I'd be inclined to bake something with it, but I wonder if these silicone molds are really safe to use, that is, non-toxic. Hell, I'd take a chance, I guess ;-)
- Kittyburgers
It's like a cute little Cyberman from Dr. Who LOL
- Cheryl Allin
Using the data collection website Daytum I recorded time (in minutes) and cost (in £ GBP) of all my interactions as a consumer. This included the odd five minutes for lunch every few days at my favourite salad stall on Goodge Street, to spending 45 minutes in Preston train station waiting for a connection. Yep, that's 45 minutes of my life I'll never get back. The data's not perfect of course (eg. it's not automated based on GPS), and I rounded up/down as appropriate so that I didn't completely lose my sanity. But it provides a fascinating insight into how I live my life as a consumer, and which brands steal my attention. What's more, with only a limited time of existence on this planet, it shows me whether I'm spending my time and money wisely as a consumer. And having invoiced the companies that claim my attention, I'll soon find out how much they respect the time I spend with their brand.
- Shey, Jamaican of FF
from Bookmarklet
I've often wanted to do that. Notably, with Time Warner Cable and Sprint. I can spend hours on the phone with them and never get a resolution.
- Admiral Anika
did he get anyone to pay?? Edit: Ahh... that's a check from one of them... sweet!
- Lindsay
Charlotte, there are many variety of lavender and they do not all smell the same. I have 5 different kinds on my property, 2 don't even have a smell!
- Admiral Anika
@Anika, please next time don't forget to take some pictures from lavender farm. i am interested to see different farm.
- Mahdi Ebrahimi
We have two sweet smelling varieties here in our yard.
- Joe
If I ever go back over there, I definitely will. It actually took me awhile to understand what I was looking at. If there hadn't been a sign by the front gate, I would have just been confused.
- Admiral Anika
Just because Facebook bought Friendfeed, doesn't necessarily mean they will do anything with the service. At least maybe not right away. People need to chill out.
- Alex Knight
hope it doesn't mess w/ twitter integration
- Ken Seto
makes a lot of sense - f.b. now has a power house of real-time all-stars. fixes many of the feature 'wish' lists for f.b. - actually a major positive sign for innovation. congrats to the F.F. team.
- michael sean wright
This will probably be bad. like all purchases, it will be an "afterthought" and never be fully allowed to develop and flourish.
- Ryan Jones
Man this is really SUCKS!! :((( we all know Facebook strategies on the web :(( Whey will drive FriendFeed to the helll and I'm pretty sure of this :((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( BAD SUCKS SAD :(((
- FFTornado
Funny thing is, if you posted about this on Facebook, 99.9999% of it's users would go "huh, what's FriendFeed anyway?"
- Richard Matthias
It almost seemed inevitable since Facebook has been copying so much of Friendfeed in recent months. It's good for the founders of FF and may benefit those of us who use both on a regular basis. Maybe they'll just leave FF alone?
- Kenley Neufeld
someone tell me what they will do with it? Nothing maybe? Kill it, maybe?
- Francine Hardaway
Wonder how they'll integrate, separate services with more interaction or FF swallowed by Facebook.
- Steven Cains
Buy as is use it's IP and close it down or run as separate business? Either way, didn't see that coming.
- Keith Bennett
from BuddyFeed
It was bound to go down. Like we used to say on the block shootin' dice "Big Bank Take Little Bank"
- professor daddyo
I do, however, wish tha tmore sites would implement this commenting engine.
- Ryan Jones
Fotis: haha, wait too long, and you'll never be able to close your FF account ;)
- Jason Hargrove
not believing it until another source confirms...
- Benton
Congrats to the friendfeed team. Worried about the future though.
- Andy Roth
It looks like a defensive move. I think it's better fro FB to acquire FF than incorporating twitter functionalities in their status feature.
- Pablo Paniagua
Congrats to ff team...but how does this work? I have 2 different accounts...and I like it that way...I don't want to share/spam my friends on facebook with what I have here...
- brainno722 (Peter)
Originally posted this to your other FF/FB post before you astarted this one: I don't see the point of Facebook acquiring FriendFeed. They are pretty much identical services (well, FF represents just the News Feed portion of Facebook) I don't see how they can incorporate FriendFeed into Facebook. If they really did buy it, then I see this as them going for programming talent more so...
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- Christopher A. Wichura
Bad bad bad bad bad bad ::runs screaming down the hall::
- Kandeezie
from fftogo
I think this is more of a "send the friendfeed traffic to facebook" than any kind of technical leverage. My biggest concern here: in order to exchange dialogue with people on facebook I need to be friends with them vs. being able to do it on friendfeed without having to friend them up. I find this valuable as there may be a topic or 5 that I want to engage with user "X" on, but I don't...
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- Erik Boles
I am disappointed by this news... I don't like Facebook at all... And I'm afraid they will just kill FriendFeed with their awful cluttered interface...
- Lindsay
It depends on how they integrate it. Did they buy it for the search engine, or did they buy it as a potential for extending the reach of Facebook into real time conversations? It's all about the life stream now right? So probably Facebook's attempt to stake a claim there.
- Tony "Frosty" Welch
First of all, I love the name "Facefeed." ROFL Second, this is business boys. Happens all the time. Why do you think innovation keeps happening. FB will integrate or kill off FF, and something else will happen. It's a natural cycle.
- Francine Hardaway
wondering if i should continue aggregating all my online activity in frienfeed now that facebook owns it!!
- Gtp19
I can't begin to process this right now. Too much work to focus on. Later when I read this 10,000 mile long thread and have a glass of Cab in hand.
- Michele Lorito-Chase
Not feeling real good about this, hope fully Facebook will do right by the FF community, but I'm not holding my breath. Glad for the FF team though
- Kim Landwehr
if you look closely at FF the large majority of FF posts are twitter posts, so there was not that much original content on FF in the first place...
- Ingmar
So FB failed to buy Twitter, - so they buy FF which is just a UI for twitter..
- Nick Halstead
Makes a lot of sense for Facebook. And we find this very healthy ^^
- twitscoop
People need to stop freaking out. The Facebook/Friendfeed buy out was just announced. Wait for details people.
- Alex Knight
It could be bad, it could be good. As long as Facebook doesn't try to port their functionality over, I'm fine with it being a financial acquisition.
- Adam Reyher
Great, why did I bother creating an account here? I could have held out.
- desinole
if this is true, for the love of god, please don't Facebook go and mess up FriendFeed as they have their own system, Facebook is a mess these days, Friendfeed is one of the 2.0 sites that actually has concentrated on doing a few things well, complete opposite to Facebook.
- Carl Grint
I suppose Friendfeed was considerably lacking in LOLcats.
- Ian Tindale
Cuz we all know that facebook doesn't respect user's privacy and you've got basically everything on ff, youtube, twitter, digg whatever you do
- Fotis Alexandrou
Smart for Facebook but I prefer Friendfeed the way it is.What, we'll be throwing rabbits next?
- Janet Fouts
FriendFeed listens to the community. Facebook doesn't. Not to mention they're ENTIRELY different communities.
- Adam Reyher
If they keep FriendFeed as a separate site, and still upgrade regularly, this is fine. If FriendFeed winds up in the dead pool, then it sucks.
- Steve Sill
Maybe I should rediscover my Orkut account.
- Ian Tindale
I was just thinking how Friendfeed had stayed out of recent takeovers, mergers and hence cyber attacks. Will Friendfeed now be taken over by celebs and spammers too?
- Nils Geylen
Not sure why this news makes me nervous. Please tell me it's going to be ok Scoble...
- Lucas
FF has been FB's incubator for awhile.
- Peter Warnock
Facebook has ZERO respect for users' wishes... Friendfeed is incompatible with that. Friendfeed will be going away. :( Their blog post says as much: "FriendFeed.com will continue to operate normally **for the time being**. We're still figuring out our longer-term plans for the product"
- tollie williams
Ideally, FB will leave FF to do the sweet innovating they are doing and just take the awesome features and put them into FB
- Ryan
This is the first time I've used Friendfeed in a year. Good move on their part.
- chantelle
FriendFeed functionality on Facebook would be nice. The reverse, not so much. They're trying to address two entirely separate purposes and as such, need to remain completely separate.
- Adam Reyher
Stay here until FB does something dumb with FF
- Ryan
The rhetoric seems a bit too "Facebook will do what they want with us" and not "we will remain FF and continue forward". Seems as if FB went for the tech and we could lose FF as a seperate entity. Boo.
- Derek Shanahan
confirmed by facebook press release.
- Zac Bowling
Love 'em or hate 'em....Facebook made a phenomenal purchase.
- Kevin Pruett
I see a ton of Wall Spam. Facebook users just don't get it when you port your twitter updates over. There is too much for them to wrap their heads around. This will be a hard transition.
- Ryan Cummins
And I was REALLY getting fond of FriendFeed. From now on only downhill applicationwise?
- Bart
Not happy about this. I use Facebook, but don't like it. It reminds me of AOL from 10 years ago.
- David Sharpe
I agree that I don't want FB to mess up FF, but this will also give FF a higher profile and bring in many more users...which we may or may not like, judging by what happened on Twitter. I hope FF doesn't die off like Jaiku because I really think FF offers a more valuable and useful interface.
- Cathryn Hrudicka
One thing to consider is this: If we have "trusted" the FriendFeed people not to screw things up, hopefully we can trust them to make sure they're still in control in the terms of the acquisition.
- Adam Reyher
What's it going to be called? Failbook?
- Ian Tindale
I hope this is a joke.. Damn it, I dont like Facebook now there is nowhere to go... F***
- Jacque
I am trying to imagine how this will be a good thing for existing FF users. It feels so right and so wrong all at once!...Maybe at least my kids and wife will finally get what I've been ignoring them for over the past year.
- Thom Kennon
Is that means we're going to see more extremist groups around, now that FB has acquired FF?
- Nir Ben Yona
so where do all the cool kids go now? we need another startup, stat!
- h1ro
I am afraid... what johnny2009 have said can really be the future... soon friendfeed will = Jaiku
- Ahmed Mubbashir Khan
Damn,I've just"got friendfeed,and i love it.I definately don't like facebook.What does it mean for twitter?
- Paul Downing
Any investors want to predict the buyout price?
- Kevin Pruett
am gonna wait for google wave... coz in facebook, i cant access the complete stream for a month ago, the site goes down very often while browsing, and privacy issues galore!! congratulations for friendfeed but its jus me!!!
- Gtp19
Maybe we´re seeing here one of FriendFeeds biggest discusions ever. I´m sceptic about the future of FF as a standlone service...
- Torsten Eckert
What concerns me most is what happens to my friends here (and that I have to interact with my friends THERE). Will we have to be friends to interact in the same way we have the last couple of years?
- jcunwired
This is very good for FriendFeed as long as Facebook doesn't corrupt them. I would have preferred to see Google buy FF but I know with their focus on Wave I don't think it would have been a good fit. I like the Facebook platform, but they have done too many shady things in the past for me to trust them.
- Adam Teece
all of the conversation is happening on FriendFeed and Twitter - nothing on Facebook. Think we'd scare away Facebook if everyone starts having lots of conversations there - like on Scoble's fan page?
- Stuart Miniman
They can or don't have to fix FF's FB app now.
- ydfeed
All I can think of is now a lot of people can feel the pain the dedicated Pownce community felt, but at least you're not getting shut down, just yet.
- Mike Lewis
I'm not a big facebook user, but my gut feeling is that like twitter buying summize, it will mark the end of major innovations. I hope I'm wrong. But they should totally go with the facefeed mashup name.
- motownmutt
I dont see any potential for competition with twitter FB and Twitter serve different purposes as does FriendFeed
- iluvblackwomen
Sorry but renaming Facebook to 'Facefeed' is utterly stupid.
- Alex Knight
does making google reader more social has anything to do with this buyout??!
- Gtp19
yeah this was good for facebook. bad for anyone who liked friendfeed.
- Liz
FriendFeed is very good, a better way to use Twitter & etc. Knowing this, I still rarely use FF. Not going to start using Facebook more.
- Nicole
Actually, this could be death for Twitter when you think about it. The people I know who are in FB are not likely to add TWO more nets to their lifestream. FriendFeed makes more sense for them. Maybe Twitter just stays as the dumb pipe it's become for many of us here.
- Thom Kennon
Echoing what others have said - My guess: Facebook will get better, Friendfeed will get worse, Twitter will matter a lot less.
- Matthew Blaisdell
Good for FB UI and search, questionable for the FF community and its independent spirit ...
- Bo Stern
The main reason why I came to FF was because when I tried to treat FB the same as FF, i was talking to a wall. At least people interact here. At FB, it's all about the cheesy games/apps.
- Matthew Horton
from iPhone
Just like most acquisitions, it could be good and it could be bad. I trust that FriendFeed will live on as FriendFeed, only sharing their tech with Facebook. Possibly more integration between the two sites. If you were FF/FB, what would you do?
- Nick Humphries
Twitter, Friendfeed and Facebook are three entirely different animals. Facebook eats Friendfeed and poops out little bits of content that once belonged to us. Twitter continues to thrive as the broadcast conversation-wannabe that it always was.
- jcunwired
Nick - think again. Its going to go away - read the tea leaves in this statement: "Your data will not go away any time in the near term future - we are committed to our users" - Bret Taylor in this post https://friendfeed.com/friendf...
- jcunwired
Facebook must want real time soc-net search badly...
- martin smith
The biggest thing here, at least within the Twitter context, is that this merger will combine 'verified' identity (in terms of Facebook user ID being slightly more 'real' than Twitter) with real time status updates.
- Dan Patterson
I'm looking forward to what this brings to Facebook. I have enjoyed both networks but wondered when FriendFeed/Facebook would face-off and/or be absorbed by the other. I think FriendFeed's tech will improve the Facebook experience.
- Jacob Sloan
FriendFeed + Twitter = disruptive. FriendFeed + Facebook = one more app for FB . Facebookers dont know the power of FriendFeed. I agree with : "" So FB failed to buy Twitter, - so they buy FF which is just a UI for twitter.. - Nick Halstead ""
- Rocky
Most likely scenario is Facebook assimilates the FriendFeed guys, has them work on improving Facebook newsfeed/realtime/status, and lets FriendFeed die a slow unmaintained death.
- Richard Akerman
Well, my friends on FB doesn't give a damn about sharing links, news, pics, vids etc. So I'm not sure how I will use FB+FF now. I don't think FriendFeed will exist, just implemented in Facebook. The name FriendFeed will die. And: on FB you don't want the whole world to see everything you're doing, just your friends. And it will stay this way. So the question is: Who will build the new FriendFeed?
- Patrik Johansson
Do this mean, by the way, that we (the FriendFeed users) should start to connect with each other on FB? How will they like that? People who get's 2-3 maybe 4000 connections?
- Patrik Johansson
Robert, it means all the time you invested building friends lists and updates there will go to Facebook :-)
- Loic Le Meur
could someone start to develop a Frienfeed clon , please ? ASAP !
- Rocky
Seems bloody terrible from this users perspective. Good for Friendfeed the company though.
- Quasar
Given Facebook's past, this could be really bad. Given FriendFeed's past, this could be really good. No real way to speculate without talking to the FF crew.
- xero
+3273 Quasar! (one for each of my Likes, already on a death march)
- jcunwired
Robert, do you know if Facebook is going to put on limits here at FF??? Oh crikey... so much for our citizen journalism here.... Admittedly I am bummed. Uber bummed.
- Arleen Anderson
your blog is the most important thing you can own on the web. these sites can come and go. it's a great social point but true friends you've made here you talk outside of ff, right?
- Terry O'Fee
from BuddyFeed
It's a good time to sell to Facebook, cause Google Wave is imminent and is going to destroy all of Facebook, Twitter and FriendFeed. I think FriendFeed employees might even go back to Google eventually as soon as their contracts with Facebook are up.
- Charbax
Robert - wow. just wow I am stunned. Sorta sad actually. I love FF innovation and don't want to see that stop !!!!!
- Susan Beebe
(RE: Your tweet earlier) When you say the minor league team going to the majors, I don't always feel that this is a positive thing. As in this case, it's like Ferrari being acquired by Ford. I don't think I like this acquisition.
- Richard Merritt
the free ride couldn't last forever. I know it sucks that things will change, but they've got a lot more sense than Twitter has about these things..
- Terry O'Fee
from BuddyFeed
You must all assimilate to the new FaceFeed
- Jonathan.Rivera
From what I'm gathering, this acquisition is more about FB acquiring the talented engineers of FF than it is about the FF software itself. A smart play by FB. Unfortunate for us that value FF. I personally feel that FB is just slowly becoming the new Myspace. Which I don't think I need to explain how lame that is.
- Richard Merritt
If you ignore all the crappy apps and just comment and post photos, your main feed on Facebook is fundamentally a pretty similar experience to FriendFeed - people post stuff, people comment on it. That is, at-least, the way my network tends to use Facebook. The main difference is that Facebook defaults to being very closed and private while FriendFeed defaults to being very open and...
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- Edward Coffey
edward - pretty much. it's FF for the layman. remember back in the day they used to have forums too?
- Terry O'Fee
friendfeed is very cliquey. you have your group of people who usually gather round for conversations. now imagine some of this friendfeed stuff in facebook. done right it will help them a lot.
- Terry O'Fee
from BuddyFeed
I don't think I am liking this but FB does need to add the "edit" feature like on here.
- Marika Dye
FF acquisition is expected. But, as a user, I would be bumned, if FF would become a feature of FB. As, I tend to use Twitter as my social network and not FB.
- Vasu Srinivasan
It doesn't make much sense talking about 'Facefeed" and 'Friendbook'... Facebook simply bought a cool 12-people company called Friendfeed for its great search technology paying 15M plus some shares, which is really very cheap in this context, given the value of FF's technology (as it is perceived by us). They are also hiring the talented FF team, which makes the deal even more interesting for FB. Probably there are also some deeper hidden motives and implications that I am not able to get.
- Liviu Barbat
I would love it if Facebook integrated the FriendFeed features. I would love it if Facebook had FriendFeed's flexibility with Facebook's privacy control. It sucks that the world may lose FriendFeed, but it is great the Facebook will likely get better.
- Andrew
Andrew, Facebook will get better - over time. There won't be any Vulcan website meld of FB and FF overnight.
- Bill Sodeman
thank god someone understands that, andrew. it's like "i liked this band better before they went to a major label!" ;)
- Terry O'Fee
Bill - But we can dream, can't we? :) I mean, what I love about Facebook is that I'm interacting with my friends as my friends, not as usernames and avatars. But I hate their bookmarklet, the weird delays when I post anything, the comment system, and I hate the Photo gallery tech. I love the FriendFeed community, but would love bringing the FriendFeed technology over to Facebook even more. If only Facebook could buy Flickr next...
- Andrew
as long as fb start thinking in creative commons terms... one day ..
- Terry O'Fee
they are both great services I think will be a good thing
- Logan Lindquist
oh NO! I don't spend much time at FB (everybody there's too busy playing stupid games, at least in my little network), and besides it's more private unlike FF. And now they've gone and bought FF? And I just joined! I guess I won't be around here for long, since FF won't...
- Dennis Jernberg
No mention of Yahoo. Totally irrelevant these days. Sad.
- Scott Schnaars
This deal makes sense! Now fb developers do not need to figure out how ff does it because they can just ask!
- Garin Kilpatrick
One of my facebook accounts got closed up. Into this account I fed my friendfeed. And into friendfeed I fed for example my socialmedian shares, diggs, stumbles etc.
- Wilhelm Bauer
Time for the next generation app. *Taps foot impatiently for Google Wave*
- Karen Masullo
I don't think it's about getting Friendfeed it's self; but having the developers and the information about real-time search.
- Chris Martin
So many great people in my life were born on June 16 - a very talented ex-boss of mine, and my best tennis buddy. Happy birthday, Rah!
- MaryB, BrandingBroadOfFF
Happy Birthday, Rah. And again; put some clothes on! :)
- Christopher Harley
"I wish we could do what they do in Katroo. They sure know how to say 'Happy Birthday to You!' In Katroo, every year, on the day you were born They start the day right in the bright early morn When the Birthday Honk-Honker hikes high up Mt. Zorn And lets loose a big blast on the big Birthday Horn. And the voice of the horn calls out loud as it plays: 'Wake up! For today is your Day of...
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- Katy S
I love that pic.....!!! lOLOLOLOLOLOL
- WorldofHiglet
This is what Dominoes has done with leftover dough, cheese, and sauce - see the bread sticks, cheesy bread sticks, and tomato sauce dips (I think; I forget the precise form of secondary use the tomato sauce was put to). Except less delicious.
- Andrew C
That's not a cycle!! I have leftover cheese. I should get chips and make nachos. -> I have leftover chips. I should get chips and make nachos...see the pattern?
- Mona Nomura
This happens to me with hummus all the time.
- Michael McKean
Same things happens with cereal, since I can never get the milk to cereal ratio correct. First bowl: too much milk, not enough cereal. Add more cereal, and I'm on my second bowl. Then I have too much milk again, and not enough cereal...so I add more cereal, then more milk, more cereal, and by the time I'm done, I am STUFFED.
- Mona Nomura
Ditto on the hummus, Michael. "Oops, I finished off the hummus, but I still have all this bread... Hmm, I have this tub of hummus, I should get some more bread!"
- Penguin It's Cold Outside
Mona - well, first Dominos just used extra dough for breadsticks. And then came cheesy bread & cheese in the pizza rim, and then they found a secondary use for sauce too, at which point they basically had secondary uses for all the major pizza ingredients. But it wouldn't be news if they announced they were now coming out with pizzas...
- Andrew C
Andrew? I think we are talking about two different things... i.e. cheese and chip ratio for nachos, hummus and bread/pita chips, milk and cereal, hot dogs and buns. Dominos extra dough is creative uses for waste prevention (which Dominos didn't pioneer since pizzerias use left over dough for garlic knots, breadsticks, and such)
- Mona Nomura
I know, but it just struck me as funny once Dominos rolled out so many secondary use products that they basically had all the ingredients for more pizzas.
- Andrew C
"Earlier this year I spent a month living in Tehran. I’m a 21 year-old British-Iranian from London, and it was my first time back to the Islamic Republic since my twelfth birthday. By day, I dutifully donned a shawl and an overcoat, in public playing the part – like all Iranian girls my age – of the respectful and obedient woman. But at night, and in private, the shawls were off. The same girls – with their brothers and cousins – joined me in underground raves, fuelled by smuggled alcohol and copious amounts of cannabis. Among the city’s youth, the elections hardly entered conversation. When I asked Mazyiar, a twenty-six year-old, if he would vote, he shrugged, saying, “All the candidates are approved by the Ayatollah, what’s the point?”"
- edythe
from Bookmarklet
"All the young Iranians who told me they wouldn’t vote surged behind Mir-Hossein Mousavi; maybe they saw him as the lesser of two evils, the only candidate able to oust the hardliner. One thing is certain: for young middle class Iranians the strained veneer of the Islamist regime is crumbling. They are sick of leading double lives, and having a President they consider to be a global embarrassment. "
- edythe
I am praying you are correct. I have a feeling the youth in China felt the same way in Tienanmen Square before the Chinese military became so damn serious. I hope the Cannabis is not clouding your Judgement..
- Brent - Loving Life
Yes, in a choice between seed change and running over a thousand people with tanks - "Supreme Leader" is going to take the later......
- Matthew DeVries
heh, brent. you must think i'm quite the personality because i think you read many of my posts as my own experiences... anyway, this Iran situation is the pits. but obama is addressing it right now, right?
- edythe
that's quite all right, brent. :) fun to see myself [incorrectly] thru someone else's eyes as some sort of progressive Middle Eastern-American pot smoker. :)
- edythe
Awesome shot ... Brave lady!!! Fabulous stuff last two days.
- Charlie Anzman
"By giving a new generation of Iranians the right to protest, Web 2.0 has become a powerful reformist tool, because for the first time, the people of the Islamic Republic are being watched – and can communicate with – a worldwide audience. The government can no longer suppress a population which refuses to be silent. "
- Alan Le
An email I just received from a soon-to-be-former friend: "The problem with you, is that you don't care what other people think. You're comfortable in your skin. You think you're cute and that that is all that matters. Meanwhile, the rest of us with body image issues are annoyed by that. You need to get over yourself."
Mark, that's what I was thinking. I read that going, "Problem? That's a problem?" But this was a tip of the iceberg sort of thing. The last 6 months has been nothing but her telling me that I should be concerned I'm not a size 2.
- Admiral Anika
People striving to be size 2 are hungry (believe me, I know). That makes them angry. Don't take it personal.
- Jess
It was going so well until the last sentence.
- Rodfather
YGTBFKM!!! And how old is this woman now? Who is upset that she has body issues and YOU DON'T? Who is still concerned about being a size 2? Sorry, she can't have that body back from high school (if she ever had it). I got tired of that crap a long time ago. Insecure people annoy the hell out of me.
- Helen Sventitsky
Oh, this was in reply to me sending her a photo of me and Adrian. I captioned, "Looking good after months of wearing jeans and t-shirts" THIS was her response to the photo.
- Admiral Anika
Jeez, that's almost abusive in a way. "How dare you be comfortable". My response would probably be "get a life!"
- Rick Cogley
LOL @Jess. @Rick, that's why she's a soon-to-be-former friend. We had a falling out over something similar 12 or 13 years ago. I told her to get back in touch with me when she grew up. She contacted me last fall and we've been chatting ever since. Then it got negative. I generally just ignore her little digs and whatever, but this was such a strange thing to say. I'm done with her.
- Admiral Anika
Ha, welcome to my world. God forbid somebody should be ok with themselves, or even be happy.. For whatever reason some people hate that. Whatever with the haters, work it girl!
- Maria
from BuddyFeed
When one lives their life to cater to what other people think is truly not living THEIR life. She is in serious need of some deep therapy.
- Janet
Anika: Okay, this may be *way* out there, but... is it possible that this is her fucked-up, wishy-washy way of telling you that she feels like you're bragging, or acting superior?
- Roger Benningfield
Roger, see above for what this is response to. I do get accused of acting superior usually by people with low self-esteem, no matter what I say or how I say it. I just think this was a weird response to a photo.
- Admiral Anika
Wow. Buh-bye former friend with issues!
- Lis Miller
I really thought this was a joke. but.. wow... she has issues.
- D. Eda Goze
That ain't right. Tell her to keep her insecurities to herself and not project them on others.
- Eric @ CSTechcast.com
Anika: My gut says it wasn't the photo as much as the "Looking good after months of wearing jeans and t-shirts". Which is a far cry from "Check out my fine ass, don't you wish you were me?", but it sounds like she took it that way. If she sees you that way, I wonder what made her want to reconnect with you?
- Roger Benningfield
Oh it's totally obvious now. Psh, get over yourself! ;)
- Rodfather
What's wrong with picture? You being happy getting on her nerves?
- Eric @ CSTechcast.com
Eric: That might have a lot to do with it... it seems insane, but some people really resent seeing happiness.
- Roger Benningfield
As an aside, that's a really cute picture!
- Anne Bouey
Eek! My head looks like a balloon in that picture
- Adrian
Thank you, Anne. My 3 yo took it. Adrian, we BOTH have balloon heads. Good thing we found each other.
- Admiral Anika
Lame-o. Not caring what people think and being comfortable in your own skin are signs of, I don't know, maturity? And health? She oughta look at you for inspiration, not try to drag you down to her level.
- Jandy, ConcertMaven of FF
The ONLY person who has the right to tell you to change your body is your doctor, and if your doctor is telling you that you're fine, or is telling you that you're heading toward what you'd consider acceptable deficits "Listen if you don't lose 40lbs, you're never going to climb Everest! But you'll be able to walk around Disney without getting tired and do your yard work till you're 90" then you don't need to change a damn thing. Your friend needs a cock punch.
- Matthew DeVries
Buhhhhhhh what? Former-friend is the right term - you don't need that drama.
- Sparky
Dear "Friend," I *am* comfortable in my own skin and pleased w/ my appearance. Thank you for noticing, and I am sorry it is such a hardship for you. As I would hate to inconvenience you further with my happiness and healthy self-esteem, we should part ways. Good luck with that whole crabapple thing. Love, Anika.
- Ayşe E.
*smooches* Ayşe. That's WAY more diplomatic than my emails that are starting out, "Listen, bitch..."
- Admiral Anika
Yeah, I say give the bitch a burn notice!
- Adrian
Anika, that was my 4th draft. The first three started out like yours! Sheesh. You take your fabulous self away from that negative energy. You don't need that crap.
- Ayşe E.
Thanks Mark. "Puritanism: The haunting fear that someone, somewhere, may be happy." —H. L. Mencken
- Rick Cogley
as rude and biting as that is, i would offer a bit of compassion first, as it seems this person is undergoing certain moments in her life that she probably hasn't quite come to terms with. this is in no way condoning her actions though and she should be made to acknowledge that before anything
- Cee Bee
LOL at "Listen, bitch..." I almost wrote an email like that last week.
- Kenya
I don't know any of the parties involved, but I think, Anika, that being super tolerant and forgiving would match the attitude that your "friend" noticed. Not saying that I would be big enough to do that, but I'm throwing it out there.
- Mark Horne
LOL...wow, Anika! Not sure how to answer, but they can kiss it and get over it themselves!
- JA Castillo
May I pile on? First, very cute picture; second, the woman who reacted badly is insane (narcissist perhaps?); third, I nominate Ayşe diplomacy expert of the year. (I may have some mother issues at some point . . .)
- MaryB, BrandingBroadOfFF
Mark & Cee Bee, I get what you're saying, but one of my fatal flaws is that I *am* unforgiving and quick to disappear a person who annoys me. One of my other fatal flaws is that I usually give the person a severe dressing down before walking away. Usually it's clear when something is leading up to a blowout. This was just so far out of left field, that it's hard to pick between the two.
- Admiral Anika
I'd bitchslap her and say something along the lines of "I don't give a damn if you're uncomfortable with your body. I'm sorry you feel that way but I'M NOT YOU. Take some Prozac and get over it." And then I'd run away. Fast.
- Zach Flauaus
So many issues with this. Blah. Talking about dieting is boring! When will women stop! If we put all of the energy we put into dieting into, say, world hunger... just sayin'
- anna sauce
When people are so raw about their insecurities, it makes me nervous. Like, wow, that sucks for you. And yet, you are so insecure, etc. can't even joke about it.
- anna sauce
OK one more comment... interesting that "the problem is with you." I mean, that's so obvious that it's her problem, and she doesn't even notice it.
- anna sauce
Wow, some people really do put their batshit crazy right out there, don't they?
- Alix Whitmire
I have no problem saying simple 'fuck you' to close friends when deserved. Of course, I expect the same from them too.
- Rodfather
Yeah... that sounds like their problem which they need to get over.
- Michael W. May
Say thank you, but I'd throw in a headbutt just in case
- Mo Kargas
Wow, Anika. I'd like to feel sorry for her insecurities but the way she lashed out at you is ridiculous. +Ayse's letter. Lol!
- Carmen
++Ayse! I always say, human beings are inherently sadistic. They just don't like other people being happy.
- Parth Awasthi
:( that was in response to a photo of you? anna's right; toooooooootttttal projection. also, sad.
- edythe
I'll say one thing, she nailed it: "you think you're cute" (you are) and "you're comfortable in your skin". Both of those things show in that pic. You look so happy and cute! She's just a jealous bitch. End of story.
- Laura Norvig
Mark Horne & Rick Cogley, plus one. "Thanks Mark. "Puritanism: The haunting fear that someone, somewhere, may be happy." —H. L. Mencken - Rick Cogley"
- edythe
Actually, everyone is not awesome. Luckily, we're civil enough to not start THAT meme.
- Akiva Moskovitz
I'm not impaitient Josh. My realtime sidebar (old style) just wont stay still with all the liking, cant see anything else other than those fly by. :(
- Simon Wicks
Of course its all in jest really, i do find it funny, and should be working anyway. Just a bit more distracting than usual is all :)
- Simon Wicks
Fair enough. Let's all get back to work!
- Josh Haley
Early 40s seems to be where most hot women i know are declining in looks. Unfortunately, that seems to be my age. :-( Ahh. To combine the wisdom & spirituality of a 100-yr old, with the beauty of youth. She looks great...
- Mitchell Tsai
I don't think she has kids, but I could be wrong:)
- Michael Fidler
Cee Bee's got a good point about the pictures. So many pictures of public women in their 40s are from their early-40s or their 30s.
- Mitchell Tsai
I think those pics are old. And photoshopped. I mean, what faux-toes aren't Photoshopped these days?
- thepete
@thpete: But with these photos, she's ACTING! —signed, Jon Lovitz
- .LAG liked that
Stop following me, LAG!! Yer freaking me out!!! ;)
- thepete
Neither of those are recent photos of Ashley Judd. That said, a woman with true character really hits her hot zone in her 40s. Those who can take it into their 50s and beyond (Sophia Loren, Emmylou Harris, e.g., or my wife, specifically) are the keepers. But yeah, hawt.
- Alan Chamberlain
Mitchell & thePete, I pulled a bunch of pictures of her from different places for this. The ones I shared were all fairly resent based on the info included with them. However, I agree with Cee Bee. Most women use pictures from when they are younger, however Ashley Judd is fortunate that she doesn't have to.
- Michael Fidler
<insert wayne's world impression here/>
- Mark Philpot
they are obviously retouched. but many people including me shared some other recent pictures that were taken by the paparazzi, she looks really good for her age. then again she no longer has that good skin and has a few wrinkles (duh). so yeah I'm pretty sure these are retouched.
- D. Eda Goze
photoshopped - I am sure she looks quite good, so why do they feel they have to paint out the few spots and wrinkles she has or tighten parts of her anatomy? She would still look very good to most of us, she would still look hot...
- Joelle Nebbe (iphigenie)
Interesting: Taking a page from the Great Depression, cash-strapped communities now printing their own local currencies http://www.usatoday.com/money...
Thanks for sharing some of the responses that you received. Your transparency through this was "inspirational" (though I hesitate to apply that term to any mere mortal). I am glad that you share such things. It is good to see demonstrations of the fact that while maintaining integrity carries risks, it can have much more fundamental rewards. Thanks for sharing your human faults and frailties. Few current "leaders" point to their own mistakes and shortcomings. Thanks for being someone who does.
- Lorin Olsen
Just watched it. Talk about uncomfortable!
- Graham English
Watching it now. WOW. Jim Cramer looks like he wants to cry.
- Steven Perez
He should cry. I felt sorry for him at first. Then Jon totally spelled it out at the end and I just felt disgusted.
- Graham English
I like how Stewart kept driving this conversation away from "Cramer v. Stewart", which is what NBC has been pushing all week, and pushed the conversation more towards "CNBC was criminally negligent". NBC tried their damnest to make this personal, but Stewart wasn't having any of it.
- Steven Perez
Yep. Completely uncomfortable. I hope Stewart goes after that astro-turfing fool Santelli next. Night, night, all.
- Steven Perez
Satnelli is irrelevant toast now. He got burnt by proxy.
- Graham English
People are silly, they prefer to queue. Evolutionary remain.
- Richard A.
a good this is worth waiting for....at least that's what they say. perhaps this station differs because they bring the coffee to you while you pump...
- Nishland