"YES! Replacing expectations with agreements and boundaries is ideal. In many of my cases, the agreements have to be entirely with myself, as I cannot even "expect" that the other person will hold to that. But, even then, agreements with myself result in stability and acceptable losses. With agreements in place, I can hope for success and plan for failure all at the same time. I'm getting there. Thank you for reading, and for your support." - Jim Reverend