It's a right of passage for kids AND parents. But, don't worry, Hutch. Next thing you know, you'll be putting grandchildren in that crib!
- V Mary Abraham
In some ways, that's too true. Where does the time go?
- Hutch Carpenter
don't forget to block the stairs so when your toddler wanders during the night...which they eventually will start to do. I remember removing the side of the crib. big change for my daughter(s) and the wife. LOL we fathers, well, we adjust.
- derikp
My husband and I have been swearing for 6 months that we are moving our daughter's crib out of our room and into hers! Yeah right!! LOL She'll be 2 in Sept!
- Dominique Pryor-Anderson
Thanks derikp - the gate is closed tonight. Just because little Annika might wander in the night.
- Hutch Carpenter
Dominique - when I broke down the crib, it was also the first time it hasn't been in our room for 2 1/2 years. My wife and I simply slept downstairs all that time. Yeah, pretty crazy, I'll admit.
- Hutch Carpenter
Thanks Anne. Kindergarten for Harrison next!
- Hutch Carpenter
*singing*excuse me ladies this man's with me I don't like to share you can plainly see He looks good, good enough to eat But believe me ladies he belongs to meGot a meeting in the Ladies Room, Be back real soon!
- Morgan Haley
...first rule of Fight Club —sorry— Ladies Room: don't talk about Ladies Room.
- .LAG liked that
Morgan, you are so crazy. I love you. Be my boyfriend on Sunday at Hotel Fig for the Laker game.
- DO ANYBODY NO MONIQUE
Monique: yes, perhaps i am a bit on the 'crazy-ish' side of the exercise yard. And I love me too. :-) I got my munchkin this weekend, but will be free Sunday evening after 8pm. What time does the game start? Let me know and we'll figure a Ron Day VOO point and time...
- Morgan Haley
Michael: The secret room for ladies on FriendFeed ;)
- Nicholas James
I'm subscribing because I just saw that I wasn't, and I thought I was! EDIT: Oh, I thought this was about subs to you. Why would anyone want to sub to the Ladies Room now? WTH.
- joey
the end, edythe. And by that I mean the Ladies Room is no more (and I miss it already).
- WorldofHiglet
I'd heard people mention it before in comments - as in, this should be posted to the Ladies Room - but I've never been to visit, nor have I been invited. I always forget about it until someone mentions it again. Apparently, something has happened?
- Katy S
Funny, I thought most people knew about it and that it was nonpublic and you had to be invited to subscribe. I'm not sure why someone would purposely crosspost a thread. Not the most proper nettiquite.
- CAJ, somewhere else
Alan, no one cross-posted. A few people in that room were telling people outside the room personal things that were being discussed there.
- Trish R
Hmm - I actually saw something cross-posted in Lovefest tonight. That's what reminded me of it.
- Katy S
Ah...well, this is where I just sit back and shut up. I know nothing and happy to keep it that way. :)
- CAJ, somewhere else
Sucks that the room had to go kapoofers. :(
- Alix Whitmire
give it a chance - admittedly it takes a little bit but it is an amazing community of people and an incredible information resource
- Marco(aureliusmaximus)
I think it's 'cause Twitter is quick, but with FriendFeed I find myself searching through a few pages for interesting things
- Rudolf Olah
I use Twitter for networking, lots of other voice over artists on there, and musicians I work with. Friendfeed is a conversation place, and Facebook is where family and friends I've moved away from are. Each have their unique purpose for me. You just have to find which you like best and which works for you.
- Candace
It's a little known fact that smartest animal is a pig. Scientists say if pigs had thumbs and a language, they could be trained to do simple manual labor. They give you 20-30 years of loyal service and then at their retirement dinner you can eat them.
- Mark Wilson
Right, Josh, which is why I try to self-edit a little. A person might get a fan base by reporting their every move in cute little phrases and pictures, but I think it gets old after a while. There needs to be a little more substance than, look what I did, hear what I think... (though I guess this could apply to comments, too, like the one I just typed =/ Just can't win at this thing...)
- Kamilah Gill
You wanna hurt me? Go right ahead if it makes you feel any better. I'm an easy target. Yeah, you're right, I talk too much. I also listen too much. I could be a cold-hearted cynic like you... but I don't like to hurt people's feelings. Well, you think what you want about me; I'm not changing. I like... I like me. My wife likes me. My customers like me. 'Cause I'm the real article. What you see is what you get.
- Mark Wilson
The peanut butter one is GOLD. BLAAAAAAGH
- Mona Nomura
(Kamilah, I'm pretty sure that's Peter from Family Guy, but I may be wrong.) And Jim, not really. Everyone's afraid to prescribe ANYthing for me once I tell them I'm on a narcotics contract. Was just playing!
- Ladybug Heather
Six bucks and my right nut says we're not landing in Chicago.
- Lindsey is Fierce!
Oh, okay, I might have seen that one.
- Kamilah Gill
Hey, I'll tell you an interesting thing about slumps too. Statistics show that they can be grouped into four categories. Yeah, that's right. 65% physical, 17% emotional, yeah, 15% physiological and 3% dental.
- Mark Wilson
@Mark no problem. I posted it on my blog and also printed it out for someone. It was pretty funny I thought!
- orionstarr
Wow! Thanks, Josh and everybody! This is so cool. Like I told Pea.... I don't know of a time this many people have wished me a happy birthday. Yay!
- Yolanda
If you were to go back in history and take every president, you'll find that the numerical value of each letter in their name was equally divisible into the year in which they were elected. By my calculations, our next president has to be named Yellnick McWawa.
"If you were to go back in history and take every president..." you would be very sore. And I suspect Teddy Roosevelt would top from the bottom.
- Roger Benningfield
I did a Google search on him. Now I'm scared.
- Josh Jenkins
Josh, I don't know. I for one, would like to welcome our Presidential overlord.
- Mark Wilson
Should focus on the fact the monies overwhelmingly come from members outside the state. Yes, it should point out the Church/State thing, too, but this is too heavy handed to sway any undecided, methinks.
- Michael W. May
Well, considering they sent me a mailer today falsely implying that Obama (and Biden) endorse Prop 8 and threw in a bunch of black pastors (when their church didn't fully recognize the humanity of black people in their church until 1978) telling me I should vote against my two black, gay sisters civil rights... It's a little difficult to have perspective on what's too much right now.
- Maria Niles
perspective. yes. I have zero right now, which is why I asked all of you. lol
- Erin @queenofspain
That mailer was absolutely evil. pure, unadulterated evil. coming from so-called 'righteous' ones.
- Karoli
OK - interesting you got it too Karoli - I was wondering if it was because I'm black or because I'm in Oakland with a large black population.
- Maria Niles
I didn't get it, but I heard about it last night from a list I belong to. It was intentionally targeting black voters in high density areas.
- Karoli
I'm not sure it will sway any undecideds, but I like it. I mean, honestly, what's next? Outlawing interracial marriages again?
- califmom
I agree w Michael May I love what Courage Campaign has done overall, but it isn't just Mormons that have campaigned for Prop 8- emphasis should be on money from churches, period going into this.
- Ginger Kenney
In the Saddleback Forum, didn't Obama tell Pastor Rick Warren that he was AGAINST gay marriage or did Obama just say that because he thought that Christians were watching?
- Thomas Ho
from fftogo
He did say that at Saddleback but "Senators Obama and Biden have made clear their commitment to fighting for equal rights for all Americans whether it's by granting LGBT Americans all the civil rights and benefits available to heterosexual couples, or repealing 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell.' While Senators Obama and Biden oppose same-sex marriage, they support civil unions," said a statement...
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- Maria Niles
@Ginger Kenney - good point. Several churches also funding heavily.
- Maria Niles
Since Prop. 8 'Provides that only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California' (quoting the ballot), HOW can Obama oppose same-sex marriage and STILL say that he's against Prop. 8? He doesn't sound consistent, does he?
- Thomas Ho
from fftogo
Because it amends the state constitution. Many who are not gay marriage supporters oppose amending the constitution so that discrimination is mandatory.
- Maria Niles
Perfectly consistent. Prop 8 creates two separate classes in society (separate but equal) and then grants rights to one of them. You should oppose it too.
- Karoli
We have never, ever added a provision to the constitution that segregated a class of society and conferred rights on some, not all.
- Karoli
BUT it seems that amending the California constitution is the ONLY recourse for the Prop. 8 supporters when the California Supreme Court continues to subvert the will of California's citizens! Wasn't there an earlier ballot initiative that SHOULD have settled the issue until the California Supreme Court ruled otherwise?
- Thomas Ho
from fftogo
It was as illegal as what they're doing now. Prop 8 supporters would get more traction if they'd quit trying to force their will down everyone's throat and start being compassionate the way they are called to.
- Karoli
The video is DEFINITELY too much, and is by far one of the most hate-filled videos that I have seen in the 2008 campaign. And for those who believe that out-of-state people should not get involved in the politics of a particular state, do you therefore object to northerners going to the south in the 1950s and early 1960s during the civil rights movement? One can respectfully disagree...
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- Ontario Emperor
Regarding Obama - he has stated his personal views on marriage, but has also stated that he opposes enactment of this proposition. Biden's in a tougher pickle, because what he said in the vice presidential debate directly contradicted what he said on Ellen later.
- Ontario Emperor
Maria, that flier doesn't sound like something the group would distribute. Disappointing if that's the case, and I would hope the church and its members are not associated with it.
- Louis Gray
Yeah - as a Mormon against Prop 8 I think it's just a bit offensive that you're targeting just Mormons here. I know a bunch of other Mormons against the proposition that I think would agree with me. It seems awfully hate-filled. It's actually making me consider changing my mind, to tell you the truth if this is what's going to happen if it doesn't get passed.
- Jesse Stay
@Louis Gray - not distributed by church directly but by organization that many church members have funded about 40%. But, as I said to Ginger, other faiths as well. However, the flier was particularly awful and felt like a personal attack on my family. Plus, had an unfortunate incident when young with someone who justified her bigotry towards me with LDS teachings. So hard that morning to denounce video.
- Maria Niles
Have calmed down though and gotten perspective back. The video is definitely wrong and unacceptable for attacking Mormons. Fighting perceived intolerance with intolerance is wrong, period.
- Maria Niles
That commercial is way over the top. I have very mixed feelings about the Mormon religion, but I like every single Mormon I know. The Church may well be fair game, but I don't think the kids doing the door-to-door should be singled out like that.
- Internet's Tad
Ha. I love that "the Scarlet Letter" is given as a helper clue. High school English is so much easier to remember than the alphabet.
- Jandy, ConcertMaven of FF
Reminds me of the Hollywood Henderson quote before Super Bowl XIII when asked about how smart Terry Bradshaw was..."He couldn't spell CAT if you spotted him the 'C' and the 'T'..."
- Live4Emma (L4S)
I solved it but won't spoil it for you... tricky!
- Jemm
I could barely solve this puzzle and I'm not blonde :P
- imabonehead
@Mona I thought you are brunette but now...
- A.T.
Uh oh... does "strawberry blonde" still count as blonde?
- Ladybug Heather
My mom's fave blonde joke: The blonde picked out a puzzle and took it home. Five weeks later, after working on it with only the shortest of breaks for eating and drinking, she emerged from her apartment. Disheveled but triumphant, she ran to the doorman to tell about her success. "I put together the puzzle! It only took me five weeks, but the box said two to four YEARS!"
- Ladybug Heather
ROFL this is the first crossword puzzle I solved 100% thanks Mona!
- Gaby K. Slezák
"This cake was designed to look like the Deluxe Scrabble board that sits on a wood base with wood trays and tiles. It’s a delicious combination of chocolate cake with chocolate cream cheese filling and white chocolate buttercream frosting. We had to play the game to figure out how to get these requested words on the cake: “Happy Birthday Maria”, “Beatles”, “tattoo”, “trees”, and “Obama”."
- edythe
from Bookmarklet
@jemm @edythe Hasbro suing would be about average. So saith the competitive Scrabble player who's used to hearing about Hasbro enforcing their copyright.
- Great Scott!
LOL Mo. Yeah, you need a very thick skin to get into political arguments. Or find a group of people that you are comfortable having discussions with as these are more about exploring ideas rather than winning a debate.
- Alex Scoble
I like politics, but I can use a break, every now and then.
- Helen Sventitsky
Heh, I used to blog about politics a few years ago, and stopped when I recieved death threats. You'd think I'd learn.
- Mo Kargas
I got a death threat (or some kind of threat) for stating on my blog that I thought Korn sucked. Seriously.
- Helen Sventitsky
Man, Mo...that sucks...I feel another "I'm gonna kick you in the privates" post coming on from that kind of crapiness. There's no need for people to be so frackin' rude.
- Alex Scoble
@Alex I wouldn't have paid it any attention, but they sent snail mail letters and named all members of my family. Don't know how they got that information. Just gotta be careful when passions are inflamed
- Mo Kargas
A death threat for saying you don't like Korn? One can only imagine what the spelling must have been like...
- Steven Cains
Yeah, there's far too many assholes in the world who can write enough to do a death threat, but can't think logically enough to get out of a wet paper bag. I'm serious...we should be allowed to kick them all in the privates. BTW I use the term privates, because that is gender neutral.
- Alex Scoble
So far I have gotten 2 death threats at Herdwatching.com along with about 6 wishes that my daughter (I don't have one) gets raped someday - thats not counting numerous threats to get my server shut down and two folks who claimed they were goign to sue me. Gotta love the internet :)
- Soulhuntre
Sucks to hear Soulhuntre, people take it all a little too far sometimes.
- Mo Kargas
no way! make your way into it and educate everybody else. think of it like being rachel zoe (stylist) dressing her friends for a date.
- Patricia
"IF you are going to advertise your “King Island Beef Gourmet Pie” in a full page spread in the glossy Herald Sun Sunday Magazine … DO NOT make it look like this!"
- FFing Enigma (aka Tina)
from Bookmarklet
"A message in a bottle has been reunited with its sender - 23 years after he threw it into the sea from a remote beach in Orkney."
- RAPatton
from Bookmarklet
Yup. The house across the street is the same floor plan as ours and has been for sale the entire time we've been in ours (about a year now) and it's selling for almost $100k less than what we paid. Our consolation is that we do have the nicest yard/house/pool combo in our small neighborhood. We looked at a bunch of houses with this same floor plan and ours was by far the nicest. Also, if we had bought 6 months or more earlier we'd have paid $250k or more over current values....
- Internet's Tad
Tad, I hope your area rebounds quickly. I'm just thanking my lucky stars that I live in an area with a stable market.
- FFing Enigma (aka Tina)
It's not the end of the world - we knew going into this that we'd be in the house at least 7 or 8 years if not 10+
- Internet's Tad
I knew that same thing too, Tad, about my house...until I got divorced :P
- Jonas, Leper of FF
Yeah, well, you knew what you were getting into as you were getting divorced. :P
- Internet's Tad
Tad - I commend your optimism (but don't share it.) I was barked at for years by my friends - "why don't you buy? you've got the money. by renting you're throwing your money away." When all the RE chatter began to sound suspiciously like the mania that surrounded dot-com stocks pre-burst, I continued to steer clear. I moved into a house here in LA about 18 months ago. Was not dumb enough to buy it. Had I bought it, I'd be out about $400k. Now, who was throwing their money away?
- Anthony Citrano
Timing is everything. Patience is good too.
- Josh Haley
Anthony, do you have a family? I wanted my then 10 year-old to finally have a house and a pool. That's worth an awful lot of money to me.
- Internet's Tad
Way to go, Tad! I feel the same, except for the pool part ;) We love our house.
- Josh Haley
As long as you can afford the mortgage payments, why worry? It's mostly those who were looking to flip their houses who are in trouble.
- Morton Fox
@MortonFox: folks w/ home equity or LOC can be pinched pretty bad, too. I know someone who got their LOC cut back and now their changing college plans for children. Messy business.
- MikeAmundsen
Yeah - we don't have that worry because we've never had that to depend on...
- Internet's Tad
SO glad the housing bubble never hit here. :D
- Cyndy
At least we didn't buy back in 2005-2006 when people were doing lotteries for houses - buying basically site-unseen the moment a house came onto the market. I'm hoping that sort of hysteria will hold off until just as we're ready to sell! :D
- Internet's Tad
@Tad - and how is that "have a house and pool" not achievable by renting? After all, most people who think they are "buying" or "having" a home are - in actuality - renting it from a bank. If you purchased the house with your own money, and actually do own it, then you're an exception. But your earlier comment indicates otherwise. People who owe more on their house than it is worth do not own a house at all. They own a big fat load of debt.
- Anthony Citrano
Average person in the world owns $2,200. You'd think it might be more, but so many people in the US have negative net worth!
- Mitchell Tsai
I helped one of my friends out of bankruptcy in 1997. He bought a house in 1990 after UCLA, made the down-payment & 7 years of payments and was upside-down on the mortgage. His accountant advised bankruptcy. The Los Angeles market came back in 1999, but waiting 9 years was just too long for a 21-yr-old who followed in his parents' footsteps & tried to build wealth through real-estate.
- Mitchell Tsai
Sad story, Mitchell - and over the next few years we will see hundreds of thousands of similar tales. This market is not coming back anywhere near as quickly as during the last cycle. The overhang is way too large, and the unwinding in the capital markets - perhaps in its first or second inning - is going to take a long time.
- Anthony Citrano
My relatives had 5-6 houses in Santa Monica (close, so grandma could walk between them). During the 1990-99 Los Angeles housing downturn, my cousin was kicking himself for not selling a $450,000 house at a -$100,000 loss at $350,000. Why? Because afterwards the house across the street (similar house) was selling for $250,000 and he could have made $100,000. Instead, he rented the house for 10+ years until the market upturned. Sometimes selling for a loss is good.
- Mitchell Tsai
@Jason - exactly. I often use the term "homedebtor."
- Anthony Citrano
Some of my wise real-estate friends in the San Francisco bay area sold their houses ~3 yrs ago & started renting because the SF situation was just opposite of NYC (1) Low rental prices (2) High house prices. In hind-sight, they are looking really good. A mortgage broker friend waited a few months too long, and he couldn't sell, so he pulled his place off the market and is continuing to rent.
- Mitchell Tsai
@Cyndy, I'm feeling the same way right now. It might be a buyers market, but at least everything here is still appreciating.
- FFing Enigma (aka Tina)
Don't worry, SB, it'll be a buyers' market for a long time to come. Anyway, where in the heck are you that "everything is still appreciating"?
- Anthony Citrano
It's still appreciating here, Anthony. There are areas where the whole "economy is booming" thing never really caught on. We aren't trendy here. LOL
- Cyndy
i feel your pain Tad - I'm down about $125k right now in Orange County, CA. I live in SF but had to rent my house out instead of selling because of the loss. Unfortunately for most of the country we're not going to see any light until at least 2011.
- Morgan
@SB, thx for that link. We're in the same boat as you here in Durham, NC.
- Ayşe E.
Thanks SB, and a nice part of the world, too. (likewise for Ayse)
- Anthony Citrano
Thanks, everyone! And, yes, Mark's right: today was the big ultrasound where we discovered the gender. She's due in late January. Oh, and this will be our first.
- Akiva Moskovitz
I love hearing baby news on Twitter/FF. Seems surreal to me.
- Granteezy
Granteezy, it's doubly surreal announcing this stuff on Twitter/FriendFeed. Admittedly, it was my first thought (although I personally messaged my sister and my best friend first).
- Akiva Moskovitz
Sleeping during delivery ... hm, that's a novel approach. Congratulations. Good luck with that whole parenting thing. I have a one-year-old and a three-year-old. They're pretty awesome, but don't expect to have your life back, ever.
- Nathan Rein
Congratulations Akiva! There is nothing like it in the world especially when it comes to daddy's little girl.
- Carlos Ayala
This may be the universe telling you to change tack, look inward, take care of yourself. Don't always have to send your good energy outward. :)
- Ayşe E.
I think I feel that way sometimes too, but I contribute anyways.
- B. Hatin
Nobody puts swayze in the corner... Nobody. Not even cancer.
- Bill Patton
I don't know how many hetero men would feel ok posting this at all, let alone with that title! ;)
- edythe
Trust me, nothing gay about it, but the title is silly!
- RAPatton
Hilarious! I can only imagine what my dreams would look like on paper
- Lindsey is Fierce!
an erotic rhyming 'dictionary.' artifacts in a mine that ejects circular shaped boats. women making appear-to-be-bent-at-first poles that have 'screw-on' attachments. sometimes i think it's possible to have read too much freud.
- Karim
That was a beautiful moment. I'm so glad you shared it with all of us... It was perfect for my coffee break.
- Lisa L. Seifert
The dictionary was from the night before and it was a gift for a poet friend. I didn't even think about the spears. They were so lame until I realized they were lame and then they improved. That is the way my dreams work. Anytime I am in jeopardy things fix themselves. The "Double Book" line was delivered in a cheesey way onlys Swayze could and the bad acting (in a dream) is what woke me up.
- RAPatton
Lisa, if I can recall anymore weird dreams I'll write 'em down. Most are pretty boring and I can usually pinpoint where they come from. I have seen all those articles about Swayze's recovervy so that is where those come from. My father in law just visited Balboa island. I am wee bit native american and know a girl who is more so etc...
- RAPatton
I forgot to comment on this when I read it this morn. Great dream :)
- Michael W. May
Members Only jackets have been around for a long time. I think I see at least 2 people wearing them every time I go out.
- Corie
YES! My generation making its resurgence. Woohoo 80s! :P
- ·[▪_▪]·
Oooh, I dunno. Only Katie Holmes' jeans look pegged. The others look like they're just rolled, sans 80s peg action. I'll need more convincing. ;)
- Kevin Hessel
did pegging go out of style? next you'll tell me mullets aren't cool either.
- grant fox
...but that's permanent. I like something I can remove (so I can wear pants with different size heels).
- Corie
Toupee tape sounds kind of scary. Not as creepy as toupee magnet though...
- Mark Forman
Hehe, it's just really strong double-sided tape. :-) I've been using it since I was in high school to fix my jeans.
- Corie
lmao, me and some friends were just talking aboug pegging jeans, over dim sum!
- Louie
In our neck of the woods it wasn't called "Pegging" your jeans it was called "French Rolling" and I remember explicitly the appeal was that, since bell bottoms or anything resembling a flared bottomed pant were such a taboo in the 80s, that's what French Rolling your jeans protected you from. It was about the taper, not the roll.
- Wm Scott Rees
Polly: Underneath the picture is a description/credits section which says the title is "À ñíåã èä¸ò" (which I'm assuming is in a font I don't have).
- Mitchell Tsai
"Humans may not be the only ones to find yawning contagious. According to research published today, a yawn is likely to set off pets as well as those around you. Psychologists found that dogs were far more likely to break into a yawn if they witnessed humans simulating the action. The finding is the first evidence to suggest animals other than primates may be susceptible to catching yawns from others. Atsushi Senju, who led the study at Birkbeck, University of London, said dogs' ability to catch yawns suggests they may be better at empathising with humans than previously thought."
- RAPatton
from Bookmarklet
Man, they needed a crack team to figure that out? I used to induce my dogs to yawn when I was a kid. I want a PhD for that!
- Mark Trapp
i still believe there's more than mere "sympathy" going on with yawning. like some esp stuff we haven't tapped into. maybe i'm completely off my rocker too
- Cee Bee
From the Yawn Wiki: "Pandiculation is the term for the act of stretching and yawning simultaneously." And now you know.
- Christopher Harley
Tessellation, when done well, is mind-bending. The fact that Escher could create them, as well as morph them, using a pencil and his math skills, is amazing to me.
- cmiper
The first photo resembles a Klein bottle.
- Michael Tefft
Take a moment to do a google search for "Fractal Music". That is all :)
- Steve Spalding
The dragons look very much like M.C. Escher. Here's a link to a site with his work. BTY, his work was all done by hand. No computers as his work was done between 1916 & 1972. http://www.mcescher.net/
- Jeff P. Henderson
Tesselations!? I love it! My first year in the classroom I taught a bunch of fifth graders how to do this.
- Pete Delucchi