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This link forwards to my actual blogspace. - http://skarrlettkrowsnest.tumblr.com
February 6 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
Jack Off Jill - When I Am Queen I’m SO fucking ready to do this! - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
Jack Off Jill - When I Am Queen I’m SO fucking ready to do this!
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February 3 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
As I promised to myself, I saw Stolen Babies (Facebook, Spotify) live last night, after 5 years of knowing and loving their music from afar. Needless to say, they were amazing! I had such a blast at the show; I hadn’t danced so much to live music in a long time! That, and I was very active in the singalongs to the songs they played from There Be... - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
As I promised to myself, I saw Stolen Babies (Facebook, Spotify) live last night, after 5 years of knowing and loving their music from afar. Needless to say, they were amazing! I had such a blast at the show; I hadn’t danced so much to live music in a long time! That, and I was very active in the singalongs to the songs they played from There Be Squabbles Ahead (Spotify). They played a bunch of their new material (most of it still unreleased) including the very addictive Splatter (iTunes Store). Everyone in the band was super nice as I was gushing over how much I love them and their music. I finally got physical copies of their 2 CDs (I admitted to all of them that I’d pirated them beforehand and wanted to go legit, they didn’t even flinch at my telling them that, Dominique herself even admitting to doing it as well.) and got them autographed as well as getting photos with every one of them. I can’t wait for their next tour. They can count me in as part of their dedicated fanbase. Tumblr is kind of a dick with their photoset post-ability limiting only 10 images into the main bit before having to add the rest as ones you have to click, so I’m going to make this last image be tied to the actual typing I’m doing: their new guitarist Davey Oberlin is a perfect fit, and you should definitely give him a warm welcome, as well as check out his other band Dawn of Ashes (Spotify, Facebook); I promise you won’t regret it! Thanks for showing me such a great time! I love you all and look forward to seeing you again, as I will be raiding more of your merch table with my monies!
February 1 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
You get two guesses on what I’m doing tonight. - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
You get two guesses on what I’m doing tonight.
January 31 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
Truisms about Sascha Konietzko (Copypasta from shittheysay) - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
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”Autobituary” The first piece of my non-music artwork that I’m not ashamed of. Also, I’m about to take a big step in something I’ve mentioned and hinted at again and again for years. It’s even in this collage. - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
”Autobituary” The first piece of my non-music artwork that I’m not ashamed of. Also, I’m about to take a big step in something I’ve mentioned and hinted at again and again for years. It’s even in this collage.
January 30 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
Cranes – Clear - http://www.last.fm/music...
January 21 from Last.fm - Comment - Share
Progress, ahoy! - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
January 20 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
did-you-kno: Source Just in case you still don’t understand how it’s so awesome. - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
did-you-kno: Source Just in case you still don’t understand how it’s so awesome.
January 17 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
stfuconservatives: ideasandopinions: Colorblind Ideology is a Form of Racism What is racial colorblindness? Racial issues are often uncomfortable to discuss and rife with stress and controversy. Many ideas have been advanced to address this sore spot in the American psyche. Currently, the most pervasive approach is known as colorblindness.... - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
stfuconservatives: ideasandopinions: Colorblind Ideology is a Form of Racism What is racial colorblindness? Racial issues are often uncomfortable to discuss and rife with stress and controversy. Many ideas have been advanced to address this sore spot in the American psyche. Currently, the most pervasive approach is known as colorblindness. Colorblindness is the racial ideology that posits the best way to end discrimination is by treating individuals as equally as possible, without regard to race, culture, or ethnicity. At its face value, colorblindness seems like a good thing — really taking MLK seriously on his call to judge people on the content of their character rather than the color of their skin. It focuses on commonalities between people, such as their shared humanity. However, colorblindness alone is not sufficient to heal racial wounds on a national or personal level. It is only a half-measure that in the end operates as a form of racism. Problems with the colorblind approach Racism? Strong words, yes, but let’s look the issue straight in its partially unseeing eye. In a colorblind society, White people, who are unlikely to experience disadvantages due to race, can effectively ignore racism in American life, justify the current social order, and feel more comfortable with their relatively privileged standing in society (Fryberg, 2010). Most minorities, however, who regularly encounter difficulties due to race, experience colorblind ideologies quite differently. Colorblindness creates a society that denies their negative racial experiences, rejects their cultural heritage, and invalidates their unique perspectives. Let’s break it down into simple terms: Color-Blind = “People of color — we don’t see you (at least not that bad ‘colored’ part).” As a person of color, I like who I am, and I don’t want any aspect of that to be unseen or invisible. The need for colorblindness implies there is something shameful about the way God made me and the culture I was born into that we shouldn’t talk about. Thus, colorblindness has helped make race into a taboo topic that polite people cannot openly discuss. And if you can’t talk about it, you can’t understand it, much less fix the racial problems that plague our society. Colorblindness is not the answer Many Americans view colorblindness as helpful to people of color by asserting that race does not matter (Tarca, 2005). But in America, most underrepresented minorities will explain that race does matter, as it affects opportunities, perceptions, income, and so much more. When race-related problems arise, colorblindness tends to individualize conflicts and shortcomings, rather than examining the larger picture with cultural differences, stereotypes, and values placed into context. Instead of resulting from an enlightened (albeit well-meaning) position, colorblindness comes from a lack of awareness of racial privilege conferred by Whiteness (Tarca, 2005). White people can guiltlessly subscribe to colorblindness because they are usually unaware of how race affects people of color and American society as a whole. Colorblindness in a psychotherapeutic relationship How might colorblindness cause harm? Here’s an example close to home for those of you who are psychologically-minded. In the not-so-distant past, in psychotherapy a client’s racial and ethnic remarks were viewed as a defensive shift away from important issues, and the therapist tended to interpret this as resistance (Comas-Diaz & Jacobsen, 1991). However, such an approach hinders the exploration of conflicts related to race, ethnicity, and culture. The therapist doesn’t see the whole picture, and the client is left frustrated. A colorblind approach effectively does the same thing. Blind means not being able to see things. I don’t want to be blind. I want to see things clearly, even if they make me uncomfortable. As a therapist I need to be able to hear and “see” everything my client is communicating on many different levels. I can’t afford to be blind to anything. Would you want to see a surgeon who operated blindfolded? Of course not. Likewise, a therapist should not be blinded either, especially to something as critical as a person’s culture or racial identity. By encouraging the exploration of racial and cultural concepts, the therapist can provide a more authentic opportunity to understand and resolve the client’s problems (Comas-Diaz & Jacobsen, 1991). Nonetheless, I have encountered many fellow therapists who ascribe to a colorblind philosophy. They ignore race or pretend its personal, social, and historical effects don’t exist. This approach ignores the incredibly salient experience of being stigmatized by society and represents an empathetic failure on the part of the therapist. Colorblindness does not foster equality or respect; it merely relieves the therapist of his or her obligation to address important racial differences and difficulties. Multiculturalism is better than blindness Research has shown that hearing colorblind messages predict negative outcomes among Whites, such as greater racial bias and negative affect; likewise colorblind messages cause stress in ethnic minorities, resulting in decreased cognitive performance (Holoien et al., 2011). Given how much is at stake, we can no longer afford to be blind. It’s time for change and growth. It’s time to see. The alternative to colorblindness is multiculturalism, an ideology that acknowledges, highlights, and celebrates ethnoracial differences. It recognizes that each tradition has something valuable to offer. It is not afraid to see how others have suffered as a result of racial conflict or differences. So, how do we become multicultural? The following suggestions would make a good start (McCabe, 2011): Recognizing and valuing differences, Teaching and learning about differences, and Fostering personal friendships and organizational alliances Moving from colorblindness to multiculturalism is a process of change, and change is never easy, but we can’t afford to stay the same. References Comas-Diaz, L., and Jacobsen, F. M. (1991). Clinical Ethnocultural Transference and Countertransference in the Therapeutic Dyad. American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 61(3), 392-402. Fryberg, S. M. (2010). When the World Is Colorblind, American Indians Are Invisible: A Diversity Science Approach. Psychological Inquiry, 21(2), 115-119. Holoien, D. S., and Shelton, J. N. (October 2011). You deplete me: The cognitive costs of colorblindness on ethnic minorities. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 10.1016/j.jesp.2011.09.010. Tarca, K. (2005). Colorblind in Control: The Risks of Resisting Difference Amid Demographic Change. Educational Studies, 38(2), 99-120. McCabe, J. (2011). Doing Multiculturalism: An Interactionist Analysis of the Practices of a Multicultural Sorority. Journal of Contemporary Ethnography, 40 (5), 521-549. Reblogging for the next time I hear some “I don’t see race” “by acknowledging race exists, you’re the real racist” “you’re just further dividing us when we should be UNITED!!!” bullshit. Reblogged because I was guilty of this. Having a few friends that are minorities, and reading their posts dealing with racism and privilege as well as now being in a multicultural studies class has shown me the error of my ways. I am so deeply sorry. I will be more mindful of this as I want to fight for what’s right alongside with my friends.
January 14 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
Cranes – Paris And Rome - http://www.last.fm/music...
January 14 from Last.fm - Comment - Share
glitterandhorror: “Once a psychiatrist wrote me. He had a young patient who had heard of Freddy Krueger and was having nightmares about him. I really wanted to help, so I got in touch with Robert and asked him if he would say a few words to the kid into a vidcam. Not only did Robert do that, but he did it while he was being put into, and then out... - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
glitterandhorror: “Once a psychiatrist wrote me. He had a young patient who had heard of Freddy Krueger and was having nightmares about him. I really wanted to help, so I got in touch with Robert and asked him if he would say a few words to the kid into a vidcam. Not only did Robert do that, but he did it while he was being put into, and then out of, his Freddy makeup, describing each step on the way how Freddy was nothing more than latex and glue, and nothing to be worried about. Shortly after I mailed the tape to the doctor, I received a letter in return. The youngster was not only cured, he wanted to watch a Freddy movie!”  Wes Craven, on Robert Englund
January 10 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
thedailywhat: Legalize It of the Day: A 20-year, federally funded study conducted jointly by researchers at UCSF and UAB found that smoking marijuana once a week, or even once a day in some instances, did no long-term damage to the lungs. The study, published today in the the Journal of the American Medical Association, tracked 5,000 individuals... - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
thedailywhat: Legalize It of the Day: A 20-year, federally funded study conducted jointly by researchers at UCSF and UAB found that smoking marijuana once a week, or even once a day in some instances, did no long-term damage to the lungs. The study, published today in the the Journal of the American Medical Association, tracked 5,000 individuals across 20 years, and compared their usage of marijuana and tobacco to their health stats. Cigarette smokers saw a considerable loss in lung function over time, but participants who smokes marijuana as often as once a day for seven years saw no change. Additionally, no harmful effects were recorded in individuals who smoked marijuana occasionally for longer. According to the study’s authors, one possible explanation for the results may be THC — the active ingredient in marijuana. The compound is known to combat inflammation, and may be responsible for offsetting irritants that cause lung problems. Dr. Stefan Kertesz, the study’s co-author, also posits that an unintended side-effect of marijuana usage is the strengthening lung tissue as a result of breathing deeply during inhalation. And as if all that wasn’t enough, researchers found that pot smoking might actually improve lung function. “At levels of marijuana exposure commonly seen in Americans, occasional marijuana use was associated with increases in lung air flow rates and increases in lung capacity,” Kertesz said. He did note that the increase was not enough to “make you feel better,” but, then again, if you’re smoking marijuana, chances are you’re already feeling pretty great.  [ap / afp.] I’m not big on glorifying weed or the culture surrounding it, but I’m definitely up for spreading sound information and dispelling myths. I partake in smoking from time to time, but I do have my priorities over it. That and well, there’s this woman I really, REALLY like who is highly allergic to it, and I’d like to see where things go with me and her. I’d much rather give up pot in favor of amazing people’s company.
January 10 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
My Parents, slightly adjusted to make River Song Miss Frizzle, but Miss Frizzle is my mom. - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
My Parents, slightly adjusted to make River Song Miss Frizzle, but Miss Frizzle is my mom.
January 9 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
Washington State to try and mandate insurances cover abortion care - http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html...
January 9 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
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January 9 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
Ballad of the Brony: A Documentary on Bronies and Friendship is Magic. Whether you yourself are part of the herd or just don’t get what all the hullabaloo is about, this is a must-watch. It eloquently and humorously discusses the series, the fanbase, the controversies, and how the show isn’t “just for little girls.” - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
January 8 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
Pras (featuring Ol' Dirty Bastard and Introducing Mýa) – Ghetto Supastar (That is What You Are) - http://www.last.fm/music...
January 8 from Last.fm - Comment - Share
tithenai: sorcyress: edman: s-guy: Oh my god I’ve never seen the whole thing before. X3 CONTEXT IS KING! AhahahahahahahhahahahAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHahahahah! I also had not seen the original context! - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
tithenai: sorcyress: edman: s-guy: Oh my god I’ve never seen the whole thing before. X3 CONTEXT IS KING! AhahahahahahahhahahahAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHahahahah! I also had not seen the original context!
January 8 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
I’ve turned into a pony. You can too at this site (copypasta the link else you get 403’d): http://d.facdn.net/art... - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
I’ve turned into a pony. You can too at this site (copypasta the link else you get 403’d): http://d.facdn.net/art/shadarack/1305496044.shadarack_pony_generator_mark2.swf
January 8 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
Cherry Poppin' Daddies – Zoot Suit Riot - http://www.last.fm/music...
January 8 from Last.fm - Comment - Share
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boybitch: chaseross: watch it. about not being “trans enough” cool points + babe points + trans boy dyke solidarity.  This takes a huge load off my chest once you switch the gender identity terms to fit. - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
January 7 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
The weekend before I’m off the streets and back in a classroom, I stumble upon this. I of course am the one with the fading purple hair. This is the shelter that I’ve been going to since June 16th. A month and a half later, the two pieces of shit next to me decided to blame me for all of our collective problems, take all of my belongings I didn’t... - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
January 7 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
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January 6 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
So I just found out that Stolen Babies are on a west coast mini-tour. I first saw the video for “Push Button” in ‘07 when I was playing bass for Syracuse Metal band Jayne Dracula, but didn’t figure out who they were and start listening to them in heavy rotation until nearly a year later. They’re playing an all-ages show in Portland on Monday,... - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
January 6 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
Rita Fucking Lynch, everyone. Underrated Bristol musician that’s been active for at least two decades. The first song I’ve ever heard from her was “Rolla Coasta” (sometimes Rollercoaster or Roller Coaster) in the Spring of ‘08 on this compilation CD that my friend Tekniklr bought at Blacksun Festival IV. Anyone who has a Spotify account can find... - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
Rita Fucking Lynch, everyone. Underrated Bristol musician that’s been active for at least two decades. The first song I’ve ever heard from her was “Rolla Coasta” (sometimes Rollercoaster or Roller Coaster) in the Spring of ‘08 on this compilation CD that my friend Tekniklr bought at Blacksun Festival IV. Anyone who has a Spotify account can find and listen to her music with the greatest of ease.
January 6 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
This is a perfect opportunity for me to plug my friend Tom’s business King Weasel as they’re selling buttons with a variant of this. - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
This is a perfect opportunity for me to plug my friend Tom’s business King Weasel as they’re selling buttons with a variant of this.
January 5 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
brazenbutch: hormonaltransrex: bloodystargazer: hormonaltransrex: bloodystargazer: hernameishelen: raumlet: rhymeswithdawn: hormonaltransrex: THE ORIGINAL LIBRA ADVERTISEMENT EXPLAINED FOR PEOPLE WITH A TERMINAL CASE OF “NOT GETTING IT”. WHAT THE EVERLOVINGFUCK IS THIS LINTLICKINGSHIT? I…. wow. I went and watched the commercial, and just wow. Way... - http://skarrkrow.tumblr.com/post...
brazenbutch: hormonaltransrex: bloodystargazer: hormonaltransrex: bloodystargazer: hernameishelen: raumlet: rhymeswithdawn: hormonaltransrex: THE ORIGINAL LIBRA ADVERTISEMENT EXPLAINED FOR PEOPLE WITH A TERMINAL CASE OF “NOT GETTING IT”. WHAT THE EVERLOVINGFUCK IS THIS LINTLICKINGSHIT?  I…. wow.  I went and watched the commercial, and just wow.  Way to start 2012 by being shitty people, Libra. I sent them a very grown up pissy letter. Now boycott everything. But they’re Australian? So not difficult to boycott … Gross, also hormones don’t grow breasts. MTFs have surgery for that… Still, fuck this brand.  WHAT THE FUCK? MINE GREW FROM HORMONES, JUST LIKE CIS WOMEN’S BREASTS GROW FROM HORMONES (THOUGH THEIRS ARE USUALLY NOT SYNTHETIC). OR DO YOU THINK FEMALE PERSON ARE BORN WITH FULLY-FORMED BREASTS? WHY ARE YOU YELLING? I HAVE AN INFORMATIONAL PAMPHLET THING ON THE PROS AND CONS OF TAKING HORMONES - BOTH TESTOSTERONE AND ESTROGEN. IT SAYS THAT YOU CAN’T GROW BREASTS FROM HORMONES. I GOT IT FROM THE LGBT CLINIC… AND ITS NOT LIKE ITS A BAD THING. I FAIL TO SEE WHY YOU’RE ASSAULTING ME WITH CAPITAL LETTERS. Are we done yelling now? I ALWAYS TALK IN CAPS; YOU DO REALISE I AM THE PERSON WHO CREATED THE GRAPHIC YOU’RE REBLOGGING, RIGHT? WHICH HAS CAPS TEXT UNDER IT? YOUR INFORMATION PAMPHLET IS WRONG, OR YOU FAILED TO READ IT PROPERLY. SOME ESTROGEN BASED HORMONES ARE LESS EFFECTIVE THAN OTHERS AT GROWING BREASTS, BUT THE MAJORITY OF THEM RESULT IN BREAST GROWTH IF ONE DOES NOT HAVE THEM. LOL “I read it in a pamphlet, so I must be right.”
January 5 from Tumblr - Comment - Share
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