That I don't have to hear a disingenuous "you're not fat" when talking about my body with him - a statement that both implies that being fat is something bad and is an outright lie (my body being fat is just fact).
Being able to speak about my body in a way that's comfortable for me, hear him speak genuinely of it in a way that is comfortable for me, and that it's just part of me, and a part of us - is so incredible. And so appreciated. And so healing.
- Pixie