I have long believed that in order to find the partner for you and create the possibility of your version of “Happy-Ever-After” you need to look at you and who you really are first. “Who are you bringing to the table” when you meet that person for the first time? What type of person are you? Most people get stuck on this as they don’t really know. They can tell you some of their traits – but not the type of person they are. In order to find someone you start with who you are. In my experience every single can give me (and do) a list of what they DON’T WANT in a potential new partner. However, the list of what they DO WANT is sadly much shorter. - Julie Gibbons