain their students' respect more easily. This happens in the rest of the world, too
- Katy S
Mark, that's like Hancock Park here. Lots of old money, lots of old cars. You can always tell the social climber homes by the (number of) ostentatious cars in front. Lindsey, what are you on about? You didn't reference your experience, so how could I call that bullshit? Besides, it was clear that I was saying that the clothing excuse is bullshit. My goodness.
- Anika
Andrew, very good point re: consumption. But that's not the proffered thought process; you give them too much credit. How many times have I heard "wow, check out that guy's car/watch/whatever - he must be rich." I generally tend to have the opposite reaction (or at least a far more neutral/tempered one.) @Lindsey - I actually do regularly patronize high-end stores that cater to females (for several reasons.)
- Anthony Citrano
Re Smith and Bezos same ilk? ... if you call being "slightly wacky genius" as a social class :). I have trouble with the whole social class concept it tends to be most important to those suffering "imposter syndrome" or those that think they will change if "move up" - not all but dome of the "noveau rich" I've met have shown no class (let alone social) after coming into money (others have been the same after as before and are the happy ones)
- David HC Soul
Lindsey - It happens to her in the supermarket, too. Employees follow her. It happens to others, too. And this has happened to her in two different Upper Midwest university cities. And everyone shops at Target here. It's where the people who don't want to be seen in Wal-Mart go (that is, your middle class folks with ideals or "standards"). Anyway, it just happens. I'm as pale as can be and I've never been followed in a store to my knowledge, no matter how I've dressed.
- Katy S
My 2 cents: I've been treated remarkably well in public when I'm with my white boyfriend. This is in Indiana. I expected possibly some off behavior, but pretty much everyone has been cool, at least to my face. They even acknowledge that we're a couple without a hitch. We could just be a really good match on some subconscious level to the people we encounter.
- Kamilah Reed (K. Gill)
The theory of intersectionality (arising out of feminist theory) says that the social and cultural categories you belong to interact leading to the specific inequality you may experience. Being poor and black, poor and white, rich and black, and rich and white are all different. Multiply again for gender, and other categories (although these are the most important). In other words, race and class aren't only important, they are important in their interaction and not just as independent issues.
- Patrick
Kamilah - glad to hear my home state is treating you well! It still has it's problems, particularly in certain regions, but it isn't all evil. :-)
- Katy S
thanks, I probably should have included that
- Patrick
Here's something to consider: If the LAPD were all black, would Rodney King still have gotten beat up? I think the answer is yes, which means class has more to do with it than you'd think.
- Gabe
Gabe, I don't think it's a good example, because the LAPD, whatever their race, still represents the group in power. The more pertinent question is if Rodney King were white, would they still have beaten him?
- Victor Ganata
OTOH, wealth does matter. If OJ weren't rich, would the murder trial have even lasted as long as it did?
- Victor Ganata
If OJ weren't rich, would I have still heard about the damn white bronco chase while I was living in Austria? And would I have had to hear so much about how psycho americans are for caring about the whole drama?
- Katy S
sheesh info glutton...lighten up.... check the site, read it and you see it IS a joke site. :o) glad you thought it funny, I wet myself when I first saw it. :o)
- Rob Sellen :o)
The image on the left raises all sorts of questions for me. Why is the camera so big?
- Martha
AJ: the first step in making changes is identifying something you really want to change. Weight is a thorny, tricky bugger. If it is a something you want to change then how about looking at it from a different angle. You want to lose weight so you can be healthier, more active, do more things or whatever. Why not look at the other side - exercise? Take one fitness goal and work towards that. As you get towards it you will be achieving two things.
- WoH: Minding her Steves
...You will be improving your health and you will be more motivated to look at the food you eat in a positive way. On Jan 5th Sparky and me set up this room http://friendfeed.com/rooms... so we could reach the goal of 100 push-ups. We're not there yet but I've seen a big improvement and I've started doing other exercise, too. Very best of luck!
- WoH: Minding her Steves
just to confuse everyone with numbers i'm 82 kgs ;)
- Sasha Kovaliov
145lbs, usually varying by about 5lbs either way. I should be about 155lbs though.
- Chris Charabaruk
Weight isn't the real issue, though. The real issue is fitness, and given that muscle weighs more than fat, that makes weight a poor indicator of fitness.
- Chris Charabaruk
so... no one here is heavier than me. i will sit on you if you piss me off ;)
- AJ Batac :)
AJ, I must weigh more than you. I know I gained back the weight I lost last summer, so if I weigh 250 I wouldn't be surprised. I don't weigh myself though.
- Anika
Funny, if you asked a typical woman how much she weighs to her face, she would either lie or get offended, or both but here people seem to be pretty free with posting their weight.
- Jeff P. Henderson
133 right this moment, but it varies +/- 10 pounds every day because of the baby.
- Rochelle
@Jeff: I will readily answer if someone asked me to my face as well. :) I've gotten to a point where I feel silly lying or getting offended by the questions. I can understand why others do it, but I'm (weirdly enough) comfy with sharing the truth. My normal weight is actually 135 and I'll get back there one day. So I'm cool with dishing numbers. :D
- Hookuh Tinypants
I'll offer #2: they have very nice skin. soft, silky, yummy-licious skin. all over. and it gets even softer in the nook and cranny regions. I hope women never stop having skin.
- Morgan
LD: yeah, i can see how it might come across like the dude in Silence of the Lambs....but it was not meant to....or was it? Hmmmmmm. "it puts the lotion on the skin, or it gets the hose again!"
- Morgan
I"ll stick with Hugh - they have a vagina ...
- Tom Parish
It's hard to swallow no Wifi on the Storm, but the iPhone doesn't even do video [natively] and has a lower screen resolution and crappier camera.
- Shey
have you tried the storm? the push button screen is annoying
- Richard Lawler
You should think about the Curve if going the Blackberry route.
- Shevonne
Have you looked at the HTC Touch Pro? Although you are likely on Rogers so maybe they don't have it. WiFi, video, 3.2 MP camera, nice interface, active sync for GMail, Google Maps with GPS. I like mine a lot.
- Kenton
Storm is nice in theory, but not in implementation. If you're gonna go BB, look at the Bold. Also, the iPhone has MAD apps. Something to think about. I like my Apple stuff, but I'm no fanboy. And I love mine.
- Derrick
@Shevonne There's been a lot of iPhone fan-people who have been spreading a lot of crap about the Storm. I've played with it alot and it's downright sexy. @Richard I love the clickscreen, it's a great idea.
- Shey
If I were you I would also consider the BB Bold.
- Michelle M
I have heard negative stuff about the Storm. And seeing the commercial where they type on the screen and every letter clicks makes me think I would go insane using it. Between the two I'd pick the iPhone. But I will also say that I love my Android G1! :)
- Lindsay
I just recently switched from a BlackBerry to the iPhone. Both have their advantages/disadvantages. Both data plans are $30/mo. (at least, mine was on VZW) and, for me, the iPhone makes that $30 much more worth it. Way better browsing experience and a lot more apps.
- Shawn Farner
There are tons coming out. New Curve, new iPhone, Samsung, etc. etc.
- Shevonne
@Shevonne @Mona The sad part is it will take forever for those phones to come to Canada. I HATE the Canadian telecom market
- Shey
Isn't Microsoft rumored to be coming out with one as well?
- Shevonne
@Shey =( You can't get an unlocked one on Ebay? It's just like here. Europe and Asia have phones we'll never get our hands. Makes me green with envy.
- Shevonne
@Shevonne, I think everyone has pretty much agreed that the MSFT phone rumors were about software/services for Windows Mobile and not a MSFT-branded phone
- Alan Cheslow
The Bold is supposed to be better than the Curve, larger keys, better camera, wi-fi. My dad has one and likes it.
- Michelle M
There are tons of Androids in the pipeline (which personally I'm excited for) as well as the... wait for it... PALM PRE and the iPhone 3rd gen. Seriously, wait.
- Mona Nomura
Yes iPhone pix blow, but I use the wifi ALL the time and take pictures with my camera.
- Kelly W.
Former Crackberry addict --- GO FOR THE iPHONE! really really really better!
- Susan Beebe
If your going to get a Blackberry, go with the Bold. Otherwise, the iPhone sounds better like a better choice.
- Michael Fidler
wow, i tried the storm that my lawyer had. it thoroughly sucked. he returned it in 3 days saying that he is faster on his Touch (can't have att phone, poor bastard). wait for the new iphone. sure to kick everyone's ass again...
- tommy payne
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I'm really close to getting an iPhone. Really close...
- Karoli
I'm not a BB guy (i'm on my 2nd iPhone) but if you want to do more than email from the phone - go with the iPhone. Internet access is unparalleled - Safari alone would be enough of a win, but couple that with socnet specific apps and it's a hands down winner. If you were considering a storm, you're ok with the soft keyboard and unless you really, really need it to do video (which you may be able to do if you jailbreak?) the iPhone's gotta be the way. :)
- felix
I'm BB all the way, but when it comes to qwerty as to the Storm: dunno
- sofarsoShaw BAZINGA!
Buy the iPhone—no doubt. There are some interesting things about Android and the Palm Pre. However, neither of them has the goods to catch Apple in features or variety of 3rd-party apps. Apple is just on version 2.2.1; version 3.0 of the software (and likely the hardware) will be out around June-ish, which should result in another jump in features and capabilities. Like with the iPod, Apple has a lead they will not lose.
- Albert Willis
iPhone vs. the Storm. Most of the hardware is comparable, but Apple has the advantage with software, with the AppStore, etc. Video capture on non-jailbroken phones is coming. And no wi-fi on the Storm is a deal breaker. I mean, that's just nuts. Mobile Safari was great when it was released and continues to get better and better. I do an amazing amount of surfing on the iPhone—it matters.
- Albert Willis
iPhone is as far as i saw not able to forward SMS messages and all music once put in it is hard to retrieve. it has no bluetooth and has no ability to deal with business cards... or?
- Hayk
love my iphone. besides a shuffle, it's the only apple product i own.
- cjmart
Yep - no SMS forwarding. And no sending contact vcards ( or otheer contact format). The iPhone will read a vcard but wont send. Much to my distinct distste. But i can live with it.
- Roberto Bonini
iPhone all the way. If you jailbreak, you can fix the missing features.
- Mohamed J
i bought a HTC Touch HD, and as much as it is windows mobile 6.1 based, so far i like it a lot! it is not necessarily as easy in autorotating as iPhone - remedy is called GSen - but it is arguably better and has better charactereistics than iPhone. so perhaps consider it as well.
- Hayk