Just finished an email survey for the SFMOMA asking me why I hadn't renewed my membership. They've been calling incessantly at home trying to get me to renew as well. Funny how when you throw someone out of a museum for the crime of photography that they just aren't that interested in renewing. Good riddance.
No way. I read your blog so many years ago about that incident, and I had no idea that it was you who wrote it. I never forgot the post. It was my first exposure to Photographer's rights. Funny how time flies!
- Steve Dorsey
"FF connected me with new friends that I would never have known. FB connects me with old friends I could have done without. :(" - jcunwired http://friendfeed.com/jcunwir...
its actually quite easy to ignore someone you could have done without. *sigh*
- Sidney
Wow. Some of you apparently live terrible lives, filled with terrible people you seem unable to avoid, with the possible exception of this one website, I feel terrible about that.Of course, it's also possible you've wildly overestimated the difference between the people you know here and the people who know you in real life.
- Richard Lawler
Nope, you're the ones who keep saying everyone you know and everything you do on facebook sucks. That must be terrible.
- Richard Lawler
Yes Richard because clearly I can make friends from all over the world on my daily stroll through the park. Or not.
- vijay
Richard: That there's a possible incompatibility between networks centered around personal relationships -- or at least people you've physically encountered -- and networks based largely on interests, seems pretty clear to me.
- Christopher A Carr
Richard: I suppose there's nothing stopping you from deleting your ff account now and heading on over to Facebook full-time.
- Christopher A Carr
I like this post, but I love all my social networks equally lol.
- Ryan Peach
Luckily, unlike so many here, I can keep using any website I want the same way I did before without devolving into a baseless bitchfest about what might happen someday somewhere. Or, I could have kneejerk reaction based on irrational fear. hmmm
- Richard Lawler
And you're very good at keeping your assumptions to yourself
- Bwana ☠
Richard: Were friendfeed to say that it's going to survive, or at least that FB will have a more open, public facing side to it as a result of the acquisition, then I think the bitching would subside. As it stands, there's not much reason to think that anything of friendfeed will survive. If Facebook perfectly met everyone's needs, there would be no friendfeed.
- Christopher A Carr
On the bright side, I can have a kneejerk reaction on FB and remove baseless bitches from my friends list. :)
- jcunwired
Except, they haven't really said anything. So thinking anything will or won't survive is premature. If Facebook perfectly met everyone's expectations there would be no need for war, sickness or evil deeds. Every online community is the same as every other one, if friendfeed, for whatever reason, doesn't keep doing what you want ti to do, you'll use something else. It hasn't ever been perfect and it never will be.
- Richard Lawler
I told you Richard. You're wrong. "Taylor and Cox say that the Friendfeed product will live on independently, and eventually Friendfeed will be merged into Facebook. But the Friendfeed team is not being kept whole. Some employees will now report to Cox, others to engineering head Mike Schroepfer. In my opinion that means, long term, the Friendfeed product itself is unlikely to be a big priority." http://www.techcrunch.com/2009...
- Bwana ☠
Well, you told me what techcrunch's opinion is, because that's what I wanted to know. Thanks! (there's sarcasm there)
- Richard Lawler
Ok let me slow it down for you. The team is splitting. The product is going to merge with Facebook. (No sarcasm)
- Bwana ☠
Richard: "Every online community is the same as every other one..." That's nonsense.
- Christopher A Carr
I can wholly identify with JC's statement.
- JA Castillo
Wow Bwana...you are really bitchy in this thread...I think Richard is making some good points. If you are having issues with the people you 'accept' on Facebook there really is only one person who you can point the finger. You. Facebook makes it quite easy to NOT get involved with any person.
- Sidney
I accept friends in Facebook because if they took the time to want to be friends with me, I feel obligated. I'm also not one to hurt a person's feelings by turning them down. That's what its like in a closed community like Facebook. Friendfeed is totally open - I can read, share, participate and like without having any obligation whatsoever to the people I interact with.
- jcunwired
Sidney - Refusing to see that there is a clear difference between the people and the atmosphere of Facebookers and Friendfeeders is either foolishness or stubbornness. There is a world in facebook, full of garbage, that people think is "ok" because it evolved from other crap.
- Matthew DeVries
You are probably right. I am checking things out only now
- AbZ
from Nambu
There is the matter of censorship too. You really have to post some very illegal crap before FF will step in a mod it. Facebook bounces you for saying breastfeeding.
- Matthew DeVries
I couldn't have put it better myself. Just got back and saw the news. Still digesting it.
- Charlie Anzman
Actually, I love most of my Facebook friends, or I wouldn't have (re)connected. But FF is a different community.
- Mistletoe Glen
Dont twitter groups achieve a similar effect?
- AbZ
from Nambu
I like Facebook friends, I don't like that think it's ok to kidnap me, poke me, or ask me what Fantana girl I'm most like. I don't like that they think I'm the misanthropic curmudgeon with the problem when I ask them not to "It's what Facebook is for"
- Matthew DeVries
It's interesting to see ho people use different networking sites - for example - I use FB for personal connections and family and the rest are business related.
- Graham Bunting
I like my friends, but you are definently right. I just got on friendfeed any advice on making friends?
- Ryan Peach
BEX, I love how your profile bit says "I can kick your ass!" :) Not only do I believe that 100%, but I also think it might be enjoyable for some reason.
- Josh Haley
I'm sure that I could get a little whimper out of you ;)
- BEX
Yep, I was right. I'll be in my bunk.
- Josh Haley
I love how cats pose when initmidated with admirers- not this one though - and hey we are looking through lens of 2nd order paparazi (paparazi of paparazi !!!)
- Rahul Deodhar
نمي دونم حرفامو مي فهمي رفيق يا نه ولي خيلي جالبه
- ramezanifar
This is my most "liked" picture to date, I believe. Long live the LOLcat!
- Josh Haley
I'd drink everything in that photograph... out of a bucket.
- Christopher Harley
hey I make em that all the time.. for my day time drinks :)-
- Peter Dawson
I tend to drink whatever tastes good. Throwing away the paper umbrella is purely practical. I'd rather have them in my hair than in my eye.
- Ruud van Wijngaarden
No. I draw the line at anything served in a martini glass that isn't a martini, vodka martini or a Manhattan. If a man orders a Cosmo, he is asking to get teased. That doesn't mean he can't drink a pink drink, or a delicious mixed cocktail. But those cocktails served in martini glasses are way too girlie for anyone not named Carrie, Samantha, Miranda, or Charlotte.
- tiffany
If the drinks in the photograph were in less wild glasses, and just a straight whiskey glass, for instance, I doubt guys would catch as much grief as they do for drinking these drinks. Serve me up another appletini! Heavy on the apple, light on the tini.
- Mike Nayyar
from iPhone
I would drink them, but I just don't like most of them. I don't like sweet stuff in general. Bourbon straight up, please.
- Alex Scrivener
I like me my girly drinks, I have no problems drinking them.
- Steve C
I like girly drinks :-) I like beer, I like Whiskey, Whisky and Bourbon. Can't see why the one is more manly than the other.
- Rasmus Lauridsen
Oh and who's the coolest? The guy who is too afraid of what his peers might say and therefore only drinks man drinks that give you hair on the chest? or the guy that doesn't "give a rats arse" what people think, and drinks what he likes?
- Rasmus Lauridsen
I personally like a man who, if interested in my 'girly' drink, isn't afraid to order it because he likes it... even if it comes with umbrellas and little pink flamingos in the ice cubes. Just like the big strong men with the little tiny dogs... :D Be who you are, walk with who you want to, drink what you like.
- Bette Cooper
No. There are rules for this. Unless you are on a beach in a foreign country, men can't drink anything with an umbrella. I think Tiffany is right on with the martini glass -- meant only for vodka, gin or bourbon....
- Ben Hanten
Sorry, I disagree, Ben. If there are rules, then they need to be broken. Drinks should be a personal choice... including the glass used. For us, I enjoy a few shots of good tequila, while my husband prefers a strawberry daquiri, with umbrella. Why would we stick to rules, depriving both of us of what we like? Please, darlin'... there are enough restraints without liquor being part of it. :D
- Bette Cooper
Saying "there are rules" goes with a little sarcasm, but... The world is full of beer, bourbon, Scotch, gin.... Adding a bunch of syrup and juices will make anything taste good; I just happen to think those drinks are targeted at women. But if we want to talk about rules, one of the most fundamental would be to drink what you like. I get that.
- Ben Hanten
A Kamikaze comes in a martini glass and is definitely not a girly drink. And is definitely not a martini.
- Alex Scoble
The Cosmo is a variation on the Kamikaze btw...as is the Lemon Drop...
- Alex Scoble
I get a lot of crap drinking stuff that tastes good myself. *shrugs* whatever
- LANjackal
I like me a girly drink every now and then. Slippery Nipples are delicious-- alcoholic or otherwise.
- Jason Huebel
I don't really order girly drinks, but I don't frown on people who do. The "girliest" drink I regularly order is a margarita or a water moccasin (shot of Crown Royal + Peach Schnapps + Cranberry Juice shaken with ice and served in a shot glass) Granted...it comes out pinkish-red and tastes like fruit juice, but they named it after a dangerous animal on purpose. Other than that, I'm more a Jaeger-Bombs and pitchers of beer kinda guy. (Shiner Bock if they have it)
- Christian (Simply X)
A man should be confident enough in his manliness to order a non-manly girly-drink if he likes. *takes a slug of whisky from the bottle*
- Rick Cogley
I think a guy who was confident enough to drink one of these and make it look cool somehow would be Hawt.
- Kamilah Gill
Sure! Drinks have no gender orientation.
- ★Kristy
tequila sunrise ,,, used to make me howl at the Moon
- johnpiercy
i dont know what a purple people eater qualifies as but its my fav, :/
- chaz2b
I think it's lame that people consider things women like to not be good enough for men, but not vice versa. Still happens too much with many things. (Guys will probably always have a hard time making skirts and high heels look cool, though. Unless they're part of Monty Python or something...) Or maybe in this case, men aren't up to the challenge of fruity ladies' drinks? (Not likely.)
- Kamilah Gill
What *is* a girly drink? I never really thought some drinks were girly, unless you mean the drinks that disguise the alcohol under loads of sugar for people who dont really like the taste of alcohol? That's not girly, really - although they might be the drinks girls drinks when getting use to alcohol (whereas boys might do beer mixers), that kind of stops at 20... (22 in the US)
- Joelle Nebbe (iphigenie)
I've been drinking Malibu & pineapple for a long, long time ... Can't stop ... oh well ... I'd still "tap that' in a second though. Don't get it twisted! ;-)
- Amani
Oh SNAP: "Apple's decision to reject Google Voice apps for the iPhone -- possibly at AT&T's request -- has prompted an FCC investigation into the anti-competitive nature of the move. The US government agency on Friday sent letters to Apple, AT&T and Google asking them to explain their roles in both rejecting Google's own app as well as pulling at least two third-party apps that were already available."
- Kevin Fox
from Bookmarklet
Anyone remember a couple of years ago when Eric Schmidt was telling the FCC that we need some kind of openness guarantees on spectrum? Do you now see why it matters?
- Joel Webber
Kurt, it's so hard because unlike deciding to shop at a different grocery store or boycott grapes, deciding to switch carriers to 'send a message' is more permanent. I'd probably get locked in to a 1 or 2 year contract with another carrier, so even if my message worked and Apple and AT&T got better they still wouldn't regain my business for several years, if at all.
- Kevin Fox
It's unlikely Apple or AT&T would be affected by existing customers leaving: they've already paid a good portion of their contract money already, and they are more than made up for in new sales. Bad press, that which would give new customers pause before buying, would be more effective. An FCC investigation, you telling everyone you know how much AT&T and Apple sucks, and news coverage are more likely to effect change than voting with your wallet.
- Mark Trapp
@ kurtstarnes: Yeah, I prefer the market sort it out, too, but my love of how seamlessly my Mac and iPhone work together makes me wonder how long I'm going to continue putting up with Jobs' bully tactics. >
- Mark Novak
from email
We on the Google Voice team have been very surprised (to say the least) by how all this has panned out.
- Chris Prince
from iPod
I assume someone at the FCC wants to use GV on his/her iPhone?
- MVB (Grinch of FF)
from iPod
What's great about the "seamless" interface, vs. a phone that just self-maintains itself? I guess it's the ability to buy music on a large screen, and have it synced to the device? The few times I've had to use iTunes I have found the sync process a bit annoying, but I clearly haven't fully soaked in the awesomeness.
- ⓞnor
My 'snap' wasn't about breaking the camel's back. I'm just happy that someone in a position of authority is taking Apple to task for their seemingly arbitrary and unhelpful approval process. I care less than most whether GV applications are approved for the iPhone and I actually think it's Apple's prerogative to choose which applications are accepted, but their rules need to be clearly...
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- Kevin Fox
Personally this has 2 ugly aspects: retrospectively rejecting apps from the app store and what it could mean for apps like Spotify which clearly compete with one of apple's profit centers.
- Adewale Oshineye