I've done the whole crush confessional thing with objects of my desire, and they with me. Given my recent experiences with it, it's probably best they kept it to themselves. Especially since I'm currently in the process of fixing my marriage due to some recent crush-related shenanigans.
- #cryptic
@Joe - I think my wife actually likes that I have that issue - cause she gets all funny when she thinks someone is making a pass at me. ^_^
- Dan owns Comicsforge.com
I'd want to know unless it would create a difficult situation for one or the other of us.
- John (bird whisperer)
@Dan: ditto. also, mine had to practically wallop me to get my attention when she first decided she liked me.
- Joe "Bad Guts" Silence
@joe - mine just made me get her ice cream - I think I passed the test that I was willing to do it, and go get her something from 31 flavors. :-)
- Dan owns Comicsforge.com
I'd want to know. There are days when I could use the ego boost.
- Ha3rvey #teamMonique
See, here's the thing. When I was single: yeah, I wanna know if you got a crush on me. But now that I'm married? Nope. Don't wanna know. Wonder how weird / stuck up that makes me.
- Bubba was a rollin stone
I wouldn't want to know. In my history, most of the time someone admitted to having a crush on me, I gagged at the thought.
- Anika
Yes. Variables. In 1987 I'd have wanted to know. Since June of 1988, nope. :-)
- Mary B: #TeamMonique
I would like to know rather than find out in some other strange way...or a least if there is a freight train coming I would like to be prepared.(don't mean to imply all crushes can be a negative thing).
- ᏓᏰ #team Monique
I'd like to know as long as there's no pressure to act on anything.
- Kisha
Well, yeah, what Kisha said... There's many levels of "crush" though. That would have to be explained as well. All my crushes know.
- Zulema ❧ spicy cocoa tart
Since it was pointed out that I never answered my own question, I will now. I would like to know. I might not be able to do anything about it but I would appreciate knowing. Some great friendships started out as crushes that never progressed past that.
- c.a.j.
A month ago, I'd have said no. Now, yes.
- Pixie
from iPhone
Yes, I'm good friends with someone I admitted a crush too. It's nice. :)
- Zulema ❧ spicy cocoa tart
I can't imagine this being an issue in my life. I suppose I would want to know if I were single. If were not single, however, I'd prefer to know (assuming this is a genuine crush and not an internet-type crush).
- Soup in a TARDIS