"Wanting kids isn't just the social norm, it's said to be a biological imperative, the only supposed "duh" of evolution. But yet, some of us choose not to -- and for good reason." - Steven Perez from Bookmarklet

I've always wanted kids but I wasn't going to have them if I could not provide stability for them (we moved all the time when I was a kid and it really messed me up in terms of relationships). Now I'm staring 45 in the face and I realize I'd really rather skip having kids and just have grandkids. - vicster