Roni ok, so i got some 'not so great' news...here's what I DO: After emotionally masterbating long enuf 2 acknowledge & express the fears w/in, I realign, refocus & submerge SELF w/in the Positive. I release the FEARs & jump in2 the INFINITE Possibilities that exist...4 as we ALL KNOW, ya never KNOW what Fantabulous Miraculous Gifts r on their way...