Happy current and post Valentine's day, FF. I was in too much of a funk yesterday to say much. Hubs rescued me with a night at a pub near the Hauptbahnhof and assistance with the chores when we got home. Hence, the smile on my face, this morning. Oh, and did I tell you I love you all! :D
You know, the nights that I might get upset that I have no one to snuggle with, Otto snugs up against my back or behind my knees and keeps me warm. When I need a hug, he steps all over me and gives me smooches. And when I'm sick, he sits at my feet or beside me quietly. There's lots of love in this little apartment. :)
LOL Spidra. No I didn't. I have too many friends who work there and I don't want to start a fight. They know I don't love G+. There is no strong community there so I'm rarely there.
- Rachel Lea Fox
Aw, dammit. G+ could use some taking down a peg or two. :-p
- Spidra Webster
Just saying it one more time before Valentines Day is over! :)
- Rachel Lea Fox
I'm not usually a big fan of this day, but I had an awesome time celebrating with my family today. I hope y'all had a good one.
- Laura Norvig
from email
Intense day at work with two big conference calls. Grabbed some little boxes of chocolate and some cards on my way home from work. Greeted by many balloons, cards, and chocolate. Early dinner out at the best hole in the wall Italian joint I've ever been to. Now watching Winnie the Pooh: A Valentine for You.
- Laura Norvig
from iPhone
Called the clinic to talk to the on-call doc, who just happened to be my primary care doc tonite. He said go to the ER, so that is where I am. Waiting for triage...
So I have cellulitis, a raging infection. I've had morphine, broad-spectrum antibiotics, nasty ass contrast & a CT scan. I'm being admitted so they can continue the antibiotics & a surgeon's gonna drain it tomorrow. Thank you for the love & support, y'all. It only gets better from here.
- Starmama
from FFHound(roid)!
Oh, yikes! How awful. Hope the drugs kick in asap and you start feeling better really soon! xoxoxox
- ☆ Mellyboo ☆
Oh dear! Please heal without any incident! So glad you talked to your PC!!
- Janet-The Bottley Crue
Oh man, I hope they can get you on the mend quickly. How's your little man?
- Anika
from FFHound!
Tamara wins as the first to wish me a Happy V-Day! +10 :-)
- Mathew A. Koeneker
I hope that ya'll have a great day with your significant others. I am thinking that I will get a nice steak to cook for myself and a juicy bone from the butcher for Jackson, the Ridgeback. #BeingSingle
- Mathew A. Koeneker
The flies will go where the light is. So turn off the lights and close the shades in all parts of the apartment you want clear and turn on the light in an area where it's okay for them to be until you can take time in the day to let them out or swat them. They'll go where the light is. Then shut the door and be in the now fly-free room. If that doesn't work, I recommend earplugs and putting the covers over your head.
- Spidra Webster
Oh, they're dead. My parents helped with that. They were just too big and too close fore me to deal with. I almost vomited just seeing one up close. I can't explain it. *hugs* Thanks, everyone.
- Zulema ⋅ spicy cocoa tart
from Android
Hey Val! Thought of you last night when I was checking out Rob Dickinson's (Catherine Wheel) solo work on Spotify.
- teleken
from BuddyFeed
I do miss Catherine Wheel. Rob does good work but I miss the whole group.
- just ZONED
I'm so happy that I got to see CW in person twice. One of the two times it was a 'preview show' where they were working kinks out of their Wishville tour. There's not a day that goes by where I hear Catherine Wheel and I wasn't blown away. Adam & Eve? Crap, I'm putting them on right now.
- Akiva
Not in a lot of pain - I've kept off my feet today. That said, I don't want to take chances. My plan is to call the doctor's office first thing tomorrow morning and take it from there.
- teleken
from BuddyFeed
Thanks Bob. I really have to watch this. Being old and sore is no biggie, but I want to make sure if this is the infection again, there's a chance to use antibiotics before we go back to slicing and dicing me.
- teleken
Thanks! @Georgia - it's my next step to full-on Jobs, save that I prefer Nike to New Balance. I can rock a black mock-neck, though. :)
- teleken
from BuddyFeed
I came home today with my newly fixed computer, excited to actually have my computer back. Then I turned it on, and remembered what a piece of shit it is.
What version of OS X are you running - Lion or older? You can fix this, but the how-to varies a little depending on whether Lion or no.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Either way, I'm annoyed at whatever techs fixed your machine. They couldn't have cleaned up your system and repaired your damn permissions? Which I'm now going to suggest you do, Lion or no.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Except more politely. The damn was for them. So, to rephrase: one thing you should probably do is launch Disk Utility and repair permissions, then restart.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Good. Then after the restart you want to get into your Library. In Lion they've hidden it, which is why I asked if you're on it. Imma take pills and head upstairs but I'll check on you in about ten mins. Say something so I know you saw this.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Ah. Just saw your OS. We can actually get to your library the old-fashioned way. (now reporting in from PLEP Mac support HQ, btw ... ;-) i.e., upstairs) - it's in your home folder.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Okay reboot complete. What am I doing in the Library?
- chrisofspades
In the Library, you want to do two things: first, open the Caches folder and look for any cache files connected to Mail. I'm pretty sure the follow the syntax com.apple.mail ... ; there might also be an Apple Mail folder. Take a look to make sure they're really just cache files - I'm pretty sure your mailboxes are in Application Support, which we're not touching, (and which prolly don't...
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- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Are you seeing the thing about the cache files? I'm checking in because I'm using the iPhone version and it doesn't automatically refresh, and I was still posting when you asked - so I want to make sure we're still together.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
There's a folder ~/Library/Caches/com.apple.mail, with a Cache.db inside. Delete the whole folder?
- chrisofspades
(And yes, I had removed all my accounts from Mail hoping that would stop the chaos. It did not.)
- chrisofspades
After you do the cache files, we're gonna trash some .plist files in the Preferences folder.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
They'll have very similar names to the cache files, except for the extension, which is - surprise! - .plist. So: com.apple.mail.plist, com.apple.mail.settings.plist (maybe) ans so on.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Since you're not using Apple Mail I think that's smart. You may need to restart before you can actually empty the trash. The system might claim the cache.db is still in use.
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Okay .plist files have been trashed.
- chrisofspades
Excellent. This should solve it, though we are dealing with software so I'll hedge and say I hope we've solved it. But this process is what I generally do anytime an app goes nuts on me. I also use it when're an Adobe Creative Suite app crashes, on the theory that I don't want whatever took photoshop or whatever down once to do it a second time. ;-)
- Auntie Buttinsky Botts
Congrats! How has the increase in physical fitness felt? Are you stronger and more energetic?
- Spidra Webster
Having better fitness is great. Used to get winded climbing stairs, not anymore! Unfortunately, my weight loss hasn't helped my bad back issues - been fighting back pain for 5 months. Hard to exercise when you're in pain!
- Ken Gidley
That's too bad. I'm pretty sure losing weight off my gut would help my back issues. Do you do hamstring stretches? My chiro told me (and my experience bears out) that tight hamstrings can pull on things in a way that causes low back pain. Of course, if your back pain is due to disc issues, that's another kettle of fish.
- Spidra Webster
Has this all been due to bike riding or have you had a program involving diet regimen and other exercises? I'm curious because I have chronic pain from disability. As you say, it's hard to exercise when you're in pain. I'm trying to change my eating regimen again as well as exercise even more. I'm curious what worked for you.
- Spidra Webster
I don't stretch enough, but I do have disc issues. Had surgery 15 years back, looking like I may need another go of it. :(
- Ken Gidley
Spidra - the biggest thing for me was changing my diet. I've used LoseIt.com and the companion iPhone app to help me set a daily calorie budget (based on my current weight and the rate I wanted to lose weight - 1.5 lbs / per week), and track all my calorie intake. I log every bite I eat, every day now. I can eat anything I want, so long as I have the room in my calorie budget for the...
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- Ken Gidley
"calorie budget" - what an awesome concept :)
- Brent
from iPhone
The biking has helped with the fitness aspect, plus I found I really enjoy it, so it gives me something to do besides sit on the couch and eat.
- Ken Gidley
Wow! Also, I love the crazy lighting on your cheeks in the third picture, due to your glasses. Either that or it was face-painting day at work again. :-)
- Brian Johns
Brent, it's a simple idea too, and very powerful. It has taken a year to get where I am, but I really haven't felt at all deprived during that time. I still eat the foods I love, just less off them. I had a Philly Cheesesteak and fries at lunch today - well, half a sandwich, and half the fries! Had the other half of the sandwich for dinner.
- Ken Gidley
Brian - I didn't want to wait until the afternoon to replicate the lighting conditions of the middle picture - my photographer (wife) had other things to do... :)
- Ken Gidley
"If you look at four-year-olds, they are constantly asking questions and wondering how things work," Gregerson observed generally. "But by the time they are six and a half years old they stop asking questions because they quickly learn that teachers value the right answers more than provocative questions." It's a haunting finding that raises...
...serious concern about our education system. Specifically, what is the purpose of education? Is it to convey knowledge, as the current system is weighted, or it to be inspired and nurture an ability to constantly learn? — Little Bets (Peter Sims)
- Dan Hsiao
Fascinating. Do you have a cite? I'd like to read more
- RudĩϐЯaЯïan
Niether, it is to build conformists and consumers and docile asembly line workers
- WarLord
It's in a book, "Little Bets: How Breakthrough Ideas Emerge From Small Discoveries" (http://www.amazon.com/Little-...). Highly recommend it so far for any entrepreneurs or people who need to solve creative/idea challenges.
- Dan Hsiao
I sure hope I can keep sending my kids to Montessori. It's a much less passive learning system.
- Bruce Lewis
My friend is a Montessori teacher and from what she has described, I sure wish my parents had sent me to Montessori.
- Spidra Webster
The main purpose of a formal education is to teach you how to sit down, shut up, and do what you are told. Those that learn this lesson well will have a job where they get to sit down, shut up, and do what they are told. Those that don't, will have jobs where they get to stand up and talk. (would you like fries with that?)
- April
I think school is an opportunity to observe the machine and learn its values and weaknesses up close. It's everything you need to learn about how organizations work and how you can co-exist with one and still do what you want. And they give that education away free!
- Your Neighbor Steve
Maybe they stop asking questions because most of they've already learned most of the answers.
- Gabe
Gabe, Rob and I were just talking about how Spencer no longer is interested in the drawers in our kitchen. Meg is just mobile enough that she can play with the pots and pans, check out the tupperware, etc. Spencer will do it a little to play with her, but generally doesn't do it himself anymore. We've concluded that he knows what is in the drawers now and would prefer to play with his...
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- Clare Dibble
Lawson, I love your optimistic slant. But sometimes it's impossible to co-exist with the system and still do what you want. That's a (hard) lesson you can learn in public school also.
- Laura Norvig
Laura, you are right--perhaps it helps you calibrate your tolerance of and resistance to the system.
- Your Neighbor Steve