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We (I have an African American father and an Irish American mother) were raised on the front lines of racial change, where the new rules about interracial intimacy often clashed with the old - both in public and in our own families. The affection we were so comfortable showing our white mothers at home drew stares, and worse, from both whites and blacks in public. It was in our families where we first felt love and protection as well as the first sting of racial prejudice. And many of us forged a black identity, one that was not at odds with being mixed-race, but arose out of our experiences as mixed people: from an awareness that the racial dilemma we were born into has its deepest roots in anti-black prejudice. For us, being black and mixed-race are not mutually exclusive. We have learned to live with the contradictions. Perhaps it's time for everyone else to learn to live with them too. - Justin Guy Souter

