"It's tough out there for science writers following in Malcolm Gladwell's footsteps. Not because he's so good, but because he's so wrong."
- Terence
from Bookmarklet
I''ve enjoyed Malcolm Gladwell's first three books, but it does sometimes feel as though his supportive anecdotal evidence is converging a bit too tightly on an indisputable conclusion. Read with that in mind, I still think they're worthwhile reads.
- Mark "Godt Nyt Ǻr"
Wonder if the gun nuts realized that Obama's not going to take their guns away, or if they just ran out of money to buy more.
- John (a.k.a. dendroica)
I LOVE suede. Prefer to wear it in shoe, purse or jack form. I did have this blue suede skirt with awesome details that was ruined at a party.
- Admiral Anika
Ahaha@ruined at a party. I mean. Sorry..
- Terence
I was thinking of buying as a holiday gift a pair of suede moccasin booties for someone's daughter. I wasn't sure if suede is in with women( or girls)..
- Terence
lesmy:
9gag: If Browsers Were Women
So from this list I’m to assume that all browsers are European or Caucasian?Pretty one-sided (and pathetic).FAIL - http://terenceinmonochrome.tumblr.com/post...
Walmart FAILS because it insists on reminding us how corrupted our children are( or soon to be) when they think christmas is only about gifts.
- Terence
If Walmart, against your wishes, can make your kids think Christmas is just about toys...I think you may have failed as a parent :)
- Rahsheen ™, Coach Rah
There are a lot of failed parents, life-coaches, grandparents, educators, and siblings out there. Lotz.
- Terence
I feel its necessary, if promotion and branding is my call-to-arms, to sign subscribe my blog to Technorati’s ever expanding resource base and listing. Let’s see if they’ll have me. Posted in Personal Tagged: blogs, Commentary, life, News, People, Technorati
- Terence
"Superheroes can escape almost any trap... except for 50 years' worth of backstory that's dated, self-contradictory or gets in the way of a story. So what do you do? Reach for the retcon! Here are 15 examples of retcon fail. Comics have a grand problem of continuity. Long-lived characters have been starring in multiple monthly titles for years, amounting to thousands of issues, not counting guest stars, crossovers, and tie-ins. And every single one of those issues counts. With retroactive continuity, maybe our heroes fought a clone; or it was a dream; or the whole thing took place in a parallel reality; or someone didn't die, and instead someone took their unconscious body and healed them. Sometimes it's handled well, with good characterisation and a soft touch. But mostly, it isn't. Here are some of the worst, most ham-fisted and generally clumsy ways of dealing with problems in the history of your character."
- Terence
from Bookmarklet
"Because they aren't supposed to be on the internet! If you see a black person on the internet, please email omgblackpeople@gmail.com IMMEDIATELY. By the way, I'm black too. The site is meant to highlight some of the interesting reactions to the trending topics related to the 2009 BET Awards. Keep the trends going."
- Steven Perez
from Bookmarklet
The internet reminds me that I normally live in a bubble of politely sublimated racism, where we may all have racist thoughts from time to time, but we are ashamed of them. When Alex Scoble was talking about FUBU last week I couldn't believe the stuff that came up on a simple Google search for FUBU.
- s t e v e
Well, this is certainly shaping up to be the week where I need to keep sharp objects and anything that can be used as a missile out of my hands.
- vicster is...
Racism isn't fun even as a joke (unless it is clearly about racists)
- Jemm
Anyone who does not realize people like this exist anymore need to accompany me on my next trip to my hometown: Beaver Dam, KY or any town like it from there on south
- Alan Simpson
One thing I'm curious about: where are the tweeters from? We're assuming they're in the US but maybe they're not. Not saying that racism is OK as long as you live outside the US, just saying that the concept of what is racism might be different outside the US.
- FFing Enigma (aka Tina)
ZOMG BLACK PEOPLE OH LORD OH DEAR LOCK THE DOORS.
- Danny Minick
Alan, I know they exist (I have relatives who prove me wrong every time I fall complacent and think racism is getting better). So many of the user pictures in the images look relatively young - and I know I fall into the bubble of thinking younger people are less likely to act this way. Guess I've been smacked in the face with it again.
- ÉllbeeÇee
Another situation where "like" should be "share" or some such thing. Everyone should see this ridiculousness, but hard to click like.
- Kenton
Tina, his user profile says he lives in upstate New York. As for the "concept of racism" being different elsewhere: vocabulary, maybe - I recently educated my parents on current US terminology - but saying that there are too many [Black people] on [internet service] is racist everywhere I can think of.
- Deborah Fitchett
I just don't get this, honestly I don't... Why...
- H0llywoodWh0re
So, let me get this straight: just because the blog owner is black, it's OK to create a warehouse of critical, if not negative, opinions based around the Twitter Trend of the BET Awards? Observation: Is it me or are all the negative twitter comments from simpleminded and a small demographic of caucasians?
- Terence
I'm in to this late, but Tutivillus' comment is beyond brilliant! :-)
- Rene Wirtz
@Terence: I can't help but *nod* at your question/statement.
- Rene Wirtz
why wouldn't it be okay to catalog such things terence?
- tiffany
they appear to update Wordpress every other minute...or that's what it seems to me.
- Cassandra
Agreed. But at least now they've allowed for the 1-click upgrades which only replace the needed files and not the whole WP install anymore. Hang in there :) Oh, and 2.9 is already on it's way. Looks additive though, i.e. it shouldn't really break anything, thank goodness. That is always the greatest horror...
- Alex Schleber
2.8.5 came out three weeks ago. What took so long? Anyway, 2.8.6 is just a minor security update, there's no fundamental changes to it. Should be no issues between 2.8.5 and 2.8.6. Also, the security issues it addresses only impact you if you allow other people to register to your site. And one of them requires that they be able to upload files *and* that you have a misconfigured Apache installation. So the threat level is pretty low there.
- Otto
Fantastico still hasn't even gotten to 2.8.5 yet w/ my service provider. The auto-update plugin w/ Wordpress never works for me, so I usually just wait for that.
- Fleagle
Since I am scared, It obliges me to save the data-base(s), deactivate the plugins .....
- bellegarde-webb
I use the DB Backup plugin: http://wordpress.org/extend... and then just do the one-click upgrade. Works every time. Of course, on my own sites, I run the nightly betas, so I'm upgrading every few days to play with the new features. :)
- Otto
Yep. I'm familiar with it. It never works for me.
- Fleagle
Remember if you changed something manually in sidebar.php, single.php etc. using Appearance > Editor tool (such as adding adsense blocks) then DO NOT auto-upgrade! It will overwrite those changes!
- TrafficBug
I push the button after having save theme, Databased and desactivated pluggins: no problem. Glad!
- bellegarde-webb
I don't understand why people get all "sad" and pull each others' dicks every time someone quits FF over something retarded. Who. Cares. Then they come back a week later and everyone jerks each other off again.
I agree. I get tired of seeing people go off in a huff and then fawned over when they come back a week later.
- Alan Simpson
I don't understand the level of hypersensitivity - I kind of do when it's a sixteen-year-old like Holden. But I also think maybe it takes a certain level of maturity to belong to a community like FF. Or is that the issue when it comes to the Adens and Lindseys of the world too?
- MaryB, BrandingBroadOfFF
I think I've missed out on a very significant part of the Friendfeed "community". And I'm not talking about Holden deleting his account.
- Kenton
Who came back? When I got unsubscribed from as part of mass unsubscribing, I returned the favor, so I might be missing something...
- Kamilah Gill
Aden's back, but I was thinking more generally. I have pretty much seen this in ever community I have belonged to. Someone gets upset and quits, then they come back and people fawn over them.
- Andrizzle Gizzle
I see what happened to one of the young peoples of FF. All I can say is, sigh. I think all the folks under about 20 need a big fat disclaimer to tell people HEY YOU. YEAH, YOU. YOU ARE ADDRESSING A TEENAGER. GO A LITTLE EASY.
- Kamilah Gill
Some people are sad that others leave and then happy when they return. Its a social site that they all share their feelings and thoughts. Its part of the deal. When you delete your account and come back people will fawn over you too.
- Uncle CW™
I'm in the Rahsheen school of thought on this one. You'll only pry my FF account out of my cold, dead, hands.
- Kamilah Gill
Hey. Maybe if I pretend to leave in a huff and then come back a week later people will like me more. I should try this in real life as well.
- Alan Simpson
eh, Holden has no problem starting shit with people on a fairly frequent basis, I think at some point people can stop pulling punches on him.
- Andrizzle Gizzle
I doubt most people would even notice if I quit.
- Andrizzle Gizzle
I guess he's back already with a private feed? Holdenpage. For anyone who's interested. I'm really not. I just noticed. *shrug*
- Kamilah Gill
People like jerking off. What're you gonna do?
- Victor Ganata
Kamillah, it's me the Holdenpage account.
- Jimminy Fuller
ah, ok. you're messing around. You know, I get you two mixed up sometimes. are you sure you're not just one person?
- Kamilah Gill
LOL, we're not sure about that either sometimes.
- Jimminy Fuller
Therapy is expensive, and often not covered by insurance. This is free. :D
- Victor Ganata
Steven, if you don't like it when people post emotional stuff here, you can always hide or block. There's no need to chide people for doing it.
- John (a.k.a. dendroica)
Dragon, I would. I noticed I mysteriously became unsubbed to you - musta happened when you enhanced your moniker - and I found THAT disturbing. (I also resubbed to you immediately.)
- MaryB, BrandingBroadOfFF
MaryB lol I wonder how that happened! I wish FF had a better way of seeing who is subbed to you because I never check those emails they send. :[
- Andrizzle Gizzle
I would never participate in a social network for emo retards unless Steven Summers was leading the charge.
- Akiva Moskovitz
Pulling my dick? No wonder I woke up all happy today.
- Outsanity
Nobody noticed when I left and then came back. But that might just be because I'm not mental.
- Christopher Harley
I think there is a large business opportunity for social network therapist, kind of like a Dr. Phil for social networks, though it would probably be better if you weren't mental like Dr. Phil.
- Ed Millard
Wow how did someone leave a comment with no name? I want.
- Andrizzle Gizzle
How can you truly understand crazy if you aren't crazy yourself? :)
- Victor Ganata
Very true Victor, that is the best explanation I've heard for Dr. Phil's success, that and Oprah made him. I'm wondering if Carrie Fischer is available to be the FriendFeed social network therapist, this place clearly needs one. Her therapist in Austin Powers was great.
- Ed Millard
Because I don't like my friends having to leave the party because of someone else. After 17 months here, I like this space. Some of the people were true friends and not everything is a circle jerk.
- Johnny Worthington
from iPhone
pulling dicks is better than pooling dicks.
- Morgan Haley
I understand why people get upset after they see people get "nerd mobbed" , because not all of them do come back. It seems like the same cast of characters doing it again and again.
- Joe
Wow, I have been missing all the drama lately, I guess... But Steven Summers is cracking me up. Of course social networking is part popularity contest... any social interactions are... LOL! But that's not the whole of it...
- Fa La La La Lindsay
I just scroll past the stuff that is too much for me... And look for the stuff that makes me happy or makes me laugh instead.. most of the time you do a good job of that, Andrea. :)
- Fa La La La Lindsay
"It's been my experience in life that, while men are more likely to bitch about the institution of marriage, it's WOMEN who more often end up regretting getting hitched. It's practically a ritual these days to be skeptical about marriage if you're a guy. You hear comedians and columnists and God knows who else bitching about being tied to one woman, yearning to be free to drink and ogle ass as they please. Almost all of that is an exaggeration. I may goof on being married from time to time, but I'd rather be chopped in half with a machete than NOT be married to my wife. That would be horrible and shitty. But women. How many women do you know that rushed into getting married because all their friends were all getting married at the same time, only to later find out that their husband is actually kind of a dipshit? Because all guys are conditioned to be skeptical about marriage, because we're trained to be reluctant about the whole enterprise, we're 21% choosier about whom we end up...
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- Terence
from Bookmarklet
It is very much about expectations, pro or con. Of course, negative expectations can also become a self-fulfilling prophecy. (I'm less certain about whether positive expectations can work that way, but I'd like to think that is true, as well.) I guess I'd vote for 'realistic' expectations, but then, after being married for thirty years and now separated, I'm not sure whether I know what the means even now!
- Mark "Godt Nyt Ǻr"
"Didn't it seem like it was ages ago that those Microsoft commercials with Jerry Seinfeld and Bill Gates commercials aired? You know, the one with the shopping for shoes, as well as the one with the duo bonding with a family. Don't remember? Well, apparently neither does Jerry Seinfeld, who was purportedly paid USD $10 million for the commercials."
- Arnaldo M Pereira
from Bookmarklet
"Wal-Mart is now offering coffins for sale on their website, at reasonable prices. The winner here: Consumers, who can save hundreds or thousands of dollars by buying their coffins at Walmart.com. Once again, Wal-Mart's low prices help American families save. They want you dead so they can have your money."
- Terence
from Bookmarklet
"If your stomach turns a little at the thought of ever hearing Chris Brown's voice again—or, for that matter, his name—get ready for one nauseous winter. The R&B singer, who pleaded guilty in June to beating his ex-girlfriend Rihanna during a February argument, is set to release his third album, Graffiti, in December. Last month, the lead single, "I Can Transform Ya," hit radio, and the follow-up, "Crawl," came out last week. There's something audacious about Brown's return, and not just because it took a scant three months for him to slide back into album-promo mode after entering his guilty plea. Brown has been exposed in the Rihanna saga, after all, as more than an abusive boyfriend. Promising affection and pleasure in his music but brutish and violent in real life, his love oil turned out to be snake oil: An R&B loverman best known for a domestic-violence conviction is an insupportable contradiction."
- Terence
from Bookmarklet
"In one way, Marc Ecko's a role model: He started with style and a dream and made it to the top of pop fashion. In a more accurate way, Marc Ecko is a walking "What Not to Do" guide. The NYP reports today that Ecko's finally lost control of his own brand. He was forced to sell off a controlling stake in Ecko, middle America's most familiar hip-pop fashion line in order to raise cash to pay off creditors. It'll help the feeble brand hobble on, but it won't be his."
- Terence
from Bookmarklet
When I first came on to ff today, this is what I saw at the top of the feed. As I leave, it is at the top again. Thus, I both start and end the day smiling.
- Katy S
It looks just like Derrick is about to say "Goo goo ga ga"
- Tad
I'm just gonna go ahead and let this be my embarrassing photo meme entry.
- Derrick
Thanks... it's *semi* safe, it does include some f-bombs. Wish I could easily shrink it down a bit more. Anyway, it was kinda sad :( I keep hoping things won't go that way... this Exciting Phase has lasted for a solid 6 months so far...
- Kamilah Gill
Reminds me of the joke about the phases of sex... The 1st kind of sex is Smurf Sex. This kind of sex happens when youfirst meet someone and you both have sex until you are blue in the face.The 2nd kind of sex is Kitchen Sex. This is when you have been withyour partner for a short time and you are so horny you will have sexanywhere, even in the kitchen.The 3rd kind of sex is Bedroom Sex....
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- LogEx
Cats take better care of themselves when I'm away.
- Veronica
If you got dogs, it might take care of the cat situation for you...
- Thomas
One time i killed a motherboard by plugging a Firewire motherboard connector in a usb motherboard connector, turn it on and saw blue smoke! But I RMA it anyway ;)
- Fee501st
I like Taylor Swift. (for her musical talent)
- Jim Bednarz
I cracked and almost destroyed the headphone jack of my iPhone in a tantrum where I threw my purse at the ground, and the phone went flying out. It was an unintended casualty.
- Veronica
oh, i was going to say the Original iphone deserved it with its funky headphone jack!
- Fee501st
The only *nix command I know by heart is ls -la
- Caleb
I dropped a 10 thousand dollar betacam videocamera on the job. Was in grass and only busted the light and mount.
- Josh Haley
I managed to snap part of the staircase in my parents' house and 'fixed' it by putting it back together and colouring in the chipped bits with brown crayon (they didn't notice for years). Never did get around to glueing it...
- Amy
I once called my second grade teacher "Mom". In front of the entire class. While shouting at the top of my lungs.
- Mike Nayyar
I hate cellphones, actually phones in general.
- Jimminy Fuller
I got mad at my mom once when I was a kid, and went to her record collection and picked one, broke the album, and put it back in the sleeve. Never told her. Don't remember which one.
- Veronica
One time when i was a kid, a broke a figurine that my mom love by running threw the house, i blame it on the cat.
- Fee501st
I crushed my hot wheels cars in my dad's vice grip and have terrible pile ups
- Fee501st
I used to hate Shirley Temple movies because I was jealous that she was a small child (I was also a small child) that could sing and dance better than I could.
- Veronica
I refuse to watch any of the Saw films because I don't want my friends to see exactly how much of a wuss I am (I'll either faint, puke or scream like a little girl - the jury's out)
- Amy
No matter how many times i watch Futurama - Jurassic bark, I still cry at the end!
- Fee501st
I took my parents car when I was 14 and drove all over Connecticut. Broke a sway bar in it try to do fancy spin outs. Admitted I took car but lied about how it got damaged. "Avoiding a bad driver"
- Jim Bednarz
Haha, Jim!! I once drove to Mystic from Hartford and didn't tell my parents, and I got lost and had to pull over and cry.
- Veronica
Veronica: Everyone does that (talking to themselves). I have conversations with my friends in my head.
- Amy
Er...to clarify, that's my ACTUAL friends, not imaginary ones!
- Amy
I dont care much for Horror movies either, but dont mind zombie movies
- Fee501st
I will probably see ZombieLand and pass out.
- Veronica
Veronica & Amy: same here i talk stuff out to myself
- Fee501st
Haha! Veronica! Thats too funny. I cried after I broke the car. Didn't know how I was going to to get it home from New Britain to Portland. Ended up just driving it really slow down Route 9.
- Jim Bednarz
Amy: Are you going to go all Tyler Dyrden on us?
- Caleb
I used to take my brother to the skate park in New Britain :)
- Veronica
New Britain is my hometown. Moved to Portland when I was 12
- Jim Bednarz
When I was 5 I moved from NY to CA. Upon hearing my New York accent, my new school put me in the slow kids class for two years...
- Thomas
I the person that keeps playing all WWII FPS
- Fee501st
MVB: It's only when I have something REALLY exciting to say and totally forget to tell people. It gets rid of the 'omg, must tell people nao' feeling. :)
- Amy
I was actually pretty good at sneaking out, I was never caught.
- Veronica
Amy: I think the whole social awkwardness of being a Geek :)
- Fee501st
I used to think The Darkness' song, "I believe in a thing called love" was actually from the Queens of the Stone Age. (Yes, it nearly got me fired!) Also, I used to think all Jehovah's Witnesses were probably black or vice versa. You had to be there. And 8 years old.
- midnightgolfer
I like the smell of a Propane engine also
- Fee501st
I can feel when TVs are on in other rooms.
- Veronica
I got into a drinking contest with one of my 'friends' (he likes to show off) and told him I'd had 1 shot more than him, when really...I went to the toilets and just left it there.
- Amy
Veronica, been on the Boulder Dash at Lake Compounce?
- Jim Bednarz
Veronica, NO WAY REALLY? I can too, i tell my friends that but they say im full of BS so i have to prove it them! Even new tvs like LCD and Plasmas?
- Fee501st
Nice! One of the best wooden coasters in US.
- Jim Bednarz
This is the most interesting thing I've done all day.
- midnightgolfer
Fee501st: Nah, they would delete the files and leave the album information in iTunes untouched. That way the album stays but you can't listen to it >:)
- Carlos Urrutia
Amy- And best of all, it would look like it was an iTunes bork so she'd never know :)
- Carlos Urrutia
Oh yeah, I still haven't gotten around to PROPERLY learning to drive and I find horror movies as entertaining as having something heavy land on my crotch.
- Carlos Urrutia
Deep down in my heart of hearts all I ever wanted to be was loved by someone... okay just kidding. I actually try to live as vapid a life as possible and gauge success by the number of times I get to consume bacon before I pass on to the great dust heap in the sky.
- Jay Cuthrell
The best part about that is the profile picture. This is a man who's SERIOUS about his Gaga.
- Veronica
Veronica, unless you got pics he won :)
- Fee501st
I'm going to repost that picture and then you'll be sorry.
- Veronica
I've yet to complete 90% of the video games I've purchased.
- Carlos Urrutia
/me goes and finds the latest episode...
- Carlos Urrutia
Wayne likes Friendfeed better than twitter
- Wayne Sutton
Not the latest episode! I'm not there! :0
- Veronica
Let me rephrase that, the most recent episode with the lovely Veronica Belmont :)
- Carlos Urrutia
Nica (Eron, ronic, vero, eronic, to many cool sounding small names in your big name) - This picture made me think of you, not an otter, but still geeky. http://friendfeed.com/dariusm...
- Matthew DeVries
Jason - nothing wrong with that, Now I? I can still sing the full theme song to Jem. (glamor and glitter, fashion and fame)
- Matthew DeVries
Yes Michael, as I said, it would be nice, and actually weird if everyone really gave their True confessions...and it would be Hollywood gold...
- Bill Heslin
I once suggested going to see "Spice World" in the theater. In my defense, I'd been up for 48 hours...
- Thomas
And as I said some seemed true and heartfelt
- Bill Heslin
When I was born I had a stroke in the white matter.
- Michael Weems
Matthew - I hated that they changed the theme song in the 2nd season.
- Jason Wong
I saw the Monkees in concert at the Hartford Civic Center when I was in High School.
- Jim Bednarz
And high school was in the late 80's. Not exactly the music of my generation.
- Jim Bednarz
Despite most of my 'indie cred' music on iTunes, if you were to take a gander at my iLike profile, you'd see that "Since U Been Gone" by Kelly Clarkson is in the top 5 most played in my library.
- Fleagle
One more before bed. I was a huge fan of the Charmed TV series.
- Jim Bednarz
I'd confess something, but it'll go to the confessions room to be private, else I need some sex for so much time now, I almost can't cope anymore, I wouldn't want to be forced on the dirtiest streets with that in mind. ;p
- ElijahBailey-Zu of FF <0,
Well, there's one way to stop a thread dead in its tracks.
- Fleagle
When i was a kid the Cacodemon in Doom would scare me!
- Fee501st
When I was a kid I saw 80% of the posidon adventure then was sent to bed (never got to see the 'happy' ending) and cruise ships STILL freak me out
- Amy
I haven't eaten seafood since I was a little kid after I had a nightmare of a giant crab coming after me.
- Carlos Urrutia
from Android
I like booty panties( please don't have to explain it on here).
- Terence
But..but this doesn't speak against the authenticity of genre as a whole?
- Terence
Yes, but then again, the idea of heavily edited "reality" shows also seems to go against authenticity, anyway.
- Admiral Anika
A biography has to be edited just as much as a fictional novel. Any medium—a TV program, a book, narrative video—has its own set of base-level demands that tend to be adhered to to achieve conventional success.
- Micah Wittman